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That is tough.

I do feel for your situation.

My wife and I almost broke up right before our marriage because of something incredibly stupid I did. I wrote her a letter explaining that I knew it was stupid. I did not try to rationalize or justify it. I just apologized for what was obviously my fault and begged her forgiveness. I let her know how much she meant to me and that I would never give her a reason to doubt me again. Twenty years later and I am still trying to be the best husband I can be.

She already had her bags packed and left for awhile. All I can say is tell her (if she will not talk, take the time to actually write her). Do not make excuses, just tell her what she means to you and assure her you will change your behavior.

One caveat to this. A man's word is all he has. If you have any doubts about the grass being greener, do not commit.

I bet some of the female posters can give more perspective, but that is all I have.

I wish you the best of luck m8.

Thanks.

My situation is similar. I put in the letter I sent to her that I apologize for making her feel betrayed than I tried justifying what happened and vindicating myself of wrong doing. I have never cheated, never wanted to, never thought about it, and am 100 percent committed and faithful to her.