re: When holding out on the hubby goes horribly wrong

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Ive straight up told my wife that if she ever starts playing this game, I'll leave her. I refuse to be one of the millions of miserable middle aged men who have to beg their wives for sex.

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Totally agree.

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You sound reasonable to be married to. I've always thought vows are best with stipulations.

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He deserves as much credit as I do for toughing it out so to speak

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Women think it's a bigger deal than men do. I knew it wasn't her fault. I've never had so many blowjobs in my life.

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I was just kidding and being sarcastic. Honestly, as a divorced person, I just wouldn't marry again if I thought I'd be willing to leave her for that. Too much to lose that you work hard for, and the beneficiary of losing it is the person who caused the whole shite storm to begin with. No fricking thank you.

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If I want to be legal I'll have to. ;-;

And I know man, just busting your balls.

I do have my eyes on a girl that I would marry, though.

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Sometimes women just don't feel confident with themselves. It's not always the man's fault.

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Agree, but nobody will deny that even if a woman is responsible for establishing her own self confidence, a man - especially a sexual partner - can easily tear it down.

So I have no doubt it is his fault in this case. The fact that he refuses to talk to her indicates he would be the kind of husband to do all the things that hurt a woman's confidence.

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Agree, but nobody will deny that even if a woman is responsible for establishing her own self confidence, a man - especially a sexual partner - can easily tear it down.

So I have no doubt it is his fault in this case. The fact that he refuses to talk to her indicates he would be the kind of husband to do all the things that hurt a woman's confidence.

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Here's my thing, as a woman, if a man treats you in such a way that you feel you have no confidence in yourself because he belittles your appearance then you either need to address it (guys can admittedly say/do some shitty things when they don't realize they're doing it) or GTFO of that relationship. And this is coming from someone that admittedly has struggled with self-esteem issues throughout life. Letting him walk all over you is just as bad as the walking IMO.

Eleanor Roosevelt (dyke jokes aside folks) pretty much nailed it when she said, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent".

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Disappoint. Was assuming some kind of kinky internet/phone/anonymous forum thing

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And a plug in vib.

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But that he asked for sex that often, I don't think he was disappointed with how she looked.

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He may have been trying to prove a point in asking that many times, and knowing how many times he would be told no. But you're right, he is obviously still attracted to her if he's still asking.

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I'm more appalled that this woman apparently feels there is nothing wrong with going to bed with a case of swamp arse.

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Seriously. That should be an available box to check on divorce forms.

I'm starting to get concerned with the jihad against my comments.