re: I wonder if Bobby's wife is going to leave his arse...

...and just because he cheated doesn't guarantee she will leave him with nothing. It may give her a greater portion of the community estate (assuming Ark is a community property state, Ark lawyers, help me out), but it won't be some 75-25% split. At best, she would be entitled to reimbursement of any money Bobby laid out for his side-arse (including the $20k) and a 60-40% split, and that 60-40 is a REALLY good day for Ms. Bobby.