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re: Divorced guys and gals. What ended your marriage and who made the call?
Posted on 7/19/17 at 3:05 am to Commander Data
Posted on 7/19/17 at 3:05 am to Commander Data
My first wife was a controlling self absorbed bitch who was extremely insecure and tried to beat me down mentally. The better I treated her, the worse she responded. She did her best to alienate me from my friends and family and basically wanted me to be a servant for her and her Mother. She had a lot of health problems so I worked myself to death trying to take care of her, and in response I got cussed daily, hit once, and even shot at. She would sleep on the couch, no affection, and sex maybe once a month. I got tired of it all and just walked away and never looked back. Very messy divorce as she tried to take everything I had and my lawyer didn't help me much. Cost me about 10k total but was worth every cent.
Second wife I met right after my divorce. I wasn't in the right mind frame obviously. She was the opposite of everything my first wife was. Very supportive, great love life, etc. only she was a whore who screwed around on me. That divorce was much easier, I had her dead to rights with proof so she took her personal belongings and left. Cost me 500.00.
No kids with either so luckily I never have to deal with either one. I doubt I ever do it again as I have been divorced for 7 years now and am happier than I ever was. I have a zero tolerance for BS and drama so that rules out 99.99% of the female population for me.
tl/dr version first wife hated me and everyone else, second wife liked me and everyone else when I wasn't around.
Second wife I met right after my divorce. I wasn't in the right mind frame obviously. She was the opposite of everything my first wife was. Very supportive, great love life, etc. only she was a whore who screwed around on me. That divorce was much easier, I had her dead to rights with proof so she took her personal belongings and left. Cost me 500.00.
No kids with either so luckily I never have to deal with either one. I doubt I ever do it again as I have been divorced for 7 years now and am happier than I ever was. I have a zero tolerance for BS and drama so that rules out 99.99% of the female population for me.
tl/dr version first wife hated me and everyone else, second wife liked me and everyone else when I wasn't around.
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Posted on 7/19/17 at 6:56 am to Bama Shadow
quote:seems like this describes most women these days.
My first wife was a controlling self absorbed bitch who was extremely insecure
Posted on 7/20/17 at 9:42 pm to Bama Shadow
You guys crack me up, you think 10k is a lot to get out of a bad marriage. I'm closing in on ten years ago and a half mil to get free of my crazy ex. Let me give a word of advice.
Don't ever try to pull macho shite in court. Cheating means nothing here. Assets are allotted without guilt being assigned. My ex was batshit crazy, about a half step from the ward, if she would have gone before the divorce I'd be on the hook for the cost. I settled big out of court to protect an even larger asset.
Freedom ain't free.
Don't ever try to pull macho shite in court. Cheating means nothing here. Assets are allotted without guilt being assigned. My ex was batshit crazy, about a half step from the ward, if she would have gone before the divorce I'd be on the hook for the cost. I settled big out of court to protect an even larger asset.
Freedom ain't free.
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