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Please help with my lawn and beds
Posted by JL on 11/16/25 at 8:21 am
I live in Houston and the front of our house faces west. You can see in the pictures below that all the bushes on the north side of our walkway died while south side survived over the past few freezes and whatever other conditions they were subjected to including getting way more water than the south side of our house because our neighbor to the north has all kinds of stuff in their yard they are constantly watering.
The yard:
I aerated very well and put down weed and feed in the spring. The St. Aug just never spread. Reading online it mentions putting down some sand to give the runners a chance to spread. Our dirt is pretty much rock hard at this point. What should I do now before winter and what should I do again in spring to give it the best chance to regrow? Or is this a dig up and resod the lawn situation?
Prepping the beds:
The boxwoods and gold splash windcreepers on the north side were already dead and pulled out. I've stirred up the dirt, there is clay about 4" below the soil. I was thinking putting some large rocks along the wall to protect the lattice then build up the beds 4-6" with compost?? The boxwoods on the south side survived and we will likely replant boxwoods in the same place on the north side. Any recommendation on what to plant behind the boxwoods? The gold splash windcreepers survived on the south side and I just dug them up, but we want to put something different in, maybe something perennial that flowers.
I know we are coming up on winter. What would be recommendation as to what to do now or what we should wait for spring to do? Wife is in a rush, but I don't want to plant stuff and it not survive winter.

The yard:
I aerated very well and put down weed and feed in the spring. The St. Aug just never spread. Reading online it mentions putting down some sand to give the runners a chance to spread. Our dirt is pretty much rock hard at this point. What should I do now before winter and what should I do again in spring to give it the best chance to regrow? Or is this a dig up and resod the lawn situation?
Prepping the beds:
The boxwoods and gold splash windcreepers on the north side were already dead and pulled out. I've stirred up the dirt, there is clay about 4" below the soil. I was thinking putting some large rocks along the wall to protect the lattice then build up the beds 4-6" with compost?? The boxwoods on the south side survived and we will likely replant boxwoods in the same place on the north side. Any recommendation on what to plant behind the boxwoods? The gold splash windcreepers survived on the south side and I just dug them up, but we want to put something different in, maybe something perennial that flowers.
I know we are coming up on winter. What would be recommendation as to what to do now or what we should wait for spring to do? Wife is in a rush, but I don't want to plant stuff and it not survive winter.

re: Daughter’s alcoholism and mental illness.
Posted by JL on 11/15/25 at 3:26 pm to BluegrassCardinal
Detox and treatment, straight to sober living, hopefully she can find a sponsor she can relate to and stick with AA. Recommend you and your wife get the AA big book and read it. Also find an Al Anon group and attend.
re: Pen and Paper Strength App
Posted by JL on 11/14/25 at 9:26 am to biggles1883
Big Back Billy and Oak Tree. I could just keep rotating between those two and be happy.
re: Men’s pants rec’s
Posted by JL on 11/6/25 at 8:12 pm to MemphisGuy
I like my Peter Millar pants. I tried the old navy knock off version but they come out of the dryer wrinkled where the Peter Millar ones come out looking pretty wrinkle free.
I’m surprised by West Virginia. I thought a lot of Appalachia would be on food stamps.
re: No Rate Cut Thread From SVDTiger?
Posted by JL on 10/30/25 at 12:28 pm to Longhorn Actual
So.... lock in my refinance rate today?
$6 for 4 pounds of delicious pumpkin pie.
re: Beginner over/under shotgun
Posted by JL on 10/17/25 at 3:33 pm to Hermit Crab
Ha I went there. Cheapest thing they had was $3600.
Beginner over/under shotgun
Posted by JL on 10/17/25 at 1:52 pm
I shoot clays maybe twice a year in charity tournaments and am tired of showing up with my semiauto. I was looking at the browning citori, but didn't want to drop that much money unless I was shooting more? Is there another over/under at a lower price point that is good quality? or is it worth it to just spend the money and get something nicer?
re: Retirement nest egg - rethinking 4% rule, size of treasure chest we leave to descendants
Posted by JL on 9/7/25 at 2:31 pm to imjustafatkid
Of course, it's just a philosophy. There is a book called "Die with Zero" some people are following that for retirement.
re: Retirement nest egg - rethinking 4% rule, size of treasure chest we leave to descendants
Posted by JL on 9/7/25 at 2:14 pm to imjustafatkid
That's not the point. You fund your kids college accounts, house down payment, retirement while you are alive. For your grandkids you fund sending them to private school, college, down payments for houses, retirement while you are alive so that you can watch them enjoy life more and not just let them catch millions of dollars when you die.
Basically you pay for your kids and grandkids to be upper class while you are alive vs. after you die.
Basically you pay for your kids and grandkids to be upper class while you are alive vs. after you die.
re: Retirement nest egg - rethinking 4% rule, size of treasure chest we leave to descendants
Posted by JL on 9/7/25 at 2:04 pm to imjustafatkid
Some people have the philosophy of spend it all on your kids/grandkids while you're alive and die with zero.
Or don't leave your kids an amount of money that will turn them into useless assholes.
Or don't leave your kids an amount of money that will turn them into useless assholes.
re: Hafþór Björnsson (The Mountain from Game of Thrones) deadlifts 510kg (1,124 lbs)....
Posted by JL on 9/6/25 at 2:08 pm to Oates Mustache
Prolly gets paid every time he breaks the record so no sense in doing his max when he can get paid in 5 kg incriments.
Boxer briefs for exercise rec
Posted by JL on 9/5/25 at 2:45 pm
I’ve worn under armour boxer briefs forever but they did some sort of change and the new ones ride up my thighs when I’m active. I’ve tried adidas and new balance and didn’t like those either. Any recommendations on boxer briefs for running, lifting?
re: I’ve been messing with Grok for retirement planning
Posted by JL on 8/10/25 at 3:39 pm to LSURussian
Well that’s depressing haha. Guess I’ll pass on the sailboat.
re: I’ve been messing with Grok for retirement planning
Posted by JL on 8/10/25 at 12:11 pm to Larry Gooseman
I can retire at 55, buy a 55 ft catamaran and sail it for 8 years till my wife retires, sell it, and still have a really good retirement. We’ll see how she feels about it.
I’ve been messing with Grok for retirement planning
Posted by JL on 8/10/25 at 11:37 am
It cranks out different scenarios quickly and shows its work (equations it used to calculate). Told it what hobbies I wanted to , trips I wanted to take and it factors it all in. Anybody tried another AI model they like? I’m pretty impressed with what it’s able to show me on savings rates, spend rates, and leaving money for my kids. It prompts good questions to tighten up the model.
How do yall keep decks healthy. Between the bird shite, saltwater, and sun my decks take a beating. I put solid coat stain over the water and am about to stain my over land decks transparent.
Is using a rack for standing shoulder press and bent over rows acceptable? I do it all the time. My gym has 5 racks though and they are almost never all full.
re: Galveston restaurants
Posted by JL on 7/24/25 at 4:32 pm to Zappas Stache
I had Gaido’s redfish Michael with crabmeat beurre blanc a few months ago and it was phenomenal.
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