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re: Back Side of 30 & New to dating

Posted on 9/13/16 at 6:40 am to
Posted by Old Sarge
Dean of Admissions, LSU
Member since Jan 2012
62577 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 6:40 am to
quote:

ask me why I was fricking the invisible werewolf woman the room and why I didn't tell her that i got the invisible werewolf pregnant,


Well, why WERE you fricking the invisible werewolf woman??? And did you do the right thing after you knocked her/it up????
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68474 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 6:43 am to
Maybe you didn't wow her with the whole secks thing.
Posted by GnashRebel
Member since May 2015
8858 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 7:54 am to
So you are saying that

1. You aren't married

2. Women will have sex with you

3. They don't try to have a long term relationship with you

What's the problem?
Posted by Pinche Cabron
TN
Member since Nov 2015
3639 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 7:59 am to
Posted by Old Sarge
Dean of Admissions, LSU
Member since Jan 2012
62577 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 7:59 am to
Nailed it

We just found out who wasn't willing to spend 72 hours in jail
This post was edited on 9/13/16 at 8:01 am
Posted by Pinche Cabron
TN
Member since Nov 2015
3639 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 8:02 am to
If he did THAT... he should cut his wanger off, shave his head, and join a monastery
Posted by Tropic Lightning
South Florida
Member since Nov 2006
923 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 8:06 am to
quote:

Maybe you didn't wow her with the whole secks thing.


Could be, but I'm fairly confident that's one thing I am doing correctly.

After some thought, I think it's the baggage. Oh well, not gonna be a dead beat dad.

I guess I will continue to slay my way through the female population until I find someone who can deal.
Posted by Tropic Lightning
South Florida
Member since Nov 2006
923 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 8:08 am to
quote:

What's the problem?


I suppose it's not a problem, I'm just unsure of the lay of the land after 15 years of not dating.

I didn't even own a cell phone when I got married.

But ya, it's not terrible being single right now.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
20002 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 8:24 am to
quote:

Been there. 39 years old. Married 17 years before my divorce. Date as many women as you can. Get as much tail as you can and have fun. Don't jump back into a LTR until you've been divorced a few years at least.


This. I'm newly divorced and have no desire for a LTR at this point. Maybe a while down the road. There are plenty that want to be slayed...
Posted by Fan of Football
Jeanerette
Member since Sep 2016
657 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 8:32 am to
quote:

Woman says she's tired of guys looking just for sex

Women just say that so they don't feel like a whore. There are a lot of women who only want sex but can't admit it (even to themselves).
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
20002 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 8:43 am to
quote:

Women just say that so they don't feel like a whore. There are a lot of women who only want sex but can't admit it (even to themselves).


They will say or do anything to justify their actions. Often to the point where they believe it themselves...
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68474 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 8:47 am to
quote:

After some thought, I think it's the baggage.

Everyone has baggage; if they say they don't, they're lying.
Posted by Fan of Football
Jeanerette
Member since Sep 2016
657 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 8:51 am to
It's probably not the baggage. If she senses she's got no competition she'll move on. Like if you're always available and don't have plans with other people.

This is just generalization but could be the source of your problem. Gotta keep most women on their toes these days.
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18303 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 9:55 am to
Not sure why you would want to be in a committed relationship at this point after being married so long. Enjoy being single for a while before dating. Go fishing, hunting, watch as much football as you can.

Live dang it!!!!!
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 10:05 am to
quote:

I've been out of dating for a very long time and it seems to me that "I want a relationship" is code for "I want the seck but not feel like a prostitute



I mean, that's kind of how dating was when I was in my 20's. I guess you had a different experience though.
Posted by BamaFinland
Espoo, Finland
Member since Oct 2015
2587 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 10:23 am to
This is why I love Finland. Woman don't play games over here. They come straight out and tell you whether or not they are looking for a relationship or just fricky treats.
Posted by Tropic Lightning
South Florida
Member since Nov 2006
923 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 10:30 am to
quote:

Not sure why you would want to be in a committed relationship at this point after being married so long. Enjoy being single for a while before dating. Go fishing, hunting, watch as much football as you can. Live dang it!!!!!



I'm not looking for a committed relationship really, just curious if the behavior I'm encountering is typical.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
62471 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 11:07 am to
quote:

wimmins


quote:

seck


quote:

Chick


You write like an effeminate child. I'm assuming that you probably speak like this too. That can't be helping with your relationships with women.
This post was edited on 9/13/16 at 11:08 am
Posted by Tropic Lightning
South Florida
Member since Nov 2006
923 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 12:21 pm to
quote:

You write like an effeminate child. I'm assuming that you probably speak like this too. That can't be helping with your relationships with women.


Thanks for the tip.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 9/13/16 at 1:02 pm to
quote:

just curious if the behavior I'm encountering is typical.



It is. Women don't want to be labeled a whore or slut, so to avoid that they pretend they're looking for a committed relationship. Many are, but they also have sexual desire. But they'll suppress it for that first date, only to give in to that desire on the 2nd date. If they move on after that encounter, they just weren't interested in you long term and you were just a notch on their belt so to speak.

It's messed up our society puts that burden on women.

Buddy of mine is divorced and he says divorced women around his age(42) are a lot less liberated and not worried about the slut/whore label. He usually has a couple of different women he's messing around with at any given time. He says the joint custody ones are the best because the weekend they don't have the kids, they go crazy and get as much in as they can.
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