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Posted on 6/21/16 at 5:04 pm to dwgsfrlife7673
Posted on 6/21/16 at 5:04 pm to dwgsfrlife7673
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hopefully. I think he will be ok hopefully.
OP is scared.
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Posted on 6/29/16 at 6:49 pm to dwgsfrlife7673
1. Hopefully you're still alive
2. Good on you for trying to be the bigger man here.
3. When I can see potential conflict materializing on the horizon, I like to be prepared for "worst case scenarios." Just in case.
In the situation you've described, I see a couple of scenarios--UNLIKELY, but possible-- that could blow the doors off:
A. He drops the N the bomb. To provoke you, making you look like the bad guy.
B. He goes off on his daughter, calling her a whore, POS, N-lover, etc.
I only bring this up because you really don't know just how bad this guy is. And you really cant predict it based on your GF or those of her family that you have met.
Odds are, if he's truly a racist, he's a coward. The vast majority of them are.
But some are aggressive and evil, think Bob Ewell in To Kill A Mockingbird. So you need to be prepared.
2. Good on you for trying to be the bigger man here.
3. When I can see potential conflict materializing on the horizon, I like to be prepared for "worst case scenarios." Just in case.
In the situation you've described, I see a couple of scenarios--UNLIKELY, but possible-- that could blow the doors off:
A. He drops the N the bomb. To provoke you, making you look like the bad guy.
B. He goes off on his daughter, calling her a whore, POS, N-lover, etc.
I only bring this up because you really don't know just how bad this guy is. And you really cant predict it based on your GF or those of her family that you have met.
Odds are, if he's truly a racist, he's a coward. The vast majority of them are.
But some are aggressive and evil, think Bob Ewell in To Kill A Mockingbird. So you need to be prepared.
This post was edited on 6/29/16 at 6:50 pm
Posted on 6/29/16 at 7:56 pm to dwgsfrlife7673
Can't blame the father for wanting more for his daughter and wanting his grandkids to know their dad.
Posted on 7/6/16 at 5:17 pm to dwgsfrlife7673
Dad doesn't like the idea of the black anaconda in his daughter
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