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re: Female Troubles
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:06 am to South Alabama Tide
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:06 am to South Alabama Tide
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Only went to the ones with a homepage of profiles from the area on it.
Just surfing for laughs but only looking at ones close to you?
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Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:07 am to Old Sarge
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Porn hurts relationships....fac
Boring relationships.
Porn can be very fun in healthy relationships.
Just sayin'.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:08 am to Nuts4LSU
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What if you found out she was logging in to an online dating site and she gave you the same explanation? Would you believe her?
I don't have an account so I didn't login. First time I had been on there. I wouldn't not listen and I wouldn't just pack and leave. I would sit down. Expect a thorough step by step explanation so I could judge if it was BS or not. Then go from there. I am about getting the entire story, finalizing the 100 percent truth. Then making a decision. Would I be offended and upset initially? Absolutely. I do not fault her and I feel remorse for hurting her feelings and even being on there. If I would have thought about how it could appear, I probably wouldn't be typing this right now.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:09 am to Agforlife
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So you're sayin I can keep snap chat
I trust you. Wouldn't bother me at all.
I'm getting the feeling I'm not the "norm" when it comes to most chick's feelings on this.
Might be why I get along better with you fellas.
This post was edited on 1/20/16 at 11:10 am
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:12 am to Carolina_Girl
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I'm getting the feeling I'm not the "norm" when it comes to most chick's feelings on this.
This is what I was referring to earlier. Some girls get it, most don't. Especially younger chicks (no offense, m'lady) neverrrr get it. Gotta handle them like bombs.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:13 am to Old Sarge
Only thing it had was people with cities underneath their name which was in my area. There was no filter or anything to pick from. Was just people on the homepage that said were in my area.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:13 am to South Alabama Tide
Sounds like she was looking for an out man. It sucks. I'm not going to judge her or you because I don't know what your day to day relationship is like and therefore whether it's justified or not.
Set a time frame for her to come back. 2-4 months at the most. Spend that time growing up. Contact her to let her know you still care about her. If you've already apologized, don't do it again. Being needy will only serve to push her away. If she truly feels the same way about you that you do her, she will seek you out. If she doesn't after your set time frame, well, you'll have your answer my man.
Set a time frame for her to come back. 2-4 months at the most. Spend that time growing up. Contact her to let her know you still care about her. If you've already apologized, don't do it again. Being needy will only serve to push her away. If she truly feels the same way about you that you do her, she will seek you out. If she doesn't after your set time frame, well, you'll have your answer my man.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:14 am to StrawsDrawnAtRandom
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This is what I was referring to earlier. Some girls get it, most don't. Especially younger chicks (no offense, m'lady) neverrrr get it. Gotta handle them like bombs.
I've always been this way, though.
Hell, I've gone to many a strip club with the ex. Couple's dances, me on stage with the stripper in her kiddie pool, etc.
I don't see anything wrong with it.
This post was edited on 1/20/16 at 11:15 am
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:15 am to South Alabama Tide
I was only fooling with you 
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:16 am to Old Sarge
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Just surfing for laughs but only looking at ones close to you?
This is a pretty anonymous board. If you cannot be honest with us, at least be so with yourself.
Looking your area shows you might have more reservations than you think.
Again, a marriage commitment should always be viewed as for life.
Not trying to be cruel, you are clearly upset, but it is a bit concerning if you do not see why this would upset someone.
Looking at a dating website and people in your area could arguably be much worse than porn.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:17 am to higgs_boson
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This is a pretty anonymous board. If you cannot be honest with us, at least be so with yourself.
Looking your area shows you might have more reservations than you think.
Again, a marriage commitment should always be viewed as for life.
Not trying to be cruel, you are clearly upset, but it is a bit concerning if you do not see why this would upset someone.
Looking at a dating website and people in your area could arguably be much worse than porn.
This is it, man. Not much else to add on.
If you want laughs, go to Craigslist.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:19 am to StrawsDrawnAtRandom
Or reddit. Or Twitter. Or Instagram. Or some other site that will display hilarious dating site profiles.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:19 am to higgs_boson
He wrote her a letter and seems genuinely sorry
I hope he updates the thread as things progress, I'm pulling for you op
I hope he updates the thread as things progress, I'm pulling for you op
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:21 am to higgs_boson
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Just surfing for laughs but only looking at ones close to you?
This is a pretty anonymous board. If you cannot be honest with us, at least be so with yourself.
Looking your area shows you might have more reservations than you think.
Again, a marriage commitment should always be viewed as for life.
Not trying to be cruel, you are clearly upset, but it is a bit concerning if you do not see why this would upset someone.
Looking at a dating website and people in your area could arguably be much worse than porn.
It was just cities under the pictures on the homepage with a description. I didn't search for my area. Pretty sure it traces your location when the page loads. I definitely see how this is upsetting and there's no one on the planet who is more remorseful than me at the moment. As You can tell by my last few posts.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:23 am to Old Sarge
Yeah, we're all pulling for you. Just for different things. I'm pulling for you that you get lots of strange and become honest with yourself.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:24 am to South Alabama Tide
Don't give her access to this board. There are (obviously) chicks on here who freely speak their minds and she definitely might freak the hell out..not to mention the discussions that go on here.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:27 am to Carolina_Girl
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Boring relationships.
Porn can be very fun in healthy relationships.
Just sayin'.
I love nurses. My ex-wife (24 yrs) is a nurse ... they're game for just about anything.
My current wife (15 years) is cool with it too.
So much fun.
Carolina Girl ... you are da bomb!
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:29 am to South Alabama Tide
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Well we have had a few fights prior that was a result of me just having perverted conversations with my high school and college buddies. This was the typical things like "oh you got a new girl? How are her boobs?" This happened a few times and we had big fights but we didn't end anything. This was the first time she gave the ring back and said I'm not marrying you.
This tells me all I need to know, RUN. RUN AWAY FAST.
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:30 am to South Alabama Tide
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As You can tell by my last few posts.
Don't get me wrong. I am pulling for you.
Just wanted to caution you to be sure it is what you want. If it is, I hope it works out!
But if you do have reservations somewhere deep down, maybe you should think about it more now instead of regretting it later.
This post was edited on 1/20/16 at 11:31 am
Posted on 1/20/16 at 11:32 am to higgs_boson
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Don't get me wrong. I am pulling for you.
Just wanted to caution you to be sure it is what you want. If it is, I hope it works out!
But if you do have reservations somewhere deep down, maybe you should think about it more now instead of regretting it later.
Thanks for the advice. And if I had doubts. I would agree. However, I love her and will fight and do whatever I have to to get her back.
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