re: Female Troubles

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I love nurses. My ex-wife (24 yrs) is a nurse ... they're game for just about anything.


They also like all the free drugs

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It's because they see some shite. My first ex was studying to be a nurse and kept jokingly asking to check my temperature.

Stick your stuff up enough butts, it'll get you ready for anything.

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They also like all the free drugs

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You say that like it's a bad thing.

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You say that like it's a bad thing.

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Nvm

I actually had a very similar event over a decade ago. Just try to push through it and if she can deal with it she will. Be patient.

In the meantime you are single so I suggest you hit up Tinder for some strange....

What is the perception of nurses?

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I actually had a very similar event over a decade ago. Just try to push through it and if she can deal with it she will. Be patient.

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How long until she talked to you again? And how are some ways that you think I can get my foot back in the door for her to regain trust in me? I don't expect to just go back to being engaged but I just want the opportunity to at least go back to her being my significant other and if I can prove myself over an extended period of time, then we can discuss going forward with a future.

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No female is walking away from a 3 year relationship unless you made her hate you. Little things add up to a lot in 3 years. Good women hate immaturity in men as much as they hate anything. Act grown up, OP, and you might get her back. You might not see it, but you are very immature. Not trying to hurt your feelings.

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My actions that I stated are definitely not a reflection of what I normally am. I think my lack of sub conscious realization on what I should not be doing is a a huge flaw I have right now. There I am immature and plan on thinking hard about all my decisions. I agree with you that I need to mature more, but I can confidently say that 95 percent of the time I am not what the topic of this thread suggests I am.

A friend of mine was on Tinder "just to make fun of people he knew". Wife caught him trying to frick on there a few weeks later.

Not saying you are, but that's what people do that are trying to frick.

If you are trying to frick (not saying you are) but you don't have anyone "actively pursuing" you and you need a square one site, you may want to rethink it.. Loneliness to follow.

I've had to deal with a jealous SO before, until he finally realized that his jealousy stemmed from a deep feeling of inadequacy. He kept thinking I would leave because surely he wasn't good enough for me, so he kept looking for signs that weren't there. It was really rough until he had that realization and started working on it.

Why was she snooping through your phone in the first place? Even though you're engaged, you still have a right to privacy. If you haven't given her any reason to doubt your fidelity, this sounds like a massive overreaction on her part. Yes, you did a bone headed thing, but she's equally culpable here. I'd think long and hard about whether I wanted the relationship to continue. He was able to change and we've been married for 11 years, but if he hadn't been willing to work on his issues, we wouldn't have made it.

My two cents.