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re: IM driving to the store because my wife locked her keys in her car.
Posted on 10/22/13 at 10:09 pm to BuccWildBammer
Posted on 10/22/13 at 10:09 pm to BuccWildBammer
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Uh oh she didn't give you the "I'm scared of getting too close" talk did she?
Nah, it was kind of weird. Apparently she has struggled with depression and it has recently really gotten bad she says. She says she has had suicidal thoughts and the like. She also just gotten on anti-depressants. She was all weirded out and telling me how I deserved someone better and deserved to be with someone normal (which really scared the shite out of me).
It was a really nerve-racking conversation, but I told her that I was with her through all of this and that it didn't change the way I felt about her a bit. I think I was finally able to break through a bit and make her feel some what better.
I'm not sure if there was something that has caused her depression to worsen recently or if she was just freaking out because she knew she was depressed and was worried how I would handle it.
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You should probably demand a paternity test before you raise some other dude's kid.
You missed Sorantables thread. We already discussed that she isn't preggers.
This post was edited on 10/22/13 at 10:10 pm
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Posted on 10/22/13 at 10:15 pm to GeauxWarTigers
Uh oh cray cray
I Keed
If she has an underlying issue about depression she's not gonna have self esteem enough and that is usually common even if it scared you don't let it...the only thing you might have to work harder at is building her self-esteem and some cases it's worth it I have experience
Depression can be crippling emotionally at times and when/if it gets that bad you just have to be strong so the fact that she's sharing this with you means she is starting to trust you...which is key with someone with low self-esteem so don't break it for any reason
I Keed
If she has an underlying issue about depression she's not gonna have self esteem enough and that is usually common even if it scared you don't let it...the only thing you might have to work harder at is building her self-esteem and some cases it's worth it I have experience
Depression can be crippling emotionally at times and when/if it gets that bad you just have to be strong so the fact that she's sharing this with you means she is starting to trust you...which is key with someone with low self-esteem so don't break it for any reason
Posted on 10/22/13 at 10:15 pm to GeauxWarTigers
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Nah, it was kind of weird. Apparently she has struggled with depression and it has recently really gotten bad she says. She says she has had suicidal thoughts and the like. She also just gotten on anti-depressants. She was all weirded out and telling me how I deserved someone better and deserved to be with someone normal (which really scared the shite out of me).
I've been there. Got through it by opening up. Be careful GWT, you're about to take on a very important role in this girl's life. And on principle I will kick your arse if you screw up what you have going with her.
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