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re: OT: Anyone ever been through a divorce here?
Posted on 3/6/14 at 8:15 pm to wmr
Posted on 3/6/14 at 8:15 pm to wmr
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Its what grown ups do instead of getting an addiction, overdrinking constantly, or taking out their anger onother people. Its worth it. If you have a good one, it can make you a better person.
Precisely.
It isn't a 'fix', it's a continual life improvement until you die in my opinion. This can mean books, therapy, meditation, nature etc. You do not pay for a fix you pay for a life change from someone who has much more experience in a balanced lifestyle of related stresses and occurrences.
I will also note you can outgrow a counselor therefore you need to find one with more experience and depth as you progress.
I hope he doesn't go the lawyer route until all personal options have been exhausted.
This post was edited on 3/6/14 at 8:19 pm
Posted on 3/6/14 at 8:17 pm to SunHog
SunHog gets it. Emotions are like anything else. You have to learn how they work, what they do, and how to use them the right way. Most of us don't get that naturally or from being "raised".
Posted on 3/6/14 at 8:49 pm to SunHog
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I hope he doesn't go the lawyer route until all personal options have been exhausted
do both, can never be under prepared
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