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From my earliest childhood memory until I was about 24, my mee maw prepared a Sunday spread that was ready to eat at 1:00. Anyone was welcome and my siblings and I would always have friends wanting to spend the night so they could go and eat at mee maws on Sunday. We would eat lunch, watch the Braves or play in the yard and eat again at around 5:00. Never ran out of food. And it was a huge spread every week.

Condiments were on one counter and usually included:
Pickled peaches
Bottles peppers in vinegar
Canned pear halves (with mayo, shredded cheese and a cherry on top)
Sliced tomatoes
Cantaloupe

Sides: there were always at least five of the following

Pinto beans
Butter beans
Lima beans
Stringed beans
Boiled cabbage
Fried okra
Mashed potatoes
Macaroni and cheese
Buttery white rice
Sweet potatoe casserole
Collared greens
Broccoli cheese casserole

Meats:
Fried chicken
Ham
Roast beef
Fried chicken was usually 2 Sunday out of a month.

Desserts: always one, and often 2 of
Banana pudding
Apple pie
7 layer chocolate cake

Bread: one of below
Buttermilk biscuits
Cornbread
Yeast rolls

Gravy:
Milk gravy always. Put over biscuits, mashed potatoes, chicken, and rice.

I wish that my 4 kids could have experienced this. It was a routine and privledge we took for granted as we thought it was normal. We assumed everybody went to a mee maws every Sunday with family coming in and out all day between 1:00-6:00 to graze on delicious home cooked food. I didn't realize until she got to old and feeble how much love and effort she put into pulling that off every week. She loved doing it as it brought the entire family together at least once a week. Between our family and my uncles family there were always at least 12 of us there and there were always at least 2-3 friends of the kids. I am 46 now and my buddies from school still talk about Sunday's at mee maws. Really miss those days.