re: My ex wants to meet up and talk....

I'm fail to understand why you'd even consider this. After what she's already pulled? You should have nothing further to do with her. Ever. No email, no calls, no texts, no meetings. Nothing.

If you do meet her? And continue to communicate with her in any way? You will deserve all the BS that is coming your way. This is a person who does not deserve your time and energy, she has shown herself to be trash. Walk away. No, run. Fast.