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re: OT: Did you get whipped/spankings as a child?

Posted on 9/16/14 at 1:37 pm to
Posted by retooc
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Posted on 9/16/14 at 1:37 pm to
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Kinda thought he might be you, for awhile.


Its worse than we thought.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
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Posted on 9/16/14 at 1:41 pm to
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ok who's alter are you?


Sounds a lot like your friend Cobb...
Posted by germandawg
Member since Sep 2012
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Posted on 9/16/14 at 2:11 pm to
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We talking boat paddles, ping-pong, or what here? Lets crown a Champ!!!! Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!....


Ive got a late entry....but It pales in comparison to a boat paddle....but back in the day there was a thing called Hot Wheel tracks....my mother would take 3 sections of Hot wheel track and put them together and use them for whipping my sisters and myself. Every Christmas she would ask me what I wanted Santa to bring me and without fail my answer was always anything but a dam hot wheel track....of course Santa, being the jokester that he he is (what the hell is up with breaking in houses???) would never fail to bring a brand new one every year....which was very disconcerting to both my sisters and myself....
Posted by germandawg
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Posted on 9/16/14 at 2:17 pm to
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This is what happens when you don't spank your kids.


Now thats funny I dont care who you are...



By the way...whats up with naked spanking??? I never heard of that until I went to the Phillipines after I was an adult....why the frick would a parent spank a child on their naked arse??? That is seriously deranged.....I will guarantee you that there is something sexual involved with that twisted shite....at the very least it is done to humiliate the child. If a person is spanking their naked child they need some serious counseling.....I can't imagine any scenario where discipline would involve exposing ones naked flesh.....surely no can justify that shite????
Posted by GtownDawg
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Posted on 9/16/14 at 2:20 pm to
My wife digs it.
Posted by germandawg
Member since Sep 2012
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Posted on 9/16/14 at 2:21 pm to
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My wife digs it.


Hell I can get into it also but consenting adults and all....
Posted by GtownDawg
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Posted on 9/16/14 at 2:23 pm to
Whoaaaa now.....I'm not spanking you.
Posted by SthGADawg
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 9/16/14 at 2:25 pm to
last spanking i received was from my mom when i was 14 or so...bare assed...with a belt...i had stolen a pack of cigs from the store down the road...

back of my arse and legs looked like a zebra for about 2 weeks...i never stole shite ever again though...but it was fricked up...

with my boys...i make them stronger...maybe it is the military/football coach in me...or whatever...but i use jumping jacks, push ups, burpees, crunches, etc...it does the trick..and they are strong as hell...
Posted by SthGADawg
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 9/16/14 at 2:32 pm to
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My wife digs it.


she read 50 shades didn't she?
Posted by DawgsLife
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Posted on 9/16/14 at 3:04 pm to
Would you two get a room?
Posted by germandawg
Member since Sep 2012
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Posted on 9/16/14 at 3:25 pm to
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Whoaaaa now.....I'm not spanking you.
Posted by germandawg
Member since Sep 2012
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Posted on 9/16/14 at 3:27 pm to
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she read 50 shades didn't she?


Not to get off topic but my wife did and I can't tell you how much I appreciate her being willing to read the finer works of literature....I like to read myself but I have never appreciated reading as much as I do now that have my wife has been introduced to "Mommy Porn"....
Posted by SquatchDawg
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Posted on 9/16/14 at 10:28 pm to
I'm late too this thread but would like to add a couple of comments...

You should qualify your posts with whether you have kids or not. If you don't......shut the frick up...you don't know what you're talking about. Sorry.

I have two boys....and love them dearly. They start challenging your authority at about the age of 4. IMO...corporal punishment has to be a part if your discipline.

I've used bare handed spanking and "pops" conservatively....usually as a last resort or for serious offenses...such as hitting each other or being evil with their mom. Also as a way to deal with very bad behavior.

I have a cousin whose parents used "time outs" and other sensitive punishments ..... their kid was a raving lunatic.

Spanking is one thing. I got a belt and a switch. But, I never was bleeding or bruised. If that happens it is crossing a line. But, I sure as hell wouldn't want to be the deciding vote on a jury or anything.

I'm of the belief that kids need strict discipline coupled with uninhibited love. Kids need discipline and corporal punishment is part of it. But, like everything else with raising kids youre pretty much learning on the job and just do your best lbased on your upbringing and what you think is appropriate.

In a world now with no moral compass...and young men shooting each other...beating women..sexual predators....kids shooting kids...I think its really funny when new age behavioral "experts" try to tell us that the way our parents and grandparents did it is "wrong". Especially when most of the kids that do this stuff don't have a father in the picture or any discipline at home.

I can't speak for girls, but young boys need discipline and you can only get so far with psychological warfare. Sometimes you have to spank and its shitty for everyone involved but you hope it will teach them what is and is not acceptable behavior.
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Posted by Wild Thang
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Posted on 9/16/14 at 10:35 pm to
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Did you get whipped/spankings as a child?


Yes.
Posted by germandawg
Member since Sep 2012
14135 posts
Posted on 9/17/14 at 5:35 am to
"In a world now with no moral compass..."

Where is this world? The world is as moral now as it has ever been...it is just much more difficult to get away with shite...and we know about almost everything that goes on...there are cameras everywhere...

"young men shooting each other..."

Been going on since the invention of the gun...before that they stabbed and beat one another to death.


"beating women.."

Again, didn't just start...been going on forever. At one time it was an acceptable part of anyone good Hollywood movie...


