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re: (serious) my friend univted me to her wedding becuase i'm black
Posted on 8/22/15 at 7:04 pm to vengeanceofrain
Posted on 8/22/15 at 7:04 pm to vengeanceofrain
If you didn't hit it then she has a race issue
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Posted on 8/22/15 at 7:09 pm to vengeanceofrain
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no. honest to god if she came out of my bathroom butt naked and told me to take her, i'd tell her to put her clothes on. my friendship with her was not worth it. we're, i thought, were pretty close.
Stop right here.
I have 2 female friends like this - very close but no sexy sexy - and here is the way to tell if they are for real. Did this woman ever fix you up with someone else, or did she just dominate all your time and never shared it with other women?
Posted on 8/22/15 at 7:22 pm to Cheese Grits
quote:the latter
I have 2 female friends like this - very close but no sexy sexy - and here is the way to tell if they are for real. Did this woman ever fix you up with someone else, or did she just dominate all your time and never shared it with other women?
Posted on 8/22/15 at 7:26 pm to Old Sarge
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If you didn't hit it then she has a race issue
Or he just got friend zoned to hell. If there's anything that is consistent across the board whether it's race, class, or whatever it's that once your arse is in the friend zone you pretty well never get out.
This right here:
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We talk everyday, I've done a lot of shite or her, I took a shitty site she had a few years ago and tore it down and rebuilt it and made it bad arse and now she's about to be able to quit her job and run her site full time becuase of me and i didn't charge her a dime for it. I just wanted to help her out and help her achieve her goals. Whenever some serious shite goes down i'm the person she calls. I thought were were fricking friends.
Sounds like all the trimmings without the meat if you know what I'm saying.
Posted on 8/22/15 at 7:28 pm to BluegrassBelle
yeah i was in the friend zone. i don't have a problem being in the friend zone with this girl. but don't you invite friend zone dudes to your wedding lol
Posted on 8/22/15 at 7:36 pm to vengeanceofrain
I mean, that's exactly what it sounds like to be honest. You didn't sleep with her. You bent over backwards for her and she apparently didn't have an issue with being such good friends with you as a black guy pre-wedding invite fiasco. So did these feelings of "oh no, can't have the black guy around?" just suddenly pop up?
I went to a conservative Mississippi wedding over the summer and there were black people there with no issue. Ones that were friend of the bride no less. So I'm going to go out on a limb and say there's a little bit more to the story on this one then you just trying to find an opportunity to throw out the race card to compensate for either having the countiest friend on the planet or being friend zoned. Or you're lying off your arse.
I went to a conservative Mississippi wedding over the summer and there were black people there with no issue. Ones that were friend of the bride no less. So I'm going to go out on a limb and say there's a little bit more to the story on this one then you just trying to find an opportunity to throw out the race card to compensate for either having the countiest friend on the planet or being friend zoned. Or you're lying off your arse.
This post was edited on 8/22/15 at 7:37 pm
Posted on 8/22/15 at 8:00 pm to vengeanceofrain
If she fit the latter then she is an attention whore and you are just a minion as if she were really a friend with no sexy sexy, she would have fixed you up multiple times with other women already.
Move on and don't look back
Seriously, if you are a computer dude why not hack JDate and hook up with some nice jewish girls in the area. If you are a clean cut man with a steady job the jewish moms in the area will love you. Make friends with one and the world will open upon you.
Move on and don't look back
Seriously, if you are a computer dude why not hack JDate and hook up with some nice jewish girls in the area. If you are a clean cut man with a steady job the jewish moms in the area will love you. Make friends with one and the world will open upon you.
Posted on 8/22/15 at 8:02 pm to BluegrassBelle
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Sounds like all the trimmings without the meat if you know what I'm saying.
That or he is the gay friend but had this been the case, not only would he have remained invited, but she would have had him working on the decorations.
Posted on 8/22/15 at 8:30 pm to Cheese Grits
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As a southern person, being the gracious one, and not the catty one, will irritate them much more in the long run and you come up smelling like roses. It is the win - win strategy.
That would be the win-win strategy, if she had the class or upbringing to understand it. She's from New Jersey.
Posted on 8/22/15 at 8:46 pm to vengeanceofrain
Are you gay ? I've never met a straight guy that would pout over missing a wedding.
Posted on 8/22/15 at 9:25 pm to vengeanceofrain
Sounds to me like she's got relatives who she's afraid would embarass her if you showed up. That's my take anyway...
Posted on 8/22/15 at 9:41 pm to vengeanceofrain
Since you talk to her everyday for 2 yrs and you never hit it, you were in the friend zone. And you made a pass at her recently that she rejected and she moved you out of the friend zone.
Posted on 8/22/15 at 9:54 pm to vengeanceofrain
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i'm in new jersey not arkansas
You should have a talk with her old man.
Posted on 8/22/15 at 10:04 pm to vengeanceofrain
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she asked my opinion on if she should get married or not and i said yeah he's a great guy
Maybe she doesn't want you to attend because she gets jealous when you're around her fiance?
Posted on 8/22/15 at 10:11 pm to vengeanceofrain
If I were you my last words to her would be frick Off. Sounds like she's friends with you when you can help her out but embarrassed to have her black friend at her wedding. frick that bitch.
Posted on 8/22/15 at 10:14 pm to semotruman
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That would be the win-win strategy, if she had the class or upbringing to understand it. She's from New Jersey.
Still better to be the better person even if she does not understand it. She may be from Jersey but no need to let it rub off on him.
On a related note, why do guys put up with this crap? Car door locks used to be a great indication of quality but in these days and times the "does she share you with other women" has been a pretty good indicator.
Posted on 8/22/15 at 10:19 pm to rb
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I've never met a straight guy that would pout over missing a wedding.
Maybe the mom was hot and he was gong to tap that for revenge at the wedding.
Posted on 8/22/15 at 10:25 pm to Hardy_Har
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I live in central Mississippi. I am a middle class redneck. There are black and white people at every wedding, funeral and birthday party I go to.
Hell yes!
Bubbas you fish with these days come in all shapes and colors. This was a lot less common in the 50's and 60's.
Posted on 8/22/15 at 10:32 pm to vengeanceofrain
Sorry to hear the Northeast is so racist. That stuff should only happen in the South right?
You need to bring your business to Fayetteville, not sure how much local biz you'd get for your pron sites, but web folks and coders seem to all work remote anyways.
Better quality of life and cost of living.
You need to bring your business to Fayetteville, not sure how much local biz you'd get for your pron sites, but web folks and coders seem to all work remote anyways.
Better quality of life and cost of living.
Posted on 8/22/15 at 10:49 pm to vengeanceofrain
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Then black people don't want anything to do with me becuase "i'm a sellout"
I'm hurt
Mash here to find new black friends
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