re: OT: Anyone ever been through a divorce here?

We did the counseling thing a couple years ago when we were having issues. It worked for a while, then we went sideways again.

All I really stand to lose are business of course, children, house and maybe only a car?

A few years back when we were having some issue(pre child)I had been wanting a boat. My father, who was married before he met my mother, thought if I wanted a boat it should be in his name. Reason, the boat would stay with us if we hit splitsville. Same with our lake house on Greeson just outside of Daisy. Same reason only my name is on deed to Timeshares, etc.

So, as far as toys, I don't stand to get taken to the cleaners, although if paid for some, all is registered in my fathers name only to legally be mine after he passes.

It's weird. Having a child was an accident, but I don't regret my little girl one bit now.

My biggest concern is not money, or losing a business, or losing a car or dog....but her moving back to her home state with my little girl and me not being able to see her when I want. I know this woman all too well. The first thing she will do is move back to her hometown where she lived before coming to the UofA.

That's what frightens me.