re: (serious) my friend univted me to her wedding becuase i'm black

I mean, that's exactly what it sounds like to be honest. You didn't sleep with her. You bent over backwards for her and she apparently didn't have an issue with being such good friends with you as a black guy pre-wedding invite fiasco. So did these feelings of "oh no, can't have the black guy around?" just suddenly pop up?

I went to a conservative Mississippi wedding over the summer and there were black people there with no issue. Ones that were friend of the bride no less. So I'm going to go out on a limb and say there's a little bit more to the story on this one then you just trying to find an opportunity to throw out the race card to compensate for either having the countiest friend on the planet or being friend zoned. Or you're lying off your arse.