BrohemAlem11
| Favorite team: | LSU  |
| Location: | Ratchet City, LA |
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| Number of Posts: | 13792 |
| Registered on: | 10/28/2014 |
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re: Anybody else’s mother-in-law hoarding the day?
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/11/26 at 9:31 am to Benne Wafer
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Once grandkids enter the picture, the mothers actively mothering day to day takes precedence on Mother's Day. MIL had her years, time to pass the baton and celebrate another day.
feel like this is a pretty common sense take but I'm seeing more and more stories like OPs.... again the narcissism in boomers is wild to me. The need for family events to follow their instructions, center around them etc. Couple this w the weird phenomenon of them being a generation who constantly dropped their kids off at grandmas and now wont do shite w their grandkids and you really get stories like this. Today is about me frick your kids and family
seeing it in my own mom and just kinda created respectful distance
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re: Evacuation begins from virus ship
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/11/26 at 9:20 am to Eurocat
Jesus quit making this a story...multiple official have come out and said this is not a pandemic risk. We successfully beat the COVIDIANs into the shadows...dont give them a reason to come out again
re: Ashamed LSU BASEBALL
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/10/26 at 8:03 pm to TigerDavid3527
8 natties.... 2 of them ib the last 4 years. If youre embarrassed of this program youre a soft little bitch and you are the problem
GEAUX TIGERS....every. God. Damn. Day.
GEAUX TIGERS....every. God. Damn. Day.
re: Anybody else’s mother-in-law hoarding the day?
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/10/26 at 6:33 pm to 3D
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Wife's family is here celebrating MIL. Each one has to raise their voice over one another so they are the one heard while speaking... In a few hours, I will go into the kitchen and clean up all their full sodas, beverages & plates they leave around any surface they can find.
Most actual mother's days aren't about pampering..its about tolerating.
I actually got lucky in the MIL dept...luckier than my wife did. But her mom an old country lady who has dined at maybe a half dozen resturants in her life always wants the whole family to go out to eat on mother's day, and always some shitty chain resturant...
Its 2 or so hours of explaining the menu...sending the waitress away cause they haven't decided then when everyone is at their wits end and antsy as hell...lets see a dessert menu...add to this we have a 3 year old who was saying he wanted to go home half way in.
re: Anybody else’s mother-in-law hoarding the day?
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/10/26 at 1:22 pm to Upperdecker
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Yea I read OP’s thing and realized it’s the same damn thing. I’m still in the process of overcoming the guilt. And holidays seem to be big milestones that really bring the narcissism to peak levels
Honestly it was huge fuel for me moving away. EVERY holiday was a mandatory event for everyone. The guilt for not attending when I started dating and doing things w her family occasionally was off the charts... grilled as to why I could stomach missing such an important event..... when again...we had one every fricking holiday.
I think what burned me most was these events are never actually about enjoying quality family time, its not about anyone enjoying the event. Its making sure we cram everyone in one house.... making sure everyone is in attendance... thats it. frick that.
Ive moved away...I visit and spend real quality w people im actually close to... the guilt was horrendous the for the first few years and died down. Its pathological w that generation I swear
re: Anybody else’s mother-in-law hoarding the day?
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/10/26 at 12:49 pm to BluegrassBelle
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Fiance’s ex
Cant imagine why she's EX :lol:
re: We want this same energy on Father’s Day!!!
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/10/26 at 11:43 am to TechDawg2007
We wont....but we do what we do anyway cause thats what men do. Cheers brothers celebrate the frick out of your women
re: Anybody else’s mother-in-law hoarding the day?
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/10/26 at 11:39 am to Joshjrn
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I think OP’s point of contention is that he also has kids, who presumably want to spend time with their mom and their mom with them.
Not to mention the reaction.... OPs wife is also a mother thus should get input into what her mothers day looks like.... but her mother seems to think she can control the whole thing and call anyone who doesnt go along w it selfish.
re: Anybody else’s mother-in-law hoarding the day?
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/10/26 at 11:26 am to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Wild how rampant narcissism is in boomer women
re: The hantavirus has made it to land in Switzerland from the cruise ship
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/7/26 at 11:32 am to stout
please add "people dropping dead in the streets of Wuhan" to title so we can sticky this
re: Unseen photos & video footage of John Jones Nutty Putty caving rescue
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/7/26 at 11:22 am to JS87
I just dont understand what would compell him do to it. doing this successfully seems awful to me
re: Senior Ole Miss On3 writer implies Patrick Kelly deserves some credit for LSU recruiting
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/5/26 at 8:08 pm to The Pirate King
Do we also credit water boys on staff with top 10 recruiting classes??
re: Ole Miss and LSU have almost gone full wife swap
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/5/26 at 3:46 pm to Olemissrebs2020
what exactly does an assistant director of football support....do?
aside from posing in the team picture in a polo
aside from posing in the team picture in a polo
re: Can lane mestepey pitch 10 innings tonight?
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/5/26 at 12:55 pm to NorthshoreTiger76
regardless of how that super turned out, that will always go down as one of the most heroic things Ive ever watched as a tiger fan
re: BR grandma guilty - forced 4 yr old granddaughter to drink half bottle of Canadian Mist
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/5/26 at 12:53 pm to Shexter
under the damn jail
re: Most messed up thing you’ve seen in Walmart
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/4/26 at 7:06 am to Darth_Vader
shite in a urinal
re: Just a reminder- Georgia Tech and Tulane hold more SEC titles in football than
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/4/26 at 7:06 am to Gatorbait2008
Are we really gonna leave out powerhouse sewanee???
re: Before you say South Carolina sucks
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/4/26 at 7:03 am to TigerChief94
Young guys are playing hungry and I love it! REALLY wanna see this version of this team play some meaningful post season baseball
re: Only 6 more to go to make the tournament
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/3/26 at 7:29 pm to TigerMonkey7
UGA gonna be TOUGH...take one of those and the series vs Florida snd some noise in hoover is our best shot imo.
I know this isn't a natty year but dammit these kids who Jay put in have been balling out and I wanna see em play some post season baseball
I know this isn't a natty year but dammit these kids who Jay put in have been balling out and I wanna see em play some post season baseball
re: We have a 4 run lead
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/2/26 at 3:01 pm to Meauxjeaux
A miss state fan over my shoulder told me that Sunday when we were up 4....I chuckled.... he was dead serious
re: Attending first baseball game
Posted by BrohemAlem11 on 5/2/26 at 10:32 am to speedbump032
You'll be able to watch the opponent take BP as soon as we go to the bullpen
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