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re: woman questions
Posted on 6/21/16 at 10:30 am to asphinctersayswhat
Posted on 6/21/16 at 10:30 am to asphinctersayswhat
these responses.... 
don't flaunt interest in another woman. That never works unless you're a teenager. Just don't. That will push her away and/or create stupid drama that no one wants.
My advice (as a female) is to not do anything. Follow her lead, ride, talk..whatever it is you guys do-at her pace. If she wants to talk with you, she will.
don't flaunt interest in another woman. That never works unless you're a teenager. Just don't. That will push her away and/or create stupid drama that no one wants.
My advice (as a female) is to not do anything. Follow her lead, ride, talk..whatever it is you guys do-at her pace. If she wants to talk with you, she will.
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Posted on 6/21/16 at 12:16 pm to hoginthesw
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hoginthesw
Thanks for the input. I was hoping one of the few women on this board would respond.
Posted on 6/21/16 at 1:17 pm to asphinctersayswhat
Step 1, concentrate on getting buff
Step 2, start bringing other females around her
Step 3, stop all communication with her
Step 4, when she messages you, take your time messaging her back
Step 5, she'll ask you to hang out. Have a cavalier attitude about it (whatever, I guess, etc.)
Step 6, when you go out, at least kiss her
Step 7, wait for her to message you
Step 8, she'll be chasing you now
Step 9, if none of this works, there are billions of females on the earth
Step 2, start bringing other females around her
Step 3, stop all communication with her
Step 4, when she messages you, take your time messaging her back
Step 5, she'll ask you to hang out. Have a cavalier attitude about it (whatever, I guess, etc.)
Step 6, when you go out, at least kiss her
Step 7, wait for her to message you
Step 8, she'll be chasing you now
Step 9, if none of this works, there are billions of females on the earth
Posted on 6/21/16 at 2:07 pm to asphinctersayswhat
Don't forget to neg her, or whatever that is.
Someone on the TV once said to neg them. It must be true!
Someone on the TV once said to neg them. It must be true!
Posted on 6/21/16 at 3:12 pm to skrayper
So, I stopped texting her the other day. Today, she sends me a text to find out how I'm doing. Hmmmm!
Posted on 6/21/16 at 3:20 pm to asphinctersayswhat
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So, I stopped texting her the other day. Today, she sends me a text to find out how I'm doing. Hmmmm!
Remember, stay cool about it. Don't overdo it :)
Posted on 6/21/16 at 3:23 pm to skrayper
You jest but negging actually works. It basically plays a woman's generally thin sense of self esteem against herself. It is the same reason why women love the bad guy who is bad for them, you are basically emulating a bad guy in that situation.
Too many guys laugh at a phenomenon like 50 Shades instead of asking ourselves "how does this book connect to female sexuality and how can I wield that power like a sword?" Women obviously at some level liked to be bossed around and like to not be in control, but a modern man is too scared he will offend that he never explores those impulses.
The truth is that not long ago in the cosmic sense we were basically animals living in caves, and that sort of conditioning and selective breeding doesn't just fall out of the human genome because a post-enlightenment society likes to pretend that we have evolved into some sort of superior creature.
Those red pill guys are misogynistic assholes, but they are geniuses in that they have figured out the counter-intuitive ways that the female brain has developed over thousands of years. No one else will screw with that third rail because quite frankly manipulating people's impulses isn't really something that society tolerates (outside of advertising). But those red pill guys know how to push the right buttons from prehistory to get almost any woman to abandon her good senses.
They do take it too far for my tastes, they try to turn women into "sluts" and then shame them when their tricks work. But if I found out my wife was cheating on me or something and I needed to rebound through a pile of women sexually to heal then I would be sucking down that red pill as fast as I can. They have it figured out if your goal is pussy.
Too many guys laugh at a phenomenon like 50 Shades instead of asking ourselves "how does this book connect to female sexuality and how can I wield that power like a sword?" Women obviously at some level liked to be bossed around and like to not be in control, but a modern man is too scared he will offend that he never explores those impulses.
The truth is that not long ago in the cosmic sense we were basically animals living in caves, and that sort of conditioning and selective breeding doesn't just fall out of the human genome because a post-enlightenment society likes to pretend that we have evolved into some sort of superior creature.
Those red pill guys are misogynistic assholes, but they are geniuses in that they have figured out the counter-intuitive ways that the female brain has developed over thousands of years. No one else will screw with that third rail because quite frankly manipulating people's impulses isn't really something that society tolerates (outside of advertising). But those red pill guys know how to push the right buttons from prehistory to get almost any woman to abandon her good senses.
They do take it too far for my tastes, they try to turn women into "sluts" and then shame them when their tricks work. But if I found out my wife was cheating on me or something and I needed to rebound through a pile of women sexually to heal then I would be sucking down that red pill as fast as I can. They have it figured out if your goal is pussy.
