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re: Back Side of 30 & New to dating

Posted on 9/13/16 at 1:14 pm to
Posted by Tropic Lightning
South Florida
Member since Nov 2006
923 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 1:14 pm to
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He says the joint custody ones are the best because the weekend they don't have the kids, they go crazy and get as much in as they can.


I can attest to this being absolutely true.

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If they move on after that encounter, they just weren't interested in you long term and you were just a notch on their belt so to speak.


That's is fine with me!
Posted by Pavoloco83
Acworth Ga. too many damn dawgs
Member since Nov 2013
15347 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 1:57 pm to
I think your atrocious spelling is scaring them away.
Posted by Tropic Lightning
South Florida
Member since Nov 2006
923 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 2:24 pm to
Don't worry, they can't read too good no how.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
20002 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 2:59 pm to
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divorced women around his age(42) are a lot less liberated and not worried about the slut/whore label


This. Amazing the amount. Equally amazing is the amount of married women in their 40s who cheat.
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 8:37 pm to
Women think nothing like men.

Regardless of what a woman says she's going to give you value based around how many other women are trying to frick you.

you cannot start a fire without two sticks. You can't start a fire with one stick.


It's the same with dating. To get a woman, you have to be able to get 2. A man who has options, his mindset, approach to women and how he handles any one particular girl automatically changes.


I'm not even saying, you have to be fricking two women, I'm saying that, at least from my experience with women, you don't go from zero to ot9 without some help from some other women.

you have to have 2 women. it starts with 2 women who both want you. that's how the fire starts. rather it be two girls you met on POF or you get 2 girls from just cold approaching, you have to be able to get 2 girls interested in you and it goes from there.
Posted by Tropic Lightning
South Florida
Member since Nov 2006
923 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 9:11 pm to
Interesting POV.

Next weekend I'm going to a concert with two girls...I'll have to report back.
Posted by arkiebrian
NWA
Member since Nov 2006
4167 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 9:26 pm to
Divorced twice here...why ever get married again? My kids are about grown...and I'm dating my ex-wife again. What could go wrong?

Posted by Pinche Cabron
TN
Member since Nov 2015
3639 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 9:31 pm to
Compliment one and not the other and watch what happens
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 11:42 pm to
My fiancee I met her when I was throwing a get together for the Arkansas ole Miss game last year. I invited her friend who I was fricking and she tagged along. Her friend all over me = instant value. Then she came over the next week alone lol.z

And because I was talking to her friend I was naturally aloof to her and playing hard to get because I wasn't trying to frick her.women love that shite it's how they are programmed
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
20502 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 9:59 am to
I'm in my 30s and was married for almost 10 years. I have 2 children that I split custody with my ex. I've been divorced for 2 years now. The thing I have learned is there are plenty of females that want to have sex with you, from 18 to their 40s. If they are younger than 25, most just want the sex. But they want to continue having sex with me until they find someone younger. It seems like something happens at 25. All the ones that are 25 and over want to marry me after 2 or 3 dates. I put all the dating thing to the side after a while, started working on myself and rediscovering who I am. Once you find happiness in being alone, that is when you start being selective in who you date. I was in a bad marriage, so for me to settle down again, she is going to have to be very special. Otherwise, I don't waste my time. Yes, I miss having sex. But I'll hold out until I know that it's not the only thing she's looking for from me.
Posted by Pavoloco83
Acworth Ga. too many damn dawgs
Member since Nov 2013
15347 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 1:43 pm to
She probably realized your a Georgia fan and cut her losses?
Posted by LSU Delts
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2007
2617 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 8:01 pm to
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...or is this just how woman act these days?


Bingo.

If they start acting up just let them go. Take your time and find another. Please don't chase. You will drive yourself crazy.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
20002 posts
Posted on 9/15/16 at 6:20 am to
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Please don't chase. You will drive yourself crazy.


Truth if there ever was one.
Posted by dallastiger55
Jennings, LA
Member since Jan 2010
33274 posts
Posted on 9/15/16 at 7:05 am to
Jealous

Look forward to those days
Posted by KoachKletus
Member since Jan 2015
1103 posts
Posted on 9/15/16 at 8:48 am to
The potato goes in front. And don't ask for anal, just insist it was an accident.
Posted by Pavoloco83
Acworth Ga. too many damn dawgs
Member since Nov 2013
15347 posts
Posted on 9/15/16 at 9:02 am to
Seriously, how many women will let you PIIHB? I have to think not that many.
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
20502 posts
Posted on 9/15/16 at 9:15 am to
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Seriously, how many women will let you PIIHB? I have to think not that many.



You have to ease into it. Finger that booty first. Let her feel how good it is.
Posted by blacknblu
Member since Nov 2011
10276 posts
Posted on 9/15/16 at 1:40 pm to
I've been married 18 years this October. I couldn't imagine getting back in the dating game. I may joke about it, but I have highway miles now. I wouldn't know what to do in the city.

Good luck, brother
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 9/15/16 at 1:49 pm to
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Seriously, how many women will let you PIIHB?



I've only had one, granted I'm 43 and been married 16 years. Wife isn't the one. I didn't really get the appeal of it, TBH, but at least I checked it off the ole bucket list.


To keep it in theme of the thread, it was with a 46 year old married lady that worked in the office I interned in one summer in college. She told me she was legally separated, but I later found out her husband just traveled for work a bunch.
Posted by Kcprogguitar
Kansas City
Member since Oct 2014
931 posts
Posted on 9/16/16 at 3:59 pm to
Pretty obvious.

You're a lousy lay.

Sorry, bro.
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