re: What is up at UGA with recording people?

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Rapey is probably as accurate a term as we have for that sort of thing despite it being slang rather than a proper Webster approved term. It's not traditional rape as the sex was 'sort of' consensual but like traditional rape it's a severe violation of someone sexually -- their person and their body -- and can lead to long-term trauma.

Could you imagine trying to trust someone new after that? Or the humiliation of knowing other people watched you without your consent?

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Yeah, but you went to college, as did I. Even at Vandy, I knew plenty of guys who wouldn't think twice about doing this sort of thing. There's just that mentality prevalent in a certain subset of the college male population. Too many hormones, too much new-found freedom, and too little basic sense makes for a bad combination. Some of them grow out of it. Some of them start unpleasant websites and die alone.