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re: Serious question..if your S/O did this what would your response be?
Posted on 10/4/16 at 8:02 am to AUnite
Posted on 10/4/16 at 8:02 am to AUnite
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3) We're females. We have a sixth sense to cheating. If your gut is telling you something is wrong, for the love of god, listen to it. Ignoring it in the long run will hurt you more.
I call bullshite. Women just assume almost everyone is cheating and sometimes they are right. I have never cheated but the green eyed monster has reared its head many times. Luckily I am laid back and don't sweat it.
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 10:10 pm to Carolina_Girl
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My S/O of almost 7 months just dropped a bomb on me today:
Updates?
Posted on 10/6/16 at 9:12 am to cardboardboxer
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I am concerned as frick he seems so worried about a trivial amount of money (like I can blow that drinking in a NOLA bar one night amount). That amount shouldn't be a big deal to him, and he really should have looked it as charity from the get go if he gave it to a stranger.
This. That's actually the first question mark that arose for me. $126? Who gives a frick.
With that, it sounds like someone was paranoid and felt like he needed to make a BS excuse as to what happened.
Regardless, very odd situation.
Posted on 10/6/16 at 9:23 am to bamabenny
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the "woman" is probably a 400 pound dude sitting on his bed trying to scam people on twitter all day
Different strokes for different folks
Posted on 10/31/16 at 2:05 pm to Cheese Grits
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Updates?
I guess this story has died or gone away. No Lifetime Movie script is to be made.
This post was edited on 10/31/16 at 2:06 pm
Posted on 10/31/16 at 4:07 pm to Carolina_Girl
Dude was freakin out over 126 bucks? Seriously?
Posted on 10/31/16 at 10:11 pm to Carolina_Girl
He's full of shite, or incredibly naive. I'd lean toward the former.
Posted on 10/31/16 at 11:08 pm to Carolina_Girl
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He "loaned" a girl he met on twitter over $126
Just curious, but why did he loan her the money in the first place?
Posted on 11/1/16 at 12:32 am to Kamikaze25
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$126? Who gives a frick.
Posted on 11/1/16 at 12:36 am to The Spleen
My best friend is a pretty attractive female. If she needs something which is never she saves money like no one else but when she needed some cash to buy inventory for her business I loaned it to her. Told my gf as well.
But she's not an ex she's just a girl who has been there for me when no one else was and is like my sister.
But my girl knew the deal before we dated i don't haVe nothing to hide
I don't have a problem with no hi. Giving her money that's your own insecurity talking. I have a pro Lem with you two not being completely honest with each other from jump and a bigger problem with him acting like a little bitch having his woman fight his battles for him.
Once doubg creeps in its a matter of when, not if, you break up
But she's not an ex she's just a girl who has been there for me when no one else was and is like my sister.
But my girl knew the deal before we dated i don't haVe nothing to hide
I don't have a problem with no hi. Giving her money that's your own insecurity talking. I have a pro Lem with you two not being completely honest with each other from jump and a bigger problem with him acting like a little bitch having his woman fight his battles for him.
