re: Oher blindsided, gaslit by Tuohy family; wishes he had gone to Tennessee

He was only OK because he was told that he got the same deal as his "family".

I can see how an 18 year old or 24 year old would take that approach. Family means something.

Unfortunately, he later discovered what a conservatorship really was. And he discovered that he has no legal family relationship with the Tuohys.

I can also see how that changes things (in addition to the fact that the Tuohys did make money and residuals).