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re: When will gay jokes from student hecklers become unacceptable?

Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:04 pm to
Posted by LittleJerrySeinfield
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:04 pm to
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I didn't want to be the one to bring up race, but are the two on equal playing fields?


No, not even close, but the ones pushing "tolerance" are trying to make it so. Would piss me off if I were an African-American.
Posted by DMagic
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:05 pm to
I'm the crusader the red headed world needs
Posted by EKG
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:05 pm to
Oh, I hear ya.
Abut for some of us to whom Down's Syndrome hits close to home, it's awkward to constantly see "retard" used in a callous way.

I know there are a bunch of doods out there who'll always think that's cool; simply because those folks were raised to thank it's ok to do so. They are not likely to change. But I think it's harmless for the group at large to make an attempt to substitute words like "imbecile" or "douchebag," rather than going with "retard/tard/special eddy."

Just one person's opinion.

Everyone will--and should--do and say what they think is best.
This post was edited on 5/15/14 at 10:08 pm
Posted by SwayzeBalla
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:07 pm to
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the ones pushing "tolerance" are trying to make it so

Exactly how I feel. People are born with a certain skin color. People aren't born gay.
Posted by EKG
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:12 pm to
People are born with Downs.
They can't change how God has created them.
I think it's shitty for anyone to use their situation as an insult directed at others.
Again, just one opinion.
I've said my peace.
Thanks for not running me outta town on a rail.
Posted by OBReb6
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:13 pm to
The substituting words shite doesn't work because every time you substitute something it eventually becomes offensive too. For example, negro to colored to black to African American. Honestly you should just not put so much stock into words, especially when people don't use them to intentional offend anyway.
Posted by DMagic
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:16 pm to
What would we call fire fighters fire retardant suits?
Posted by OBReb6
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:17 pm to
There's also the term in music "to retard" meaning to slacken the tempo. I guess EKG would storm out of his violin lesson.
Posted by LSUNV
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:20 pm to
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People are born with Downs.


Speaking from someone else that Downs hits really close to home the word retard is derogative but I don't associate that with Downs.

Downies will always hold a special place with me, but I don't take offense at it either
Posted by DMagic
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:20 pm to
The violin is a queer instrument anyway
Posted by Hardy_Har
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:20 pm to
Being red headed is a choice.
Posted by OBReb6
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:21 pm to
My parents made me play it when I was a little kid, and I agree
Posted by DMagic
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:21 pm to
Did you know that in the UK they're trying to make red heads a protected class? #YesWeCan
Posted by EKG
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:22 pm to
First of all, I hate the word offend. It seems that any time someone doesn't like something, he's "offended." I don't buy that.

For something to truly offend you, it has to get at the heart of your most sacred beliefs and deride those things you hold most dear.

That said, when I read this quote:
quote:

especially when people don't use them to intentional offend anyway.

... I wondered, in what context would someone be calling someone a retard, where he wasn't trying to insult the other person?

Just seems odd.
Posted by pivey14
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:22 pm to
It's a 2 for 1 deal for Ole Miss fans.
Posted by Patton
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:23 pm to
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Here at Texas A&M University, one of our core values is respect. Please pledge to stop the using R-word and promote Respect. We are more alike than we are different

this is retarded
Posted by DMagic
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:24 pm to
Shut the frick up pivey
Posted by Hardy_Har
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:24 pm to
And gay
Posted by Prof
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:25 pm to
quote:

I didn't want to be the one to bring up race, but are the two on equal playing fields?


Depends on what you mean by that. If you mean in terms of the US declaring the speaker a persona non grata, ostracizing him/her and/or the backlash then a public figure who denounces black folks and to a lesser extent other people of color is typically a far bigger pariah than someone who is equally bad about gays and women.

That said, George Lincoln Rockwell (founder of the American Nazi Party and heavily influential among White Nationalists and the Christian Identity Movement), stated he'd "rather gas a homo" than a communist or black person (and he very much hated both black folks and what he deemed commies). Gays were holocaust victims - hunted by the SS seeking to find them and ship them off to the camps, executed, and persecuted by Hitler. Sadly, in many countries the worst crimes you'll see (things that would make anyone's skin crawl) are perpetuated against gays and lesbians and those suspected of being gay or lesbian. And of course groups like the Klan and other home grown groups hated gays every bit as much as black folks, mixed folks, so-called race traitors, Jews, Catholics, and alleged communists.

However, in the US there's not just chattel slavery but laws designed to systematically discriminate against American people of color and it took a great deal of blood shed and pain (not just in the Civil War) for things to become the way they are today and the results are still far from perfect tho' miles ahead of even just a few decades ago. But the biggest thing is that it's often been easier to spot a black folks on sight and easier to direct extreme racism against black folks, even those most wouldn't see as black would get similar treatment because in the days of small towns word got around even if you were just a one-dropper.

In the US, the horrible treatment gays and many women have endured has been largely unspoken of and less systematic. I don't think it's any easier but it makes the horrors people of color have endured undeniable while the history of others is less commonly known and probably less universal than things like Jim Crow and redlining which victimized ever identifiable person of color (and some not as identifiable) in both the North and South. Also Lynchings are well known for their horrors while crimes like what happened to Matt (?) Sheppard (that kid in Wyoming) are less well known, harder to formally ID as a hate crime (tho' that one was obvious) and don't often involve modern hate groups.

I think hatred and bigotry are pretty awful no matter who you are/what group you belong to. Even something like non-group members telling jokes/shouting slurs is harmful. Imagine being reminded you're a 2nd/3rd class citizen that people hate.
Posted by OBReb6
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Posted on 5/15/14 at 10:25 pm to
Because they're not trying to offend in the literal sense of speaking of a mentally challenged person? Seems pretty cut and dry.



"Mentally challenged" will be the next term to go on the chopping block, and then it will be "special"
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