Once doubg creeps in its a matter of when, not if, you break up
Posted on 11/1/16 at 12:40 am to RogerTheShrubber
Also has lying by the way . Who the frick loans someone 126 that's the exact bullshite number I come up with in my head when I'm making excuse. Precise enough to be believable large enough to want back not large enough to miss. 126 is a cheating prime number
You ask me to borrow some money to pay x one you aren't going to say I need 126 dollars bitch you ain't got 1 dollar you can't round that down? Or she's going to say I need 130. Nonone borrows 126
. Who the frick loans someone 126 that's the exact bullshite number I come up with in my head when I'm making excuse. Precise enough to be believable large enough to want back not large enough to miss. 126 is a cheating prime number You ask me to borrow some money to pay x one you aren't going to say I need 126 dollars bitch you ain't got 1 dollar
you can't round that down? Or she's going to say I need 130. Nonone borrows 126Posted on 11/1/16 at 12:40 am to RogerTheShrubber
Also has lying by the way . Who the frick loans someone 126 that's the exact bullshite number I come up with in my head when I'm making excuse. Precise enough to be believable large enough to want back not large enough to miss. 126 is a cheating prime number
You ask me to borrow some money to pay x one you aren't going to say I need 126 dollars bitch you ain't got 1 dollar you can't round that down? Or she's going to say I need 130. Nonone borrows 126
. Who the frick loans someone 126 that's the exact bullshite number I come up with in my head when I'm making excuse. Precise enough to be believable large enough to want back not large enough to miss. 126 is a cheating prime number You ask me to borrow some money to pay x one you aren't going to say I need 126 dollars bitch you ain't got 1 dollar
you can't round that down? Or she's going to say I need 130. Nonone borrows 126Posted on 11/1/16 at 7:03 am to vengeanceofrain
Okay..update.
She did pay him back via Western Union yesterday.
She did lie and lead him to believe that she and I were close friends who had known each other for years, therefore he believed I would have no problem with it and that she was trustworthy. Because he had seen where she and I had tweeted back and forth and both of us happened to live in SC, loosely know some of the same ppl bc we are both nurses, both are avid Gamecocks, etc he bought her story that she and I were actually long-time friends.
She forwarded all of the txt and DM messages from twitter between the two of them to me and he was being truthful about it not being anything intentionally deceptive, underhanded or anything at all to do with trying to score with this chick.
He was pissed about her not keeping her word about repaying him after he went out on a limb to help her. It wasn't bc he was in desperate need of the money back. He said he got a feeling after she did not keep her word and then kept dodging him that something wasn't right, and still believing that she and I were friends, thought that I may be able to find out what was going on with her which was why he asked me to talk with her about recouping the money. Of course, that's when he became aware that she had lied about us being friends to begin with and that further outraged him.
Long story short, turns out he was being truthful all along, my insecurities from a marriage that went horribly wrong surfaced (insecurities I honestly wasn't even aware existed until this happened), things were very, very rough between us for a bit but we are working thru the issues slowly but surely. I believe he definitely learned a lesson about his naivety and blindly believing ppl like he did her. Sad that ppl like her exist, leaching off of others by taking advantage of people's good intentions, but they do and they are everywhere.
Lessons learned all the way around and yes, an overreaction on my part but I don't feel that some level of being annoyed and slightly suspicious of what happened was totally inappropriate at the time.
She did pay him back via Western Union yesterday.
She did lie and lead him to believe that she and I were close friends who had known each other for years, therefore he believed I would have no problem with it and that she was trustworthy. Because he had seen where she and I had tweeted back and forth and both of us happened to live in SC, loosely know some of the same ppl bc we are both nurses, both are avid Gamecocks, etc he bought her story that she and I were actually long-time friends.
She forwarded all of the txt and DM messages from twitter between the two of them to me and he was being truthful about it not being anything intentionally deceptive, underhanded or anything at all to do with trying to score with this chick.
He was pissed about her not keeping her word about repaying him after he went out on a limb to help her. It wasn't bc he was in desperate need of the money back. He said he got a feeling after she did not keep her word and then kept dodging him that something wasn't right, and still believing that she and I were friends, thought that I may be able to find out what was going on with her which was why he asked me to talk with her about recouping the money. Of course, that's when he became aware that she had lied about us being friends to begin with and that further outraged him.
Long story short, turns out he was being truthful all along, my insecurities from a marriage that went horribly wrong surfaced (insecurities I honestly wasn't even aware existed until this happened), things were very, very rough between us for a bit but we are working thru the issues slowly but surely. I believe he definitely learned a lesson about his naivety and blindly believing ppl like he did her. Sad that ppl like her exist, leaching off of others by taking advantage of people's good intentions, but they do and they are everywhere.
Lessons learned all the way around and yes, an overreaction on my part but I don't feel that some level of being annoyed and slightly suspicious of what happened was totally inappropriate at the time.
