re: Marriage over or salvageable?

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Maybe this is me being a p***y, but I've always thought marriage counseling is for those who can't just talk it out on their own and/or for marriages that are already toast.

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I used to think that as well but we ended up going to A few sessions. Think of it as having a referee. And with a referee, they’ll point out stuff not only that you need to work on but stuff your wife should work on as well - same things that you may have mentioned to your wife but she wasn’t as willing to listen bc it was coming from you, but coming from a therapist she may hear it differently.