I don't know your fiancé but I can only assume she's not stupid. I believe that you honestly had no intentions of cheating when you went to the dating site but I doubt you just did it just so you could laugh at people. It's not surprising that she doesn't buy that either. Guys are pre-programmed to look over the fence no matter how content we are in our own backyard.

You need to drop the "I just did it for shits and giggles" bit and honestly apologize. Tell her that you didn't take her feelings into account and that it will never happen again. Tell her that you understand that the only way your relationship will work is if you can have absolute trust in each other. Figure out a way to say that includes phone snooping without pissing her off.

If you look her in the eye and sincerely apologize and she still can't get past it, you should probably sit down and think about what you want your future to be.

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Posted by South Alabama Tide

Member since Feb 2015

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Posted on 1/20/16 at 4:38 pm to DaBama

I'll definelty look her in the eyes and honestly tell her I am sorry for even being on the site with the curiosity of seeing another woman on there to judge whether she was laughably ugly or attractive. I was not on there to look at attractive women. Was there any? Honestly no, but the fact I did judge a woman is just as bad. And for that I will own up to it and deal with it.

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