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Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:02 pm to
Posted by DocHoliday11
South Georgia
Member since Jun 2013
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Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:02 pm to
My future in-laws are from Sumter County
Posted by dwgsfrlife7673
Warner Robins
Member since Jan 2014
1036 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:03 pm to
My SO told me she understood why I didn't feel comfortable going there she even agreed that she may not either. From what she told me he seems like a slight hot head. The last thing I want is a bullet coming my way.
Posted by dwgsfrlife7673
Warner Robins
Member since Jan 2014
1036 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:04 pm to
HA. Went to school in Americus. It's an ok place. Wouldn't raise my kids there though.
Posted by DocHoliday11
South Georgia
Member since Jun 2013
4313 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:04 pm to
Yeah definitely go for a restaurant...or even a bar for a quick drink then you can leave after one round
Posted by AA7
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2009
26727 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:05 pm to
Well that's a better setting than I was anticipating. That could be doable assuming he is the only one there who objects.

ETA: I say that with the preface of I'm not in the situation and may not be so willing if I were in your shoes.
This post was edited on 6/16/16 at 8:07 pm
Posted by DocHoliday11
South Georgia
Member since Jun 2013
4313 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:05 pm to
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This post was edited on 6/16/16 at 8:12 pm
Posted by dwgsfrlife7673
Warner Robins
Member since Jan 2014
1036 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:06 pm to
I'm going to try and convince them for that. Like I mentioned I'm more than willing to pay.
Posted by dwgsfrlife7673
Warner Robins
Member since Jan 2014
1036 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:07 pm to
Still makes me feel awkward to be honest. Her mom may like me but still doesn't change much in my opinion.
Posted by piggilicious
Member since Jan 2011
37299 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:08 pm to
quote:

Yeah definitely go for a restaurant...or even a bar for a quick drink then you can leave after one round


This- since you think he may be a bit of a hothead. You can just be polite and say you appreciate the invite but that you and your lady would both feel more comfortable meeting out. You could even ask his opinion on what place would be good. Hopefully he'd respect that.
This post was edited on 6/16/16 at 8:08 pm
Posted by dwgsfrlife7673
Warner Robins
Member since Jan 2014
1036 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:08 pm to
Enjoy it if you do head there. It's a nice enough place. Check out Floyds and The Station.
Posted by Stacked
Member since Apr 2012
5675 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:10 pm to
quote:

So it'll be me more so being brave for both of us


Good god. Pathetic. Dude, do yourself a favor and don't do anything until you're at least older than three years shy of 25!!! And you need to stop this fairy tale "be brave" for her bullshite.
Posted by DocHoliday11
South Georgia
Member since Jun 2013
4313 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:12 pm to
We eat at the station every trip...their flat iron is pretty dang good..those fried jalapeño cheese grits are AMAZING

If we moved there we would move close to albany. Her parents want us close but not actually in Americus
This post was edited on 6/16/16 at 8:13 pm
Posted by dwgsfrlife7673
Warner Robins
Member since Jan 2014
1036 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:12 pm to
I came for actual legitimate opinions not your criticism. If you have anything constructive I'll listen. Otherwise I can ignore your ignorance lol
Posted by Stacked
Member since Apr 2012
5675 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:12 pm to
Any guy who wants to marry a girl at twenty-frickin-two should be frickin shaken by someone.
Posted by dwgsfrlife7673
Warner Robins
Member since Jan 2014
1036 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:13 pm to
I like how you worded that. I think I'll use that comment.
Posted by Stacked
Member since Apr 2012
5675 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:14 pm to
quote:

I came for actual legitimate opinions not your criticism. If you have anything constructive I'll listen. Otherwise I can ignore your ignorance lol


I don't give a shite why you're here or what you're looking for. 10 years from now you're gonna ask yourself "why did nobody fricking tell me?", and you'll remember that that's what I'm doing right this second.
Posted by dwgsfrlife7673
Warner Robins
Member since Jan 2014
1036 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:15 pm to
I said we planned on getting married. I'm not dropping my knee tomorrow lol. And shaken? I'm sorry if someone with a potentially violent past who makes my girlfriend terrified has me cautious. Like I said your opinion is invalid and pointless at this time.
Posted by dwgsfrlife7673
Warner Robins
Member since Jan 2014
1036 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:16 pm to
Appreciate your concern but I'll be ok. Have a nice evening lol
Posted by Stacked
Member since Apr 2012
5675 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:17 pm to
You're too young to know how valuable my opinion can be. Good luck. You're going to hate yourself later for behaving this way in a relationship. You sound 14 compared to the way you'll sound at 30. Were you ready at 14 to know who you'll want to be with when you're 40? No. Your world will change a minimum of 5 times before then.
Posted by Evolved Simian
Bushwood Country Club
Member since Sep 2010
20619 posts
Posted on 6/16/16 at 8:19 pm to
quote:

My future in-laws are from Sumter County



LOL. Americus is exactly the place I was thinking of when I wrote my post above.
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