re: My ex wants to meet up and talk....

Why do you need to say it to her face? That's the puzzling part to me. As a female - if someone has cheated on me? I really don't need to hear anything else from them or about them. They are not worth my time.

The way you've described this chick, she's a lying, cheating, manipulative, whoring piece of trash. There is nothing to be gained by any further involvement, as their seems to be nothing redeeming about her. And you want to get together with her, to talk? Are you: 1.lying about her? 2.just as bad as her? Or 3.dumb as a box of rocks?

Eta-not necessarily dumb in all areas of your life, I don't mean that. But apparently you are not particularly bright when it comes to tramps.