re: My ex wants to meet up and talk....

Send someone else to get them. She will try to suck you in. You're making excuses to go see her. So go, if you want. And you'll be right back where you were a week ago. This is a bad idea.

But, do what you want, dude. It's your life. And it'll be your headache. I don't mean to sound harsh, but having anything further to do with her is crazy.