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Would you have a relationship with a fan of a rival team?

Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:33 am
Posted by Dawggy_Style
Member since Oct 2013
558 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:33 am
During the season, I made a disparaging (but not all that insulting) remark on Facebook about fans of a rival team and my mother commented that I should be careful what I write because I may meet the love of my life and he may have gone to said other school. My first thought was that is ridiculous, I would never look twice at someone from that fanbase, but I see a lot of "house divided" relationships. (Well, really, my first thought was that I'm in my 30's, do I really need my mother's dating advice?) What do you think? Would you (or have you?) marry or cohabitate with the enemy? Is that better or worse than ending up with someone who has zero interest in football?
Posted by 3nOut
Central Texas, TX
Member since Jan 2013
28818 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:35 am to
i have several tU/TAMU BU/UT BU/TAMU OU/tU married friends.


the BU/TAMU seem to be the most strained of any of them when it comes to the sportsing.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:36 am to
I couldn't bear it if Mrs. T were a sip. Hell, we had words over her mentioning in passing that she liked a rival SEC West school's COLORS

My parents went to different schools, but A&M and Michigan rarely play each other, so it wasn't an issue.
Posted by Vols&Shaft83
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Member since Dec 2012
69895 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:36 am to
Sure. Much better than being in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about football, imo.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:38 am to
Yes. I don't take sports that seriously.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
112553 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:43 am to
I'd rather date someone who knows nothing about sports. There are very few women who know the first shite about football, but a lot who pretend they do, and are annoying.
Posted by parkjas2001
Gustav Fan Club: Consigliere
Member since Feb 2010
45000 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:46 am to
quote:

During the season, I made a disparaging (but not all that insulting) remark on Facebook about fans of a rival team and my mother commented that I should be careful what I write because I may meet the love of my life and he may have gone to said other school. My first thought was that is ridiculous, I would never look twice at someone from that fanbase, but I see a lot of "house divided" relationships. (Well, really, my first thought was that I'm in my 30's, do I really need my mother's dating advice?) What do you think? Would you (or have you?) marry or cohabitate with the enemy? Is that better or worse than ending up with someone who has zero interest in football?


I am engaged to a UGA alum.

It is def better than being with someone with no interest in football(the ex who went to AU)
Posted by UMRealist
Member since Feb 2013
35360 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:46 am to
My last three girl friends have all been state fans.

The second one actually ended bc she's a state fan. Imagine having elitedawgs over to your house every night or texting you all day. Literally hate that bitch now bc of it.
Posted by UMRealist
Member since Feb 2013
35360 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:47 am to
quote:

I'd rather date someone who knows nothing about sports. There are very few women who know the first shite about football, but a lot who pretend they do, and are annoying.



A-fricking-men
Posted by Dawggy_Style
Member since Oct 2013
558 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:47 am to
Last season, I dated someone who enjoys watching college sports in general, and of course he's much better informed about the SEC in general and UGA specifically than he was before we dated. He'd watch the games with me, was properly enthusiastic or consolatory when required, but I really think it was mostly because if he didn't show any interest we would have gone four months without spending time together on Saturdays. I still kept running text conversations with UGA friends during the game in order to discuss the details.

I don't know if it would be worse with someone who had no knowledge or interest at all, or someone who was a passionate fan for a team I hate.
Posted by Eric Nies Grind Time
Atlanta GA - ITP
Member since Sep 2012
24933 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:48 am to
I don't think I have ever dated anyone that was really into sports. It's not really something I care about or look for at all when dating. Sports are such a minor thing, it would be like not dating someone because they did not like a tv show I liked.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
112553 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:50 am to
She was probably banging coonass on the side.
This post was edited on 4/7/14 at 10:51 am
Posted by UMRealist
Member since Feb 2013
35360 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:52 am to


She was actually a virgin and didn't want to have sex until marriage but honestly that wasn't nearly the issue as her fanhood

eta: I should add that we dated during the middle-end of 7-0 so you can put into context how obnoxious she was.
This post was edited on 4/7/14 at 10:57 am
Posted by Dawggy_Style
Member since Oct 2013
558 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:56 am to
quote:

There are very few women who know the first shite about football, but a lot who pretend they do, and are annoying.



I'm sure that wasn't a dig at me, personally

I'm well aware of the fact that, while I am better informed that most people (men or women) especially in this area, I'm by no means an expert. I'm capable of having good discussions in bars, but on tRant I generally just read and learn. The whole point of joining here in the first place was so I can continue to add to in-depth knowledge of the game so that I can help my kids learn. I didn't want them to be the only kids on the team who didn't know anything about football just because their dad died. Anyway, I can typically hold my own.
Posted by Eric Nies Grind Time
Atlanta GA - ITP
Member since Sep 2012
24933 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:58 am to
quote:

but on tRant I generally just read and learn.


Really? I usually feel less informed after reading most of the posts on the rant.
Posted by Dawggy_Style
Member since Oct 2013
558 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 10:58 am to
Well, the Georgia board, anyway. The main rant is more for entertainment purposes.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
112553 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 11:03 am to
The rant's full of reactionary idiots, if you want them to learn about football they're better off just playing and watching. I learned all I really know about football from playing and then I read a lot from there.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 11:03 am to
Yeah, the team boards usually have better reading.

tRant is one giant thunderdome, tbh
Posted by Charlestondawg
South Cackalack
Member since Oct 2013
976 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 11:04 am to
I'd have a relationship with any woman regardless who she pulls for. It's a great way for me to show them how wrong they are.
Posted by Bamad
Calera, AL
Member since May 2010
5207 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 11:21 am to
I've been married to a MS State fan for 9 years now.

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