Posted on 11/1/16 at 7:14 am to Carolina_Girl
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She forwarded all of the txt and DM messages from twitter between the two of them to me and he was being truthful about it not being anything intentionally deceptive, underhanded or anything at all to do with trying to score with this chick.
Holy frickballs...did you request this or did she voluntarily send them to you?
Either way...
Posted on 11/1/16 at 8:57 am to vengeanceofrain
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Also has lying by the way . Who the frick loans someone 126 that's the exact bullshite number I come up with in my head when I'm making excuse. Precise enough to be believable large enough to want back not large enough to miss. 126 is a cheating prime number You ask me to borrow some money to pay x one you aren't going to say I need 126 dollars bitch you ain't got 1 dollar you can't round that down? Or she's going to say I need 130. Nonone borrows 126
Do you speak English? Because you sure as frick do not type or post in English....
By the way who have you scammed out of money lately? What great computer program are you making?
Yesterday/today you have admitted to lying, kissing a dude, and being an idiot.
Posted on 11/1/16 at 9:11 am to Carolina_Girl
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yes, an overreaction on my part
I don't think you overreacted at all.
Posted on 11/1/16 at 1:50 pm to sms151t
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Do you speak English? Because you sure as frick do not type or post in English.... By the way who have you scammed out of money lately? What great computer program are you making? Yesterday/today you have admitted to lying, kissing a dude, and being an idiot.
so so triggered
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if telling yourself that i'm some scam artist helps you sleep at night go ahead but it doesn't make it any truer.
regarding the big job I am working on
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I just signed a contract that will keep me on the project for the next 1-2 years and pay out about 8 grand a month.
it must kill you that i'm better at life, probably better looking and smarter than you are
to the OP: If there is one thing I have learned in my dealings with the opposite sex is that no woman worth a damn is going to put up with your past baggage. If he's worth keeping around he's not going to keep putting up with your insecurities caused by a previous person, that's not his problem. Until HE gives you a legit reason to doubt him you should not do so.
This post was edited on 11/1/16 at 1:52 pm
Posted on 11/1/16 at 2:48 pm to vengeanceofrain
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it must kill you that i'm better at life, probably better looking and smarter than you are
Posted on 11/1/16 at 3:01 pm to Carolina_Girl
I don't know why he thinks he is owed 126 bucks, I do know with 100 percent certainty it isn't because he thought he was loaning your pal some cash
So, if it smells like shite, it is shite.
So, if it smells like shite, it is shite.
Posted on 11/1/16 at 5:17 pm to vengeanceofrain
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to the OP: If there is one thing I have learned in my dealings with the opposite sex is that no woman worth a damn is going to put up with your past baggage. If he's worth keeping around he's not going to keep putting up with your insecurities caused by a previous person, that's not his problem. Until HE gives you a legit reason to doubt him you should not do so.
Honey you would bend over backwards and suck your own dick if a chick like me told you to do it.
I have been here long enough to see your pathetic posts whining about your failed love life, sweetheart. And the sidewalk trash you end up with has more baggage under thier eyes and as their worn out labia than even the most traumatized chick in the world does emotionally.
And for a supposed "well off" guy, you are incredibly uneducated in the most basic fundamentals of English. Minimum wage does not qualify as well off, sweetheart. I have two degrees and guarantee you that I am more educated in my little toe than you are in your entire STD ravaged body and have made more money in the years that I have been on this Earth than you will have made in 3 of your pathetic lifetimes.
I would suggest getting to know your audience before you try to self inflate your ego with what you think is impressive. Most of the ppl here have more than a 4th grade education so what you spew just makes us laugh and, quite frankly, feel pretty sorry for you.
ETA: And I wouldn't give a shite if "any woman worth a damn" wouldn't put up with my "baggage"...I happen to prefer men, fricktard.
This post was edited on 11/1/16 at 7:51 pm
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