re: What's the longest failed relationship you've been in?

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This is not true. My wife and I both have changed as we've grown in our marriage together. Deep down, we're both still the same person, but I'm a lot different than the person I was 12 years ago when we got married, as is she. The key is for both of you to recognize you're both evolving as a person and accept those changes. The core of our personalities haven't changed, but the way we both see the world definitely has, and is continuing to change.

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I didn't want to say anything but I didn't agree with the premise "people don't change". People for damn sure change. Especially after a kid. People change all the time, priorities get swapped, augmented or manipulated. Attraction over time can also change, as can career goals.

People really don't get 'set in their ways' until much later in life.