"sexual predators...."

Been going on forever

"kids shooting kids..."

been happening since the gun was invented....this one is hard to believe but do some research on this subject...kids have been killing one another for a long time in this country...school shootings are no more normal now than they have ever been....it only seems so because we hear of every one of them...

"I think its really funny when new age behavioral "experts" try to tell us that the way our parents and grandparents did it is "wrong". Especially when most of the kids that do this stuff don't have a father in the picture or any discipline at home."

It would seem as if the practice of spanking kids has only diminished since the 90's maybe??? I know in the 70's it was very common....I grew up with the notion that anyone over the age of 18 whose arse I couldn't whip could discipline me in whatever fashion was needed....so it might be that all of this spanking that took place in previous generations is what created the fricked up world we live in....people didn't just suddenly decide spanking was a bad idea....that notion took time to develop and it had to start with people who were raised when spanking was more prevalent....
Posted by germandawg
Member since Sep 2012
14135 posts
Posted on 9/17/14 at 5:41 am to
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In a world now with no moral compass...and young men shooting each other...beating women..sexual predators....kids shooting kids...I think its really funny when new age behavioral "experts" try to tell us that the way our parents and grandparents did it is "wrong". Especially when most of the kids that do this stuff don't have a father in the picture or any discipline at home.



I am not picking on your thoughts on this subject but lets assume for a moment that you are correct and that morally society is going to hell in a hand basket, due in part to poor parenting.

Could it not then be argued that poor parenting is responsible for the unimaginably positive things that have happened to our species in the last 30 or so years??? Medicine alone is a good example...science and technology has made things common today that wouldn't have even been accepted in science fiction just 30 years ago. This is all due to a lack of spanking and there being no fathers in the homes of children.
Posted by DawgsLife
Member since Jun 2013
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Posted on 9/17/14 at 6:18 am to
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Where is this world? The world is as moral now as it has ever been


No. It is not. Morals have changed. Growing up we did not feel a need to lock our doors. We rode our bikes all over town without fear. There was no abortion. Kids did not shoot smeone for being "dissed".

We had out own problems, but those were not among them. To say things are as moral is incorrect. Now...you may not have a problem with moden morality....but morals are certainly not the same.

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"young men shooting each other..."

Been going on since the invention of the gun...before that they stabbed and beat one another to death.


But not as openly or as prevalent as it is now. I think that is his point. It was much more isolated then and now it has entered main stream.

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It would seem as if the practice of spanking kids has only diminished since the 90's maybe??? I know in the 70's it was very common


It began in the '70s with Dr Spock and the "Don't spank your kids, you will diminsih their self esteem."


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so it might be that all of this spanking that took place in previous generations is what created the fricked up world we live in..


Except that for decades we did not have the problems we have today...ok. We had the problems as you pointed out, but not to the degree. Not nearly as widespread. It began to spread smewhat in the 60s when young people began to defy authority. First it was the goverment (and yes, I believe we need to keep a close eye on the government) then the police, teachers and finally a toal lack of respect for parents.


Don't get anybobody wrong on here. I don't think anybody is condoning Ray Rice or Reggie Bush. THEIR problem stems more from never being told no and being allowed to do what they please when they please. They are not used to having limits placed on them. There has to be limits on everything. And moral boundries have to be in place and enforced.
Posted by germandawg
Member since Sep 2012
14135 posts
Posted on 9/17/14 at 6:50 am to
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No. It is not. Morals have changed.


Changing morals does not equate to a world without a moral compass. Morals change as society evolves. It was once considered moral to own another human being...in my lifetime it was moral to have separate but equal education. It is not a mainstream act for a young man to shoot another young man....even in neighborhoods where it happens frequently it is a shocking incident....that is one of the reasons we hear about...if it bleeds it leads....if we weren't shocked by it, if it weren't for it being so uncommon, we wouldn't hear about it.

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Except that for decades we did not have the problems we have today...ok. We had the problems as you pointed out, but not to the degree.


We had other, more pressing problems. It was perfectly acceptable to a large number of European not so long ago to attempt to wipe Jews off the face of the planet (it wasn't just in Germany....Austria, Poland and a pretty sizeable % of France was in complete agreement). Lynchings were pretty common in the United States at one time....yet kids were spanked pretty regularly....and apparently had Daddy at home every night, for what it is worth. Man is a piece of work....there is no bounds to the hijinks we will get up to....on the flip side of that some of the shite we come up with is mind boggling in the benefits provided....
Posted by FooManChoo
Member since Dec 2012
41644 posts
Posted on 9/17/14 at 10:18 am to
Morality is simply a code that identifies right and wrong action. The code, itself, can be different from person to person as each individual has their own belief in what is right and what is wrong.

What is important (to me) is the basis for a particular moral code. I believe the Biblical morality was influential in the overall restraint seen prior to the 60's, and as Baby Boomers rejected the traditional moral code of their parents and adopted a more hedonistic approach, things got worse, as I see it.

Instead of "love others as you love yourself", the battle cry of people today it is "love yourself". You can see the changes that resulted in embracing selfishness.

There has always been evil in the world, but I believe the acceptance of it (and redefining it as "good") has been on the rise for the past half century.
Posted by Cobb Dawg
Member since Sep 2012
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Posted on 9/17/14 at 10:58 am to
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God, Please let this happen. I suggest Waffle House Five Points.


It's going to be somewhere we can't be interrupted.
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