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re: my ex left me again and its tearing me apart (Please give me some advice/insight)

Posted on 2/22/15 at 3:51 pm to
Posted by MsGarrison
Steele Town LOL
Member since Nov 2009
22009 posts
Posted on 2/22/15 at 3:51 pm to
It was toradol. I've said it in a past reply. I have no reason to lie about this bs. She took the 60mg bottle that had 30mg used and put it in her purse im assuming. I would leave her at my desk while I step out.

I'm fricking sorry maybe I'm obsessed with her and I'm confusing it with love. Idk. This is not a joke.


When we broke up last year she went to see a counsellor and they mention she has a disorder I don't recall what it was but now that I look back on everything it has to be BpD. Everything she has done coincides with the symptoms. She made stuff up. She believed her lies. She manipulated me. She punished me when I stood up to her. Once she felt that I had been punished enough she would talk to me again. She made me feel like the guilty party every time when it wasn't me at all. She was so vindictive. She was immature. She was emotionally unstable. Insecure. I proposed counseling so we could work thru this stuff ar one point but we didn't seem to have any issues the.

I have a problem As well for foolishly going back for seconds and thirds. I blame myself for this as well. I had the opportunity to just leave things the way they were back in November but I didnt
This post was edited on 2/22/15 at 4:02 pm
Posted by wmr
North of Dickson, South of Herman's
Member since Mar 2009
32518 posts
Posted on 2/22/15 at 4:02 pm to
Look at this relationship as a total loss.

If it were a house, it burned to the ground.

If it was a loved pet, there it lies, smashed on a cold pavement, unrecognizeable.

The point is, you need to move on. The way you do that is the same with any loss. You grieve it for a bit and then you go on with life. You find a new house. You get a new pet. You take a trip somewhere with friends. Join a gym, make new friends. Hell, go to church, etc. The point is you move on.

This post was edited on 2/22/15 at 4:03 pm
Posted by TMDawg
Member since Nov 2012
5374 posts
Posted on 2/22/15 at 4:07 pm to
She stole toradol?

If you've really stayed with her through all that, nothing anyone says here will convince you otherwise. It's like with alcoholics and addicts, until you hit your rock bottom (and that bottom is different for everyone), it's gonna get worse. Hopefully you've hit yours already with her because if not, the next round sounds like it'll bring the pain even worse.
Posted by the808bass
The Lou
Member since Oct 2012
111673 posts
Posted on 2/22/15 at 4:51 pm to
quote:

I believe you.
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 2/23/15 at 12:16 am to
So, walk away.

What else do u need to see? Walk away
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