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Not finding a relationship? Advice
Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:42 pm
Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:42 pm
Been pretty depressed lately. Kinda look back at life and finding that I never had a relationship and I am 28. Never had someone I got close to one. Specially being in a party school like UGA and grad school, but never building any bond with a significant other. Been very shy most of the time and not very confident. I guess that may be it. Is it impossible to find the right person specially if you can't change ur personality?
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:42 pm to MouseBenQ
You've certainly come to the right place. 
Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:42 pm to MouseBenQ
Russian mail order
Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:43 pm to MouseBenQ
Paige sounds like the perfect woman for you
Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:45 pm to MouseBenQ
You sound like a woman. Are you a woman?
Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:46 pm to MouseBenQ
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Is it impossible to find the right person specially if you can't change ur personality?
You can change your personality. Just have to jump off that cliff. Sure you'll fall on your face, maybe a lot, but no one goes 0 for life. You'll have success every now and then.
Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:47 pm to MouseBenQ
Assuming this isn't a troll, you'll get some smart arse comments, but keep you're head up and keep yourself out there and something good will happen.
Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:54 pm to MouseBenQ
Join a group or organization that forces you to be around people and be social. Kickball league, a gym where you do group classes, something along those lines.
There was a guy in my gym with the exact same story. Depressed and felt like he wasn't going to meet someone. Socially awkward especially around women. He started going to the gym nonstop. I hardly ever went without seeing him there. Dropped something like 80 lbs, made a ton of friends, met a girl, and they're now living together. He's a completely different guy now.
There was a guy in my gym with the exact same story. Depressed and felt like he wasn't going to meet someone. Socially awkward especially around women. He started going to the gym nonstop. I hardly ever went without seeing him there. Dropped something like 80 lbs, made a ton of friends, met a girl, and they're now living together. He's a completely different guy now.
This post was edited on 4/29/16 at 4:57 pm
Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:59 pm to MouseBenQ
Find a Kickball League.
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:00 pm to MouseBenQ
Find a sloot
Bang a slot
Profit
Bang a slot
Profit
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:04 pm to MouseBenQ
First of all Rat, you never let on how much you like a girl. "Oh, Debbie. Hi." Two, you always call the shots. "Kiss me. You won't regret it." Now three, act like wherever you are, that's the place to be. "Isn't this great?" Four, when ordering food, you find out what she wants, then order for the both of you. It's a classy move. "Now, the lady will have the linguini and white clam sauce, and a Coke with no ice." And five, now this is the most important, Rat. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:08 pm to MouseBenQ
First off get a tinder or bumble, you don't have to talk to anyone on there if you want, but it will help you realize that there are plenty of girls out there. Next you need to get out and be social, it will feel uncomfortable and that is a good thing, because sooner or later you will start talking to someone that makes you feel comfortable and you just might like her enough to ask her out.
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:12 pm to MouseBenQ
Stop looking, seriously. I've always found that you end up in relationships with the wrong person if you're actively looking to be in one. Just let someone come along. And who cares if you're 28? Some dudes would kill to be 28 and single! I know plenty of couples who didn't meet their spouse until their early 30s, so keep your head up brotha
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:12 pm to MouseBenQ
Talk to this guy.
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:19 pm to MouseBenQ
Rule #1: Be attractive
Rule #2: Don't be unattractive
Everything else will fall into place
Rule #2: Don't be unattractive
Everything else will fall into place
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:40 pm to MouseBenQ
Get that first piece of pussy out of the way and the rest will fall in line.
Hell get a high dollar, fine arse escort if you have too so you don't fall in love with the first ho that gives you a taste. That will get your confidence up and with you having a good education and job and being successful the chicks will come to you. Esp in a city like DC where there's probably more girls than straight guys.
Hell get a high dollar, fine arse escort if you have too so you don't fall in love with the first ho that gives you a taste. That will get your confidence up and with you having a good education and job and being successful the chicks will come to you. Esp in a city like DC where there's probably more girls than straight guys.
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:54 pm to MouseBenQ
You and I out in the same boat
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:54 pm to MouseBenQ
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Specially being in a party school
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:55 pm to MouseBenQ
I was wondering how in the world you were 28 with no relationships then you said you're Asian and you went to Georgia and it made sense.
Posted on 4/29/16 at 6:08 pm to MouseBenQ
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if you can't change ur personality
You can. What steps have you taken to improve yourself? Grab a few self-help books, hit the gym, start dressing better and pay for a good haircut. Your confidence will soar in six months.
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