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Posted on 3/18/13 at 2:17 pm to MSCoastTigerGirl
Posted on 3/18/13 at 2:17 pm to MSCoastTigerGirl
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But I'm still going get drunk and cry.
You're a grown woman. You're allowed to get drunk and cry.
I just wonder something...if your dog was watching you right now and was able to communicate with you via human language, what do you think he'd say to you if he saw you in this emotional state?
Tell me. What conversation would you have with him if he appeared before you at this moment?
What would you say to him? And what do you think he'd say to you?
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Posted on 3/18/13 at 2:20 pm to Slippery Slope
Thanks. I am an absolute wreck. I have been crying since Saturday. I would think that eventually I would run out of tears.
It's been a rough weekend, but I'll be ok. It's just going to take time. I'm trying to find all of his toys around the house and pick them up, but every time I find one I cry. This sucks so bad.
It's been a rough weekend, but I'll be ok. It's just going to take time. I'm trying to find all of his toys around the house and pick them up, but every time I find one I cry. This sucks so bad.
Posted on 3/18/13 at 2:21 pm to mizzoukills
He would ask me to make him a White Russian. He loved them. If I left mine sitting on the table and got up, he would drink it all.
I hope he is in doggy heaven right now with a White Russian and a champion show bitch.
I hope he is in doggy heaven right now with a White Russian and a champion show bitch.
Posted on 3/18/13 at 2:23 pm to MSCoastTigerGirl
It'll suck worse if you get drunk for the sake of getting drunk.
If you're going to get drunk, at least be around friends who can make you laugh.
Put yourself in a healing state of mind. Allow yourself to heal and move on.
If you're going to get drunk, at least be around friends who can make you laugh.
Put yourself in a healing state of mind. Allow yourself to heal and move on.
Posted on 3/18/13 at 2:23 pm to mizzoukills
Killz,
My PhD adviser is not happy at my current university and is looking for a faculty position at another school. If he goes, I have a few options. 1) I follow him to the new school, retake a few classes, and continue my research under him. 2) Stay at my current school and be co-advised by a professor that remains on campus. 3) Quit and go into the job market with my masters degree.
Factors playing major roles in the decision: My gf (probably fiance within the year) still having to finish her undergrad, academic quality of the new school (will in all likelihood be more academically respected), financial compensation for move/ cost of living increases, etc.
My PhD adviser is not happy at my current university and is looking for a faculty position at another school. If he goes, I have a few options. 1) I follow him to the new school, retake a few classes, and continue my research under him. 2) Stay at my current school and be co-advised by a professor that remains on campus. 3) Quit and go into the job market with my masters degree.
Factors playing major roles in the decision: My gf (probably fiance within the year) still having to finish her undergrad, academic quality of the new school (will in all likelihood be more academically respected), financial compensation for move/ cost of living increases, etc.
Posted on 3/18/13 at 2:25 pm to MSCoastTigerGirl
Coast Tea
See! That's a cute thought...and sorta funny. It made me laugh because I can imagine that scene!
However, do you really believe he'd ask you to make him a White Russian if he noticed that you were an emotional wreck because of his passing away?
Come on, Coast Tea.
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I hope he is in doggy heaven right now with a White Russian and a champion show bitc
See! That's a cute thought...and sorta funny. It made me laugh because I can imagine that scene!
However, do you really believe he'd ask you to make him a White Russian if he noticed that you were an emotional wreck because of his passing away?
Come on, Coast Tea.
This post was edited on 3/18/13 at 4:14 pm
Posted on 3/18/13 at 2:27 pm to BamaChemE
BamaChem
Well, let me ask you this...which option are you considering most at the moment and why?
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My PhD adviser is not happy at my current university and is looking for a faculty position at another school. If he goes, I have a few options. 1) I follow him to the new school, retake a few classes, and continue my research under him. 2) Stay at my current school and be co-advised by a professor that remains on campus. 3) Quit and go into the job market with my masters degree.
Factors playing major roles in the decision: My gf (probably fiance within the year) still having to finish her undergrad, academic quality of the new school (will in all likelihood be more academically respected), financial compensation for move/ cost of living increases, etc.
Well, let me ask you this...which option are you considering most at the moment and why?
This post was edited on 3/18/13 at 4:15 pm
Posted on 3/18/13 at 2:29 pm to mizzoukills
You're making me cry again, dick head.
Posted on 3/18/13 at 2:31 pm to mizzoukills
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Well, let me ask you this...which option are you considering most at the moment and why?
