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As long as they are ready for it and responsible enough to handle it. Many, if not most, 22 year-olds aren't ready for the responsibilities of home ownership. We already have a thread on this page about a 20-something year old that is trying to figure out how to get out of their mortgage payments.

I have 4 kids in their 20's and two of them I have no worries and 2 of them still need a little guidance - more interested in partying and living it up, as opposed to saving money and planning for their future. All have college degrees and bright employment futures, so they'll come around when they are ready.


Yep, will be a judgement call whenever that time arrives. I also will not be pushing the home ownership agenda. I think geographic mobility is quite valuable at that younger stage of life.

My bigger picture 'ah ha' in the last few years is that inheritance is much more useful and valuable in early adulthood than it is when someone is older.
Why is it crazy?

Make $100K and insure for $1-1.5? If you are in your thirties with young kids then that’s reasonable.
$1M on wife term
$3M on me term, laddered policy mix of 20 and 30 year terms
Also have some through work that I don’t really value into the decision making.
$5M umbrella
One thing I will likely do that I didn't get benefit of: I will likely cover material down payment for home buy whenever they are ready to settle down.

Inheritance is more valuable when 22 than 52.
I plan to pay for everything until they have a full time job. I will expect them to treat their performance in college like it is a full-time job...but they are earning "As" instead of being paid.

I expect internships during the summer months. I do not expect my kids to work during the semester.

This is what my parents did with me and I'm thankful for the arrangement.

re: Retirement Account Goals?

Posted by lynxcat on 8/18/26 at 1:55 pm to
Financial independence as quickly as possible is the North Star. I hope it allows me to enter a completely different phase of life with my children while they are still at home.
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Spending, debt, and inflation starting to really show up.
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Once hit $3 million, it was 3X the speed to the next million as compared to speed to 1st million and the following were faster and faster from there. The exponential part is fun!



The exponential part is really fascinating. We slowed down contributions recently for a variety of factors and have some increasing monthly costs we are preparing for....yet NW this month increased more than I've earned this month.

Now, when the market is bad, you better have some fortitude because losing hundreds of thousands or millions takes some confidence to ride the wave.

re: Retirement Account Goals?

Posted by lynxcat on 8/17/26 at 8:51 am to
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So if your monthly expenses are 10k (120k) year, you are shooting for 3.9m?



Yes, that's the right idea. A multiple of expenses is the simplest way for modeling from my perspective without it just being a made up number. Of course, plenty of choices can be made to increase or decrease spending as one goes through life and retirement so it's just a benchmark.

Most recent research points to a 4.7% safe withdrawal rate (up from the 4% rule established by that same author). Those analyses assume standard retirement age. If you are retiring early and foregoing prime earning years (and portfolio weathering a longer time series), then a more conservative SWR of ~3-3.5% enters the picture.

re: Retirement Account Goals?

Posted by lynxcat on 8/17/26 at 8:48 am to
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At 8 digits however, you are looking at 7 digit returns. You could live off $200,000 a year and grow the portfolio to $100,000,000 in a little over 25 years. If your children could survive on $2,000,000 a year, they would be billionaires in another ~25 years.

Watched a video a few months back on setting up generational family wealth. Short version it just takes that 1 person get it started and organize the family trust/estate/legal entity.


This is what the average person doesn't understand about wealth. The power of passive growth once the principle is established far exceeds anything an average single individual is earning. It's the concept of "the first $100K is the hardest" in personal savings but with extra zeros.

I generally think that if someone can get to $10M or so mark, then getting to $100M should be all but guaranteed with the right planning.

re: Retirement Account Goals?

Posted by lynxcat on 8/17/26 at 8:37 am to
I typically model liquid net worth at 33x expenses as of the time of retirement.

Disregards any home net worth and provides a 3% withdrawal rate.

Model in Projection Lab.
If they want to spend time and coin on it, then so be it.

re: Can summer please end?!?

Posted by lynxcat on 8/16/26 at 4:43 pm to
Eh, just enjoy life and look for the positive in things.
An alternative model growing is to have someone else buy the car for you. They take like a $1000 fee but you don’t do anything and they negotiate everything based on the parameters you provide.
Out the door price is what matters.

Negotiate the new car price and your trade separately.

Online negotiation across numerous dealers for the same make and model is easiest and best process.

That’s a no for me dawg.

re: Expectation of WC26 moving forward?

Posted by lynxcat on 8/12/26 at 6:43 am to
It will accelerate the growth curve if the sport in the US. A one-time bump but still a bump nonetheless. Who knows the materiality that will yield.
Huberman Labs just had an episode on this. He’s a Stanford neuroscientist and he brings a bunch of great guests to the podcast.

The main takeaway: try things that cause you to learn new things and skills. It’s best when it is both physical and mental. For example, dancing with a partner where you go learn the Tango together. It will have steps, coordination, so it connects the physical and mental. They don’t all have to have this dynamic, but those are proven more helpful. Broadly, you need to keep challenging your brain to learn to keep it sharp.
I dislike the length of the season. Games on the margin are effectively meaningless. The owners are addicted to the revenue though and can’t shorten the season.