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My son came to my room while I was asleep, lifted up the sheets and saw my butt this morni
Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:08 pm
Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:08 pm
I woke up because he and the youngest were giggling and whispering. Got a call from my lovely dear ex-wife saying she doesn't want my boys being allowed to stay at my place anymore on visitation because she fears the boys aren't safe around me any longer.
What the frick do I do right now after being semi-accused of whatever it is she's saying I did? Is there preemptive legal action I should take to better place myself in a court situation with her about this? She said I beat them during our divorce hearing but gave up on it after my lawyer did some very basic questioning.
She'll say anything. She tells the boys there new last name is whatever her new last name is. She's trying to completely eliminate me from their life.
What the frick do I do right now after being semi-accused of whatever it is she's saying I did? Is there preemptive legal action I should take to better place myself in a court situation with her about this? She said I beat them during our divorce hearing but gave up on it after my lawyer did some very basic questioning.
She'll say anything. She tells the boys there new last name is whatever her new last name is. She's trying to completely eliminate me from their life.
This post was edited on 7/26/15 at 5:14 pm
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Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:10 pm to Stacked
show your ex your but
Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:14 pm to Stacked
Wow, she sounds like she is gunning to get you out of their lives. Not a lawyer and usually hate to waste money on them...but this can not end well and I would get on the phone bright & early tomorrow and secure legal counsel.
***I have an ex who would like nothing better to get me out of the equation and all her efforts have completely back fired over the past 13 years. So much so, that my son, now 15 years old, has decided he wants to come live with me and we are starting the legal process, which she is fighting, to make it happen.
***I have an ex who would like nothing better to get me out of the equation and all her efforts have completely back fired over the past 13 years. So much so, that my son, now 15 years old, has decided he wants to come live with me and we are starting the legal process, which she is fighting, to make it happen.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:17 pm to ABearsFanNMS
Today my oldest said he wants to come live with me when he's older. He may just be saying those things because he's smart and knows it would make me feel good to hear it. Either way, I'm scared shitless at the accusation, the newest one anyway, she has a giant history with making claims about people to try to get her way.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:18 pm to WG_Dawg
Tell your x that if she has anything she needs to say to you to say it thru your lawyer.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:21 pm to Herman Frisco
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Tell your x that if she has anything she needs to say to you to say it thru your lawyer.
This, it sucks but you need to get an agreement on paper and only communicate with her thru a mouthpiece
Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:28 pm to Agforlife
Bingo. I think this is my first piece of great advise for the time being. What's fricking crazy is I hear all the time from people who bring her up how nice I am when talking about her. I'm honestly just thankful I'm not married and forget to think about her. Until these times.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:33 pm to Stacked
I love my fricking mom and dad more than anything in this world and I got in a fight with them last week because they were having a laugh at something she over shared on Facebook and I griped at them and said to stop making fun of her and they need to grow up (a couple 66 year olds being told to grow up by a 32 year old, lol.). I give the frick up. I know what she wants. She wants me to be some fricking unbelievably eager to get rid of her that I give the boys up to get rid of her. I'm scared shitless and heartbroken.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:37 pm to Stacked
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She's trying to completely eliminate me from their life.
Everything except your money, no doubt.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 5:54 pm to Stacked
If you're the client of a good lawyer then you need to start accumulating evidence of her false incriminations now, including the divorce procedure. You are her target and she will stop at nothing short of alienating the boys to you.
Good luck, Dave.
Good luck, Dave.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 6:06 pm to Stacked
My brother is having similar problems with his ex right now. With the youngest being four, he's got 14 more years of this to put up with. I feel for both of you.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 6:15 pm to Stacked
Brother I feel bad for you..stay strong..and...legal up...
This is one of the reasons I will most likely never get married....I know I'd end up in a prison cell if a woman treated me that way...
Good luck!
This is one of the reasons I will most likely never get married....I know I'd end up in a prison cell if a woman treated me that way...
Good luck!
Posted on 7/26/15 at 7:28 pm to Stacked
Stay focused on the boys and just be the best dad you can while they are with you, and communicate with them as much as you can when they are not.
Follow others advice on getting a lawyer involved. When you have the kids don't speak ill of your ex. Don't even let her become a topic of discussion if at all possible. Your relationship is with the kids and not the ex.
That is a normal occurrence in the life of any kid at some point or another. I wouldn't stress too much over her ramblings, but I again would involve a lawyer and start wearing a go pro for the entire visitation period (just kidding).
Follow others advice on getting a lawyer involved. When you have the kids don't speak ill of your ex. Don't even let her become a topic of discussion if at all possible. Your relationship is with the kids and not the ex.
That is a normal occurrence in the life of any kid at some point or another. I wouldn't stress too much over her ramblings, but I again would involve a lawyer and start wearing a go pro for the entire visitation period (just kidding).
Posted on 7/26/15 at 7:38 pm to Stacked
I'm sure the warning signs were there before you got married.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 7:40 pm to Stacked
I would also lock the bedroom door if I was going to polish the family jewels. You should have learned this in your Masterbation 101 class.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 8:30 pm to Chazzy McRamzee
You are going to need better reading skills if you are ever going to be a good troll.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 8:33 pm to Porter Osborne Jr
Wear pants?
Posted on 7/26/15 at 8:51 pm to JamalSanders
Right now I have shorts on. Why do you ask?
Posted on 7/26/15 at 9:00 pm to Porter Osborne Jr
I meant to reply to stacked.
Posted on 7/26/15 at 9:18 pm to JamalSanders
I know. I was just messing with ya. 
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