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re: OT: Anyone ever been through a divorce here?

Posted on 3/6/14 at 8:15 pm to
Posted by SunHog
Illinois
Member since Jan 2011
9202 posts
Posted on 3/6/14 at 8:15 pm to
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Its what grown ups do instead of getting an addiction, overdrinking constantly, or taking out their anger onother people. Its worth it. If you have a good one, it can make you a better person.



Precisely.

It isn't a 'fix', it's a continual life improvement until you die in my opinion. This can mean books, therapy, meditation, nature etc. You do not pay for a fix you pay for a life change from someone who has much more experience in a balanced lifestyle of related stresses and occurrences.

I will also note you can outgrow a counselor therefore you need to find one with more experience and depth as you progress.

I hope he doesn't go the lawyer route until all personal options have been exhausted.
This post was edited on 3/6/14 at 8:19 pm
Posted by wmr
North of Dickson, South of Herman's
Member since Mar 2009
32518 posts
Posted on 3/6/14 at 8:17 pm to
SunHog gets it. Emotions are like anything else. You have to learn how they work, what they do, and how to use them the right way. Most of us don't get that naturally or from being "raised".
Posted by Pigfeet
Ark Mods are Fascists
Member since Mar 2010
19783 posts
Posted on 3/6/14 at 8:49 pm to
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I hope he doesn't go the lawyer route until all personal options have been exhausted


do both, can never be under prepared
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