To early to call as my adviser has not yet decided on a new school or if he will go to a new school. However, he has made it quite clear to me that he is looking and would want me to come with him to any new institution.
My initial instinct is to go to the new school (bump in academic prestige, research continuity, better facilities), the final decision though would have to be extensively discussed with my SO in order to work out living situations, etc.
Posted on 3/18/13 at 2:34 pm to mizzoukills
I used to let him have some. He would hear me crushing the ice in the icemaker and he would come running in the kitchen and go ape shite. 
I would make him his own, watered down, small glass. He would be so happy. He liked strawberry daquris also.
I would make him his own, watered down, small glass. He would be so happy. He liked strawberry daquris also.
This post was edited on 3/18/13 at 2:41 pm
Posted on 3/18/13 at 2:36 pm to mizzoukills
Dear Killz
I have unfortunate genes that make me hairy. Going to the beach soon to show off my rock hard body, but every time I shave my shoulders they break out. How do I get rid of the hair and keep the breakout away?
I have unfortunate genes that make me hairy. Going to the beach soon to show off my rock hard body, but every time I shave my shoulders they break out. How do I get rid of the hair and keep the breakout away?
Posted on 3/18/13 at 2:44 pm to MSCoastTigerGirl
Coast Tea
I encourage you to get out of the house. Like I said before, go for a drive with the purpose to get lost. Make it a local drive, but take roads that you've never been on before.
Play your favorite music (or some mood music) in the car. Perhaps music you listened to one night when you made him a strawberry daquris.
Just drive. Zone out on the scenic country views and think about your dog.
Driving is amazing therapy!
When I received news that my father had unexpectedly died, I immediately went for a drive. I had one of the most enlightened experiences of my life! I truly believe that he spoke to me on that drive through incredible moments of grief, clarity, and scenic beauty.
He sent me his peace that day on a random meandering highway. That was the last time we "spoke" to each other and it was the most beautiful experience.
I both grieved and healed during that drive. I'll forever be thankful that I was able to process his death, make peace, and move on in such a short period of time. The last thing he'd want is to see me emotionally tortured over his passing.
If anything, he'd want me to celebrate his life and continue to be a strong person in mine.
Killz
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I would make him his own, watered down, small glass. He would be so happy. He liked strawberry daquris also.
I encourage you to get out of the house. Like I said before, go for a drive with the purpose to get lost. Make it a local drive, but take roads that you've never been on before.
Play your favorite music (or some mood music) in the car. Perhaps music you listened to one night when you made him a strawberry daquris.
Just drive. Zone out on the scenic country views and think about your dog.
Driving is amazing therapy!
When I received news that my father had unexpectedly died, I immediately went for a drive. I had one of the most enlightened experiences of my life! I truly believe that he spoke to me on that drive through incredible moments of grief, clarity, and scenic beauty.
He sent me his peace that day on a random meandering highway. That was the last time we "spoke" to each other and it was the most beautiful experience.
I both grieved and healed during that drive. I'll forever be thankful that I was able to process his death, make peace, and move on in such a short period of time. The last thing he'd want is to see me emotionally tortured over his passing.
If anything, he'd want me to celebrate his life and continue to be a strong person in mine.
Killz
This post was edited on 3/19/13 at 10:54 pm
Posted on 3/18/13 at 2:45 pm to BamaChemE
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This post was edited on 3/18/13 at 4:13 pm
Posted on 3/18/13 at 3:25 pm to BamaChemE
BamaChem
Are you married or engaged? If you are, I agree that this decision is indeed complicated. It may come down to a pros and cons list (as cliche as that sounds). Wow! That was cliche to reference a cliche.
Anyhow, back on topic. If you're not married or engaged, you've already made your decision. You have invested a LOT in your education and future. If your relationship is meant to be, it will continue to thrive regardless of the decision you make.
You're young. This is the time to focus on yourself. Your future relationship(s) will be rewarded if you are free of regret.
-Killz
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My initial instinct is to go to the new school (bump in academic prestige, research continuity, better facilities), the final decision though would have to be extensively discussed with my SO in order to work out living situations, etc.
Are you married or engaged? If you are, I agree that this decision is indeed complicated. It may come down to a pros and cons list (as cliche as that sounds). Wow! That was cliche to reference a cliche.
Anyhow, back on topic. If you're not married or engaged, you've already made your decision. You have invested a LOT in your education and future. If your relationship is meant to be, it will continue to thrive regardless of the decision you make.