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Posted on 6/21/16 at 3:23 pm to skrayper
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Remember, stay cool about it. Don't overdo it :)
It's pretty sad that a 43 yr old man is getting coached on the interwebs.
:lol:Posted on 6/21/16 at 3:28 pm to cardboardboxer
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You jest but negging actually works.
Perhaps, but I can also assure it wouldn't work on the women I've been with. Any attempt at negging them is likely to at least leave your own ego obliterated, not to mention your pelvis.
If a man "negs", he's as pathetic a human being as I can imagine. If I actually witnessed it in person, I'd personally sabotage that punk all night.
Posted on 6/21/16 at 3:41 pm to asphinctersayswhat
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It's pretty sad that a 43 yr old man is getting coached on the interwebs.
Nah dude, sad would be assuming you know everything just because you are 43.
Posted on 6/21/16 at 3:52 pm to asphinctersayswhat
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So, I stopped texting her the other day. Today, she sends me a text to find out how I'm doing. Hmmmm!
You had a jerk session after getting her message didn't you
Posted on 6/21/16 at 3:55 pm to asphinctersayswhat
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So, I stopped texting her the other day. Today, she sends me a text to find out how I'm doing. Hmmmm!
Reply with a dick pic
Posted on 6/21/16 at 3:55 pm to skrayper
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Perhaps, but I can also assure it wouldn't work on the women I've been with.
Maybe, maybe not. Unless you know the entire dating history of every woman you dated then you can't know if they dated some shitheads or guys with criminal records when they were younger. Most women are attracted to bad boys, it takes a certain level of life maturity to move past that urge.
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If a man "negs", he's as pathetic a human being as I can imagine
Well there are two ways to look at that.
Genuine shithead guys that women love to date neg the women they date naturally because they are shitheads. At that point is isn't part of his "game," it is just who he is and by some sort of sick cosmic joke his natural personality is like catnip to women.
The other side of this is a generally nice guy who got sick of years of being friendzoned as the girls they desired fricked the shitheads. So they decided to emulate the shitheads to even the odds, which means premeditated negs like the shitheads would naturally do.
I personally think shitheads are "pathetic," but in our culture there is a whole lot of people who worship at the altar of the "alpha male" so I am probably alone on that.
I would figure most people (including you I assume) would feel more negatively towards the guy PRETENDING to be a shithead, because he isn't being honest and if he gets pussy that way it isn't pussy he deserves. He is basically stealing off the alpha dog's plate, and people don't like those who question the natural order of things.
Personally I don't see those fake shithead guys that way because I like an underdog, and I like the idea that beta males can ape the alpha males because it poisons the well and maybe eventually dismantles the system (if young women can ever become self aware about what is happening). But I have seen a few nice guys turn into legitimate shitheads when they are poisoned by the red pill philosophy over time, which means they can no longer be a good long term partner for a woman anymore.
It is a personal judgement call really.
Posted on 6/21/16 at 4:01 pm to cardboardboxer
Negging is for amateurs, and women (most of them) have caught on to Neg theory. At this point, if it works, it means she wanted to frick you anyway and now you just look like an a-hole to her hotter friends.
Posted on 6/21/16 at 4:12 pm to Vols&Shaft83
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Negging is for amateurs
It isn't the best move for sure. I think the a-hole redpill trick of ignoring a woman is more effective personally.
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women (most of them) have caught on to Neg theory.
To paraphrase a Texan in my favorite stoner movie, there is always a new crop of younger women that have no clue.
Posted on 6/21/16 at 4:16 pm to cardboardboxer
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It isn't the best move for sure. I think the a-hole redpill trick of ignoring a woman is more effective personally.
Indubitably.
Posted on 6/21/16 at 4:18 pm to asphinctersayswhat
just back off and she'll come back
Posted on 6/21/16 at 4:31 pm to Vols&Shaft83
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Reply with a dick pic
Considering we have gone to races together where I change into my gear at the event, she has, probably, already seen the goods. It must be ok because she didn't stop talking to me back then.
Posted on 6/21/16 at 4:32 pm to asphinctersayswhat
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So, I stopped texting her the other day. Today, she sends me a text to find out how I'm doing. Hmmmm!
Must be having troubles with her current frick buddy. Keep us posted.
Oh and also, does that imply that you texted her every day prior to the cutoff?
Posted on 6/21/16 at 4:37 pm to PrivatePublic
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Oh and also, does that imply that you texted her every day prior to the cutoff?
We talked everyday but she instigated the conversations at about the same rate I did. She just backed off in the last week to 10days.
TBH I would be very surprised if she had side action going on because she doesnt seem to be that kind of person.
BTW I have known her for 7-8 years before I ever started hanging out with her.
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