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Teacher here, so more shows and movies than I could list. Most are grossly inaccurate for any number of reasons. I've never taught in an inner city school, but I'd say season 4 of The Wire when Prez becomes a teacher is pretty accurate. Lots of frustrated, burned out people navigating a broken system that only cares about test scores and keeping the higher ups off their back.

Most overly inspirational films are pretty much fiction. With that being said, I do like being a teacher but it's like any other profession in many respects.
Our son’s birthday is in the middle of August and the cutoff for school is 9/1 here. We decided to hold off a year and sent him when he was 6 instead of 5. If we sent him at 5 he’d be the youngest in his class and from talking to the kindergarten teachers they said, we’d never regret waiting. Doesn’t really have much to do with sports, he plays but isn’t terribly athletic, but with maturity in life I think it’s been a big win. He’s going into 4th grade this year, no way he’d be ready for 5th.
Funny, it’s kind of the opposite in our district.
Elementary pretty much gets what they want, high school gets a bit less, and middle school is allocated the scraps. I teach 7th and 8th grade history so they barely know I’m alive. I kind of like it that way though, I do my own thing and admin leaves me alone.

Some teachers go way overboard on their rooms, and honestly the kids get distracted by it all. I keep my room pretty basic.

re: Car question for the experts.

Posted by grsharky on 6/18/26 at 8:01 pm to
4wd, standard suspension and tires. A reputable local shop does the work usually.

re: Car question for the experts.

Posted by grsharky on 6/18/26 at 6:55 pm to
The first time it was, but others it was pretty smooth.

Car question for the experts.

Posted by grsharky on 6/18/26 at 6:43 pm
A few times recently my 2021 4Runner developed a pretty good shake in the steering wheel. It’s happened at slow, medium, and higher speeds, and then it goes away. I can’t figure it out, I don’t think it’s the brakes because it’s doing this without hitting the brakes. I took it to a garage and told them and one of the techs drove it around and nothing happened. They checked the tires and wheels and they looked fine.

So OT mechanics, what do you think?
We just had to replace my wife's car, she was driving a 2013 Rav4 but it finally was reaching the end of the road. She didn't want to get rid of it, it was her first adult purchase coming out of pharmacy school back in 13, but it was going to need a lot of work to pass inspection. We ended up getting a 2024 Rav because she hated the new ones and they were crazy expensive.

I bought a new 4runner in 21 and got it paid off by 24. We've been plowing a lot into retirement accounts, so we did get a note on this new car (4 years). I plan on getting it paid off pretty quick though, the interest rate on used cars is nuts, even with excellent credit.
We just bought a new car last month and the first payment is isn't until June 16th. I've already been throwing extra money in each week to get it paid off. It's a four year note and we'll probably have it off the books in two years.

re: Ned Jarret has passed

Posted by grsharky on 6/5/26 at 4:05 pm to
I guess it's for real this time, there was a rumor a few years back that he had passed but it was quickly debunked. Ned was great, but man he seemed old back in 93 when he made the first Dale and Dale call. He lived a long life.
If you talk to WVU fans they will tell you that even though we lost, that was one fun weekend. I remember LSU fans running through classes, Gameday being in town, and the atmosphere was great.
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The biggest challenge I think is how antisocial and busy everyone is. That's the thing I've noticed as I've gotten older, before 2 of my best friends and I could meet up with a day or two notice. Now it's like at least a week if not 2 weeks notice to put aside time to meet up. Another one of my friends is even worse. They put stuff in their calendar on their iPhone. I feel like a lot of the time I need to give them like 2-3 weeks notice to hang out and do something.


This. I'm 42, married with two kids. I've noticed as I've gotten older that having a social life has become harder and harder. Everyone is busy, things never line up, and it becomes easier to just skip things. I've mentioned to my wife that our lives are hectic with work and kids and we're constantly on the go, but I've never felt lonelier from a friends perspective. We text and have group chats, talk sports and send dumb memes still. But actually getting together is almost impossible it seems.
We’ll see if the layoff cools down the Knicks.
Cavs just had a grueling 7 game series, I think the Knicks win in 5.
I saw Ziregolf that Rahm had an albatross on Sunday yet it was never mentioned on the broadcast. They had a fan video of it.
Going to see Dave Matthews in July, mostly filled up. Lawn seats $69, medium range tickets with seats $105. Price accordingly and people will come.
The ladder at Fenway that’s in play, balls take some weird bounces on that thing.

Oakmont
Bethpage Black
Kiawah
Nemocolin (They played the 84 Lumber event there years ago)

All were great to play, Oakmont just punishes you, obviously.
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Excel. Once a month I put all my account totals in it (Fidelity, bank, other IRAs, etc) and minus my loans. Let’s me see my net worth and I have a little graph. It’s like a snapshot of the 16th of the month. I don’t track individual purchases or anything.


Same here, how much do we have, how much do we owe?
12% of our take home. I don't love our house, I'd sell it and upgrade in a second. However, my wife and kids love it and it it's redeeming qualities are it's half way between our jobs and makes commutes easier and because it was so affordable when we bought it (2015) we've been able to pour money into retirement accounts, brokerage, and we can pretty do what we want without having to stress about money.

re: Ted Scott One of Us

Posted by grsharky on 4/2/26 at 2:33 pm to
I saw him almost get in a fight with a fan during a US Open practice round at Oakmont back in 2016. Bubba Watson duck hooked a drive and a fan next to the tee box yelled, “look out Ted, Bubba will throw you under the bus for that!”. He came right up to the rope and got in the guys face and had to be pulled away.
I went to the Duke/Maryland game in College Park back in 2002. I've never felt hatred like I did in Cole Field House that day. Maryland beat them and went on to win the natty.
I was doing a WVU baseball game on student radio during that WVU/Louisville game. They were watching it back in the studio and we could hear the reactions in our ear pieces and give updates (like anyone was listening to us). When we were up big it was bedlam in our ears and then it got quiet as the lead slipped away.