Trough Urinal
| Favorite team: | LSU  |
| Location: | Mickelwaukee |
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| Number of Posts: | 47 |
| Registered on: | 5/1/2025 |
| Online Status: | Not Online |
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re: Ex teaching daughter to call the step-dad “dad”. Thoughts?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 7/27/26 at 1:35 pm to Rick9Plus
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My point is that if this guy is helping care for your daughter, thank him and respect him. I doubt his goal is to steal her from you.
I’ve accepted that he is stepdad, no issues there with him fulfilling that role. But my ex is the one allowing this to go unchecked.
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re: Ex teaching daughter to call the step-dad “dad”. Thoughts?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 7/27/26 at 1:34 pm to Afrojedi
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However, i think there is more to this story that either OP is telling us or doesnt know themselves.
There really isn’t. She came from a home with a step dad that she called dad. She used that as an example, but her own dad didn’t come into the picture until later. I chose someone that turned out to be a narcissistic witch. She’s insulting my daughter’s intelligence by suggesting she will be confused to associate stepdad with another name.
re: Ex teaching daughter to call the step-dad “dad”. Thoughts?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 7/26/26 at 10:24 pm to WinnaSez
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You made a bad decision.
I chose poorly. Sure.
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Own up to it and make damn sure your child doesn’t suffer because of it. It’s on you. Not your ex or her current husband (and there will be others, I’m willing to bet).
Not sure how any of this pertains to my original question and situation.
re: Ex teaching daughter to call the step-dad “dad”. Thoughts?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 7/26/26 at 10:15 pm to BregmansWheelbarrow
I made sure of it baw.
re: Ex teaching daughter to call the step-dad “dad”. Thoughts?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 7/26/26 at 10:11 pm to Cosmo
Mid 30’s
re: Ex teaching daughter to call the step-dad “dad”. Thoughts?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 7/26/26 at 10:03 pm to WinnaSez
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why are you shocked this is going sideways
Who said I was shocked?
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You knocked up some woman who within a matter of 2, 3 years leaves you for a married man and now you’re worried about who the baby calls Daddy??
Well, we were married at the time. Yes, I’m worried about it. In the grand scheme of things, this is probably a minor thing to worry about, because she seems to be raised well otherwise. She has people in her life that love her.
Your responses indicate deeper problems. Are you projecting? Or just doing a poor job of trolling?
re: Ex teaching daughter to call the step-dad “dad”. Thoughts?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 7/26/26 at 10:00 pm to Evil Little Thing
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Are you not in an area where 50/50 is common?
I can take her back to court on that in due time. I don’t think I have the time available to successfully have 50-50. Work keeps me busy.
re: Ex teaching daughter to call the step-dad “dad”. Thoughts?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 7/26/26 at 9:52 pm to WinnaSez
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If that’s the case, many bad decisions were made by you as well as the mother.
I can see why you would think that, but rest assured, she walked out on me for a coworker. He was married too.
re: Ex teaching daughter to call the step-dad “dad”. Thoughts?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 7/26/26 at 9:36 pm to StringedInstruments
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I would also assume your ex has plans or at least dreams of cutting you out of the picture.
I’m sure she does. Thankfully I’m not a POS that has drug problems or issues with the law and I’m not abusive, so I don’t see this happening.
Ex teaching daughter to call the step-dad “dad”. Thoughts?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 7/26/26 at 9:28 pm
Title pretty much says it all. Little girl is 3 and has made one too many references to “mommy and daddy” so I asked my ex what she has her call her step-dad. She claims she allows her to call him “dad” to avoid confusion. I think that answer is clearly bullshite, and would create more confusion for my daughter. I made this very clear, but I also think it’s pathetic that my ex and him have put my daughter into an emotional tug of war when they could have easily told her to call him something else.
Her responses in person and via text have danced around the topic and consisted of irrelevant bullshite. At the end of the day, I’m still seeing her once a week and every other weekend, so I can’t force them to fix this situation and be amenable to my wants. I guess her being a whore wasn’t enough punishment for me :lol:
Anybody dealt with this type of fun?
Her responses in person and via text have danced around the topic and consisted of irrelevant bullshite. At the end of the day, I’m still seeing her once a week and every other weekend, so I can’t force them to fix this situation and be amenable to my wants. I guess her being a whore wasn’t enough punishment for me :lol:
Anybody dealt with this type of fun?
re: Mauricio Pochettino
Posted by Trough Urinal on 6/20/26 at 12:58 am to JamalMurry27
Sure, but you’re still a shitty poster
re: We need separate but equal theme parks
Posted by Trough Urinal on 6/2/26 at 9:41 pm to Legion of Doom
Agreed. I can appreciate a woman with curves in the right places, and if you wanna be overweight, that’s on you. But the scooters…frick all that.
