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re: OT: Anyone ever been through a divorce here?
Posted on 3/6/14 at 8:06 pm to DaleDenton
Posted on 3/6/14 at 8:06 pm to DaleDenton
We did the counseling thing a couple years ago when we were having issues. It worked for a while, then we went sideways again.
All I really stand to lose are business of course, children, house and maybe only a car?
A few years back when we were having some issue(pre child)I had been wanting a boat. My father, who was married before he met my mother, thought if I wanted a boat it should be in his name. Reason, the boat would stay with us if we hit splitsville. Same with our lake house on Greeson just outside of Daisy. Same reason only my name is on deed to Timeshares, etc.
So, as far as toys, I don't stand to get taken to the cleaners, although if paid for some, all is registered in my fathers name only to legally be mine after he passes.
It's weird. Having a child was an accident, but I don't regret my little girl one bit now.
My biggest concern is not money, or losing a business, or losing a car or dog....but her moving back to her home state with my little girl and me not being able to see her when I want. I know this woman all too well. The first thing she will do is move back to her hometown where she lived before coming to the UofA.
That's what frightens me.
All I really stand to lose are business of course, children, house and maybe only a car?
A few years back when we were having some issue(pre child)I had been wanting a boat. My father, who was married before he met my mother, thought if I wanted a boat it should be in his name. Reason, the boat would stay with us if we hit splitsville. Same with our lake house on Greeson just outside of Daisy. Same reason only my name is on deed to Timeshares, etc.
So, as far as toys, I don't stand to get taken to the cleaners, although if paid for some, all is registered in my fathers name only to legally be mine after he passes.
It's weird. Having a child was an accident, but I don't regret my little girl one bit now.
My biggest concern is not money, or losing a business, or losing a car or dog....but her moving back to her home state with my little girl and me not being able to see her when I want. I know this woman all too well. The first thing she will do is move back to her hometown where she lived before coming to the UofA.
That's what frightens me.
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Posted on 3/6/14 at 8:11 pm to Hawgeye
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So, as far as toys, I don't stand to get taken to the cleaners, although if paid for some, all is registered in my fathers name only to legally be mine after he passes.
Yeah, that's smart.
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My biggest concern is not money, or losing a business, or losing a car or dog....but her moving back to her home state with my little girl and me not being able to see her when I want. I know this woman all too well. The first thing she will do is move back to her hometown where she lived before coming to the UofA.
From what I've observed, women will use the children as leverage if you care about the children, if you don't they will try to pawn them off on you so they can be "free" and relive their early 20s.
Posted on 3/6/14 at 8:13 pm to Hawgeye
I have done several counseling sessions with folks prior to a wedding, and marriage counseling as well. Sometimes it helps, other times it causes the split to happen sooner.
If infidelity is not involved, I would suggest going this route again. Especially considering the child in this situation.
I hate it that some many marriages end this way. I am extremely blessed in this department! But would like few things more than to see our nation changed to have true meaningful relationships in marriages, and families.
If infidelity is not involved, I would suggest going this route again. Especially considering the child in this situation.
I hate it that some many marriages end this way. I am extremely blessed in this department! But would like few things more than to see our nation changed to have true meaningful relationships in marriages, and families.
Posted on 3/6/14 at 8:47 pm to Hawgeye
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My biggest concern is not money, or losing a business, or losing a car or dog....but her moving back to her home state with my little girl
Then that's your battle ground, I had my decree written as to where my ex could not leave the state (with my daughter) until my daughter was 18. be prepared to give up other things to win this battle.
This post was edited on 3/6/14 at 8:48 pm
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