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I would never give up huge access to the pacific to Mexico.


from a strategic geo-political stand point this is the only correct answer.
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Can you name the largest port in North America?

ETA: (it's in California)



depends on how you measure. If you go by tonnage, it is Port of Houston. 4 of the top 5 are on the Gulf Coast.
may God have mercy on the poor souls stuck in blue states.

re: ADHD and clutter

Posted by TigerBaitOohHaHa on 6/11/25 at 9:26 am
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Before anybody craps on me- these are things like school papers, old mail, calendars, to do lists, various birthday or whatever cards, trinkets I never asked for


I'm not crapping on you at all, but trying to understand better: WHY can't you throw them away on the spot? I have been getting grad announcements up the wazoo... if its a close friend, they get a check, but the announcements go straight in the bin. I don't need a picture of my former neighbors kid on my counter. To do lists get completed and thrown away. Throwing away stuff actually brings me tremendous joy. I want to understand why its hard for some.

For example, my husband has a fireplace broom from his deceased dad's office. It was made out of iron and sat outside during a renovation. It is now rusted and in several pieces but it is a NO GO zone for me if I ask to get rid of it. We must keep these rusty shards on the side of our house for eternity (its been there over 10 years). I routinely have to throw old receipts away that somehow he can't part with. I really don't get it and he gets angry when I ask. Perhaps an anonymous stranger can help me to understand.

re: ADHD and clutter

Posted by TigerBaitOohHaHa on 6/11/25 at 8:24 am
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Stop hiding my shite in drawers.


Darling, the bills are in the cubby hole labeled “Bills” It’s a complicated system but it works for many.

re: ADHD and clutter

Posted by TigerBaitOohHaHa on 6/11/25 at 8:16 am
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Has he tried medication?


Once. When our son was diagnosed. Adderall knocked him out cold. Put him to sleep. He said he hated it and made him groggy.

re: ADHD and clutter

Posted by TigerBaitOohHaHa on 6/11/25 at 8:12 am
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Are you sure he has ADHD or he's just messy


I’d ask him, but he went to bed at 4:30 am (leaving all the lights on) after staying up late buying stuff on line for his 12TH new hobby this year, of which half of that stuff will go unused/ half put together in a pile by the door to be “returned” later (but never really). We’ve had water shut off twice because he forgets to pay bills until I went to city hall to set up auto debit but he won’t let me manage bill payment because I will scrutinize impulse purchases. He sleeps maybe 3 hours a night and is up scrolling his phone, which never leaves his hand. He’s had the police called for a “loud party” by a neighbor. It was just him in the back yard on the phone. I haven’t finished a sentence in 30 years without being interrupted. Imagine Pee-Wee Herman on redbull. Anyone he has ever met in his life can attest he is ADHD level 10.

re: ADHD and clutter

Posted by TigerBaitOohHaHa on 6/11/25 at 7:49 am
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You know the rules. Pics of you.


Not gonna happen, but I hold my own.

ADHD and clutter

Posted by TigerBaitOohHaHa on 6/11/25 at 7:29 am
Are there any nonADHD spouses out there who have created a good way to manage their ADHD spouses clutter?

My husbands method for “remembering” things is to leave stuff on counters, desks, surfaces, etc. the problem with this method is many layers build up and stuff on the bottom gets missed, goes unpaid..We had “cubby holes” built into the kitchen for mail labeled: taxes, bills, renewals, but he gets really pissed off when I file papers accordingly.

His system isn’t working for us and I refuse to live in a mess.

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Lowest divorce rate among couples are gay men.



Gay men have HUGE rates of open marriages (chatGPT says 40%). They haven't grown out of their impulsivity, they simply agree to sleep with other people from the get go.

Have you never known any gay men?
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All I saw was
A big smile and a gasp.


Be honest, was it a priest?
whilst quite the eccentric bunch of odd fellows, I do not see a single blue/pink haired individual in the bunch. Have trends moved on to self cut bangs and Silence of the Lambs style tattoos?

That one dude cried so hard his mascara ran. Maybe he's born with it, maybe its Maybelline.

In any case I hope they made it home in time to feed their cats.
y'all are a jaded bunch. I guess each and every one of you were perfect spouses and had fat bank accounts and your ex wives are all evil, crazy bitches.

Where were they when we were all looking for Stanky and Millard a couple of years ago? I’d have tuned in for that.
I’m in Houston. I’m assuming this question is not intended for me
Excuse me, I think you mean to say: "California man and father, Elpidio Reyna who was simply moving rocks at his landscaping job"...

Don't worry, some lib congressperson will buy him a margarita.
What is the point of having laws if you don't enforce them?

How the frick did we become a country, or did we allow so much of our country, to not only ignore the law but to champion and celebrate criminality?

If DJT does nothing else in the next three years, closing the border and setting up conservative leadership for 8 more years should earn him a place in history.
you forget these are the exact same people that had their thumbs up their asses when the (predicted and expected) wildfires tore thru, having drained their reservoirs and left the country.

Protests are a lot like wildfires except they spread to other states. This is his chance to show Cali what an actual leader looks like. Trump's #1 issue that a majority of American people side with him on IS immigration. So not only is he doing the right thing to protect the lives and property of those in California, he has an opportunity to score some political points here and once again force liberals to take the side of foreigners over the American taxpayer.

It should have been done with the BLM riots, it might have put a quick end to the movement
back in the day when you crossed a foreign border and set up your flag, it was called "conquering".
I'd like to see the pre-ACT/PSAT scores and grades for all 23 students.