We need separate but equal theme parks
Posted by Trough Urinal on 6/2/26 at 9:36 pm
The fats on the scooters are absolutely out of control. The earlier poster claiming this would be a bloody summer is right. I think the scooter army is ready for an uprising (metaphorically of sorts). I think this should extend to grocery stores and airlines and pretty much any other public place. You shouldn’t be allowed to enter if you can’t walk because of a weight issue.
re: Can one become less social without being an arse?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 1/14/26 at 5:22 pm to Boss13
I’ve accepted being social for work. And I’ve accepted being social around family and friends. What I need to be better at is just telling people no.
I feel bad for my friend, but my advice is never taken anyway. I’m basically there to be a sounding board because his ex girlfriend was a bipolar cheater. Do I really need to be there for cousin John’s birthday celebration? Can I not just chill with dog at home and have a beer and not get backlash?
I feel bad for my friend, but my advice is never taken anyway. I’m basically there to be a sounding board because his ex girlfriend was a bipolar cheater. Do I really need to be there for cousin John’s birthday celebration? Can I not just chill with dog at home and have a beer and not get backlash?
Can one become less social without being an arse?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 1/14/26 at 5:17 pm
I work in sales, so there’s always events and schmoozing to be done. I’m frequently busy and often have places to swing by on weekends. It’s a pain in the arse, but pays the bills.
I’m tired of seemingly having to be on-call for events. I am a planner and map out my schedule way in advance. Throw in family time, and that doesn’t leave me much for myself in terms of clearing my own mind.
I have one friend who is still hung up on a relationship that ended three years ago, and he frequently wants to hang out because he needs some social therapy. I get it. Then, the in-laws are having a family dinner because the second cousin happens to be in town. They my sister makes a rare trip in town, and my folks want to have a family dinner. Then it’s time for someone’s birthday. There’s always a birthday.
I need a Rolodex of excuses like Seinfeld. It’s not that I don’t want to be social at all…but any little nugget of free time I have is gobbled up because of someone else’s needs. And yes, those always seem to take higher priority.
I’m tired of seemingly having to be on-call for events. I am a planner and map out my schedule way in advance. Throw in family time, and that doesn’t leave me much for myself in terms of clearing my own mind.
I have one friend who is still hung up on a relationship that ended three years ago, and he frequently wants to hang out because he needs some social therapy. I get it. Then, the in-laws are having a family dinner because the second cousin happens to be in town. They my sister makes a rare trip in town, and my folks want to have a family dinner. Then it’s time for someone’s birthday. There’s always a birthday.
I need a Rolodex of excuses like Seinfeld. It’s not that I don’t want to be social at all…but any little nugget of free time I have is gobbled up because of someone else’s needs. And yes, those always seem to take higher priority.
Still looking for LSU/Baylor Texas Bowl pin…and a special shoutout
Posted by Trough Urinal on 12/7/25 at 1:57 pm
Before the season, GeorgeTheGreek said I’d be able to get one this year. That dude is an amazing prognosticator.
Still looking for a pin from last year’s game. I coulda sworn I had one, bought from one of the stands, but it ain’t around here. Anybody have an extra they will part with for a price?
Still looking for a pin from last year’s game. I coulda sworn I had one, bought from one of the stands, but it ain’t around here. Anybody have an extra they will part with for a price?
re: Do you fellas moisturize?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 12/4/25 at 11:11 am to LSU Grad Alabama Fan
LA is a blue collar state. People work in the fields, offshore, etc. Our hobbies are outdoors hunting and fishing. We work and play where it’s hot, humid, sunny. Throwing on something to avoid sunburn and chafing is normal, but a guy can’t get some quality recs on a daily skincare regimen to stay healthy. Sad times.
re: Do you fellas moisturize?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 12/4/25 at 11:05 am to UptownJoeBrown
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Answer the fricking question. What is “fam”?
My bad. Typo. Meant to call you a fig.
re: Do you fellas moisturize?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 12/4/25 at 10:52 am to UptownJoeBrown
I’m just trying to follow your ways. Work hard. Get rich. Sleep with the women. You gotta be of sound body, mind, and finances. I’m trying to put the finishing touches on an otherwise excellent physique.
re: Do you fellas moisturize?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 12/4/25 at 10:29 am to UptownJoeBrown
Naw fam, it means I work hard and hustle. I figured a millionaire like you with lots of mid women could respect the game and realize it can dry you out. The ladies don’t want a man that’s scratching his junk all the time.
re: Do you fellas moisturize?
Posted by Trough Urinal on 12/4/25 at 9:54 am to sidewalkside
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Gay
If caring about my skin game is gay, count me in.
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