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Breakup advice....Op updated with Landlord/Ex scheme
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:25 pm
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:25 pm
So I finally ended my relationship..
I had movers move my stuff out..
My ex wanted to know where my stuff was going and stated; "It's the law that she knows where my stuff is going.." LOL! She insisted on the movers to tell her.
She even texted my previous ex for my new address.
I feel like im going to have a stalker..
What should I do..What would you do in this situation
SHADY LANDLORD UPDATE
So me and my girl broke up and split May 1st, that was my last time going to the place we shared and leased together. So, rent didnt get paid promptly as I moved back into my other place 60+ miles away.
Background... My ex had already been living there for 3 years and wanted me on the lease to share the place and responsibilities so we signed a new lease in March at the residence. The whole time I was there when we argued, she always stated, "GET OUT OF MY HOUSE!" or something along the lines that the place was hers and I was basically just sleeping there and paying bills. She threatened to have me removed, By any means necessary...
The landlord and my ex girl had a 3 year friendship. The landlord is a single mother with kids and not to fond of men as she is raising her kids on her own after he left her.
So anyway after we argued on May 1st and split she then filed false police reports on me saying she was afraid of me. Reports were deemed not credible by the local PD. So she then started talking to the landlord to say, rent wasnt paid. So the landlord, after the 6th day the rent was unpaid filed for eviction for the both of us. I offered to pay the past due rent for the month of May, she refused it, from me. Then come to find out she accepted it behind close doors from my ex. I also recovered the house phone with voicemails stating their plan.. Is there any legal ramifications I can take to the courts to sue the landlord for my moving costs and possibly discrimination.
Thanks
I had movers move my stuff out..
My ex wanted to know where my stuff was going and stated; "It's the law that she knows where my stuff is going.." LOL! She insisted on the movers to tell her.
She even texted my previous ex for my new address.
I feel like im going to have a stalker..
What should I do..What would you do in this situation
SHADY LANDLORD UPDATE
So me and my girl broke up and split May 1st, that was my last time going to the place we shared and leased together. So, rent didnt get paid promptly as I moved back into my other place 60+ miles away.
Background... My ex had already been living there for 3 years and wanted me on the lease to share the place and responsibilities so we signed a new lease in March at the residence. The whole time I was there when we argued, she always stated, "GET OUT OF MY HOUSE!" or something along the lines that the place was hers and I was basically just sleeping there and paying bills. She threatened to have me removed, By any means necessary...
The landlord and my ex girl had a 3 year friendship. The landlord is a single mother with kids and not to fond of men as she is raising her kids on her own after he left her.
So anyway after we argued on May 1st and split she then filed false police reports on me saying she was afraid of me. Reports were deemed not credible by the local PD. So she then started talking to the landlord to say, rent wasnt paid. So the landlord, after the 6th day the rent was unpaid filed for eviction for the both of us. I offered to pay the past due rent for the month of May, she refused it, from me. Then come to find out she accepted it behind close doors from my ex. I also recovered the house phone with voicemails stating their plan.. Is there any legal ramifications I can take to the courts to sue the landlord for my moving costs and possibly discrimination.
Thanks
This post was edited on 5/20/14 at 5:49 pm
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:29 pm to MsGarrison
Seems like your bad for waiting so long. Bitch sounds first class cray.
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:30 pm to MsGarrison
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She even texted my previous ex
how does she know her #?
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What would you do in this situation
I wouldn't have officially moved in until there's a ring and stuff.
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:31 pm to MsGarrison
As a man, I'd give the bitch the D. Have no idea what your transgendered arse is gonna do.
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:33 pm to diddydirtyAubie
she went thru my phone and got her number.
even said at one time she put a tracking device in my phone.
she went thru my phones wifi access point list as well trying to piece together my whereabouts. while she sat at home playing on the internet.
she was controlling/jealous/insecure...
didnt trust me while i was at work.. again, she didnt work. had me calling her every hour from my desk phone to calm her nerves
even said at one time she put a tracking device in my phone.
she went thru my phones wifi access point list as well trying to piece together my whereabouts. while she sat at home playing on the internet.
she was controlling/jealous/insecure...
didnt trust me while i was at work.. again, she didnt work. had me calling her every hour from my desk phone to calm her nerves
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:34 pm to MsGarrison
At least she doesn't have a car to follow you around.
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:34 pm to MsGarrison
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didnt trust me while i was at work.. again, she didnt work. had me calling her every hour from my desk phone to calm her nerves
sounds like a black chick to me.
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:34 pm to MsGarrison
Proud of you for getting away from this sick person. You've actually helped her by showing her dysfunction up.
What would I do? I'd make it clear to her that there would be consequences if she interferes in my life in any way after the move. Help her understand what "It's over" means.
What would I do? I'd make it clear to her that there would be consequences if she interferes in my life in any way after the move. Help her understand what "It's over" means.
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:38 pm to UMTigerRebel
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At least she doesn't have a car to follow you around.
Here's the kicker.. She does now. I gave her my other car to use but she had a "friend" who came down from South Carolina to cosign on an old Saturn and possibly payed a deposit.. She couldnt even tell me how much her car note was. Wouldnt show me the contract.
I felt she was using me until she got what she wanted.. She wanted me to pay May's rent.. I didnt. I got sick of her games and insecurities.. One day I let her drop me off at work in my car and she went to my previous ex neighborhood and drove by. They recognized my car and notified me that they saw someone else driving it.
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:39 pm to diddydirtyAubie
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sounds like a black chick to me.
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:39 pm to MsGarrison
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My ex wanted to know where my stuff was going and stated; "It's the law that she knows where my stuff is going.." LOL! She insisted on the movers to tell her. She even texted my previous ex for my new address.
I feel like im going to have a stalker..
You probably are. That's some crazy shite.
ETA - after reading your other posts, yeah, you're fricked. Be prepared to have a terrible time with the ladies for the next few months.
The hell is wrong with all you OT ballers getting with crazies and acting like you didn't know what you were getting into in the first place?
This post was edited on 5/18/14 at 2:47 pm
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:40 pm to MsGarrison
Don't date a stage five clinger...
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:42 pm to CatFan81
And to think I was gonna take her to Hawaii in a month. Now I spent over 2k on airline tickets and i dont even want to go.
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:43 pm to MsGarrison
Don't worry. She'll show up.
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:44 pm to BluegrassBelle
She does have the reservation information. Im afraid she might take my name off of it and add someones else. She cray
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:44 pm to MsGarrison
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Now I spent over 2k on airline tickets and i dont even want to go.
that's why they have insurance.
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:45 pm to BluegrassBelle
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Don't worry. She'll show up.
Truth.
MsGarrison is in for a wild ride.
Posted on 5/18/14 at 2:47 pm to Kentucker
I didnt purchase insurance... Is it too late? The trip isnt til mid June?
I better call United and get her off the reservation
I better call United and get her off the reservation
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