re: (serious) my friend univted me to her wedding becuase i'm black

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I would email her, and acknowledge that you won't be attending, at her request. Then tell her that since she is uncomfortable with your presence on such a special occasion, she should consider your website work as a wedding present and your friendship over because you're uncomfortable with rude, low-class people. Wish her well and tell her never to contact you again. She doesn't deserve you. Assuming all this is true and you've shared all pertinent details.

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: kige : to most all of this except the part in bold

As a southern person, being the gracious one, and not the catty one, will irritate them much more in the long run and you come up smelling like roses. It is the win - win strategy. Winning and keeping cool in the process is delicious in the long run. As a bonus, when you are cool, her friends will call you later for a late night encounter or two.

Most women are like cats, ignore them and they want you more. Give them just enough to keep them coming back then do your own thing the rest of the time. I am fine with friends with benefits but being the best friend with no benefits should have ended around high school. I am certainly not a hot looking person but I have always had women around me.