You're young. This is the time to focus on yourself. Your future relationship(s) will be rewarded if you are free of regret.
-Killz
This post was edited on 3/18/13 at 4:13 pm
Posted on 3/18/13 at 3:36 pm to Indfanfromcol
Indfan
There are a number of things that you can do to remove hair.
However, I recommend none.
Quit being overly sensitive about your hairy condition. You're a man! Embrace the beast. Embrace your manliness with attitude.
If you have hair, let it grow. Grunt. Scratch your ballz in public. Be a man!
Plus, if you have a rock hard body, no good woman is gonna worry about a little bit of hair.
Man up! Embrace the beast.
Killz
quote:
I have unfortunate genes that make me hairy. Going to the beach soon to show off my rock hard body, but every time I shave my shoulders they break out. How do I get rid of the hair and keep the breakout away?
There are a number of things that you can do to remove hair.
However, I recommend none.
Quit being overly sensitive about your hairy condition. You're a man! Embrace the beast. Embrace your manliness with attitude.
If you have hair, let it grow. Grunt. Scratch your ballz in public. Be a man!
Plus, if you have a rock hard body, no good woman is gonna worry about a little bit of hair.
Man up! Embrace the beast.
Killz
This post was edited on 3/18/13 at 4:14 pm
Posted on 3/18/13 at 4:19 pm to mizzoukills
Dear SWK,
Is it true that if you don't use it you lose it?
Is it true that if you don't use it you lose it?
Posted on 3/18/13 at 4:31 pm to DMagic
DMan
Depends on how old you are. As you get older, your pipes rust if you don't use your plumbing.
However, I firmly believe that a man never loses it. In this golden age of medical and technological advances, there are little blue pills that help with issues exactly like what you hinted in your post. It's simply a doctor's phone call away.
But, you don't need a little blue pill. Listen to Sade, eat Oyster Stew, get your tool out and use it. A good tool shouldn't sit in a dusty storage cabinet. It should be used...often.
Exercise. This a huge aphrodisiac! Exercise releases endorphins, the same chemicals that your body demands during sex. Not only does exercise make you feel happier in life, it brings out your inner Henry Miller.
Get off the couch, quit playing video games, go for run and do some strength training.
You'll be in the sack with a lovely lady before you can thank me.
PS. Don't forget to go watch "Fifty Shades of Grey" when it is released in the movie theaters. If you can't get laid after that movie, you may be the only man who has actually lost it.
Killz
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Is it true that if you don't use it you lose it?
Depends on how old you are. As you get older, your pipes rust if you don't use your plumbing.
However, I firmly believe that a man never loses it. In this golden age of medical and technological advances, there are little blue pills that help with issues exactly like what you hinted in your post. It's simply a doctor's phone call away.
But, you don't need a little blue pill. Listen to Sade, eat Oyster Stew, get your tool out and use it. A good tool shouldn't sit in a dusty storage cabinet. It should be used...often.
Exercise. This a huge aphrodisiac! Exercise releases endorphins, the same chemicals that your body demands during sex. Not only does exercise make you feel happier in life, it brings out your inner Henry Miller.
Get off the couch, quit playing video games, go for run and do some strength training.
You'll be in the sack with a lovely lady before you can thank me.
PS. Don't forget to go watch "Fifty Shades of Grey" when it is released in the movie theaters. If you can't get laid after that movie, you may be the only man who has actually lost it.
Killz
This post was edited on 3/18/13 at 4:35 pm
Posted on 3/18/13 at 4:36 pm to mizzoukills
Taking a short break. Will be back later this evening.
Continue to post. I'll resume my responses tonight...
Continue to post. I'll resume my responses tonight...
This post was edited on 3/18/13 at 4:50 pm
Posted on 3/18/13 at 5:59 pm to mizzoukills
Alright folks, I'm back for about 30 minutes.
What's on you brain, kiddos?
What's on you brain, kiddos?
Posted on 3/18/13 at 6:05 pm to mizzoukills
Dear Killz,
My roommates girlfriends vagina smells up the entire house when they go to bed. Not kidding this bitches pussy smells like the Great Depression. He doesn't notice it since he cannot smell anything. What's a man to do?
My roommates girlfriends vagina smells up the entire house when they go to bed. Not kidding this bitches pussy smells like the Great Depression. He doesn't notice it since he cannot smell anything. What's a man to do?
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