re: UPDATE: Backup Florida QB Jalen Kitna Child Porn Charges Dropped

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Then maybe don’t defend adults having sex with 16 year olds. It isn’t difficult to acknowledge something was more acceptable in the past but still wrong, those two things aren’t mutually exclusive.

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"adults"

Again, by your definition someone who is 2 days older than someone else can be 18 and a legal adult, and yet the person 2 days younger than them suddenly makes them a pedophile because they are a legal adult.

And if they had sex before then, you would have to say it was ok. Or that they were both guilty of being pedophiles.

So having sex 1 day is perfectly fine, but then the same 2 people having sex the next day is suddenly sexual abuse.

This all just highlights how ignorant this stuff is when you apply some special age on this without any regard or context to anything else.

What actually matters is this - who is the victim. I've asked multiple times in this thread how the girls I slept with were victims. If you can show me how I abused them, or how they were victims as a result, I will surely change my mind and feel bad about it.

But they weren't victims. They had no abuse, they had no damage, nothing. Because there are so many other factors involved that actually matter besides age. And to pretend it's the same thing as a actual kids who are at the start of puberty, or haven't even started puberty is ridiculous, ignorant and destructive to society.

There is a real topic and a real problem here that really needs to be addressed in this country. Why not actually focus on that rather than trying to push a bunch of bullshite? Why try to muddy the waters by comparing the fricked up shite with what amounts to young people doing young people things?