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re: What would you do?

Posted on 5/10/16 at 2:31 pm to
Posted by airfernando
Member since Oct 2015
15248 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 2:31 pm to
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She's a grown adult person with full rights and full agency.

It's none of your business.
I disagree with these statements. Being grown doesn't mean someone doesn't need help. It's everyone's business when someone needs help. The victim needs help, and the abuser needs help.
Posted by Numberwang
Bike City, USA
Member since Feb 2012
13163 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 2:33 pm to
quote:

I disagree with these statements.


So because she's a woman she has no agency?

There are resources, namely law enforcement, for any adult human to seek out.

I advise against getting involved in this. It will only bring you trouble. Enough white-knights and damsels in distress. Those rules no longer apply.
Posted by TidenUP
Dauphin Island
Member since Apr 2011
14429 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 2:36 pm to
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Being grown doesn't mean someone doesn't need help


This is true. I knew a woman who wouldn't leave her abusive spouse because of fear. I told her she could find someone else and somehow she rationalized staying by saying she knew how hard her spouse hit, that someone else might hit harder.
Posted by airfernando
Member since Oct 2015
15248 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 2:40 pm to
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So because she's a woman she has no agency?

There are resources, namely law enforcement, for any adult human to seek out.
You must not live in the real world. Are you saying nobody needs a gentle push or encouragement to get help? Most victims need someone to aggressively help them. If what you are implying were enough, there would be no abuse victims.
Posted by reggierayreb
Germantown
Member since Nov 2012
16966 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:41 pm to
quote:

What do you do?



Mount her
Posted by Old Sarge
Dean of Admissions, LSU
Member since Jan 2012
55303 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 5:18 pm to
There will always be bullies that hurt or take advantage of those that are weaker and cannot protect themselves

And hopefully there will always be brave men and women with the heart and character to stand up against those bullies on behalf of those that can't


Are you your brothers keeper? When it's the right and just thing to do, damn right you should be
Posted by MaroonNation
StarkVegas, Mississippi, Bitch!
Member since Nov 2010
21950 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 8:19 pm to
quote:

What do you do?



Mount


This is really the end objective isn't it? Best to tap it while she is emotionally distraught.
Posted by Old Sarge
Dean of Admissions, LSU
Member since Jan 2012
55303 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 8:26 pm to
Posted by Old Sarge
Dean of Admissions, LSU
Member since Jan 2012
55303 posts
Posted on 5/12/16 at 11:27 am to
Update?
Posted by AggieDub14
Oil Baron
Member since Oct 2015
14624 posts
Posted on 5/12/16 at 11:45 am to
Wow Mississippi really is a cesspool of pathetic assholes.
Posted by Stacked
Member since Apr 2012
5675 posts
Posted on 5/12/16 at 12:25 pm to
She said "she doesn't think he'll do it again" cause a lot of dudes noticed and got mad at him.

I don't know how to do the rolling eyes emoji or I'd do it now. Hope she'll be okay. If I notice anything else I'll just call the cops like suggested earlier and tell them I think her man's beating on her.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 5/12/16 at 12:43 pm to
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I don't know how to do the rolling eyes emoji


: rolleyes :

Posted by Stacked
Member since Apr 2012
5675 posts
Posted on 5/12/16 at 1:02 pm to
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