re: Serious question..if your S/O did this what would your response be?

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Carolina_Girl

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Well, I was busy earlier, so I didn't have time to weight in here on my e-friend's situation and give you a real response.

Like Bass said, you already know the answer. You didn't make this thread to ask us if he is good or bad. You know he's bad and you're just looking for support in this tough time.

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This guy knows the history of my ex being a serial cheater and completely dishonest and he also knew that he was the first guy I have actually had a serious relationship with since divorcing my ex...8 years ago. He knew all of that and still did it.

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Dude you have no fricking clue who I am or what I have been thru. These others do.

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It's just not fair, right?

I assume the reason you haven't been in a serious relationship for awhile is because of the fear that someone will hurt you again.

I wish I could tell you that this is no big deal and not to panic, but this is too big of a sign to just look the other way... as you pointed out. I'm sorry this happened to you. If you want my advice, ditch this loser and move on right now. Not next Friday. Not next week. Not next month. Right now.

If he knows what you've been through and pulled this shite on you anyway, he's a piece of shite and you're way too good for him. Don't try to salvage this relationship, you will only be setting yourself up for a colossal disappointment. You will only make things worse for yourself. Trust me on this. I learned this lesson the hard way. You're a smart lady and I know you will do the right thing.

ETA: Stay strong, CG!