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re: my ex left me again and its tearing me apart (Please give me some advice/insight)
Posted on 2/22/15 at 1:54 pm to DanMullins4Life
Posted on 2/22/15 at 1:54 pm to DanMullins4Life
Well, at least we never have to deal with MsGarrison's trolling of LSU fans again. Not after this. Wow.
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Posted on 2/22/15 at 1:59 pm to MsGarrison
The problem here is Oneitis, and POA Pedestal.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 2:01 pm to MsGarrison
I don't take this thread seriously. But if I did, I would tell you to grow a pair.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 2:02 pm to MsGarrison
If this thread is serious, and you are trying to figure out how to "work this out", then you need to get professional help.
It is not normal for a man to want that kind of evil shite in his life. NO pussy is that good, nowhere, nohow.
Your problem is you think she's "the one". That's a bullshite lie.
It is not normal for a man to want that kind of evil shite in his life. NO pussy is that good, nowhere, nohow.
Your problem is you think she's "the one". That's a bullshite lie.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 2:17 pm to MsGarrison
You're lying about all of this. I know because you don't like girls. I hope this all really did happen to you though
Posted on 2/22/15 at 2:58 pm to MsGarrison
After reading this, you sound suspiciously like a gay coworker of mine who just left the company and town to be with his gay lover and then the dude just dropped him like a bad habit.
He pines like you do.
He pines like you do.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 3:00 pm to AlaTiger
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Well, at least we never have to deal with MsGarrison's trolling of LSU fans again. Not after this. Wow.
As if
He'll be on the SECr in two days right before our basketball game talking shite.
lol at this thread and lol @ Garrison. Whoever this guy is irl, he has too much time on his hands and doesn't seem to be all there in the head
Posted on 2/22/15 at 3:07 pm to GCTiger11
Yeah, maybe so. But, if anyone lets him get away with trolling LSU again, it is our own fault.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 3:35 pm to AlaTiger
This is not a tall tale. yes I may troll LSu sports but this isn't about a game.
This is about my real life. Real problems.
Most people thought that I was lying last year when this stuff happened.
Again it is a real life situation. And as crazy as this may seem to believe it is what I'm dealing with. And I hate every moment of it because Ive never been this low in my life ESPECIALLY over a damn woman. I guess after all the women i dated this was the one I took a chance with and really thought she was the one. I didn't want to give up on her and I read all the the self help tutorials online to fight for my relationship. She gave me false hope after we reconciled back in late November. I thought she was truly ready to make things right and we qere suppose to finally get on with our lives and live happily ever after. But when we got back together she wasn't over our first go around. She thought she was. But when ever we started to argue it always reverted back to our past.
I had the red flags early this go round when I busted her talking and working for her ex. That was in the beginning of this second go round. She said she only lied to me to protect herself as she wasn't sure if we would get back together and he was her means of work and pay. She did work for him but I also thought it was more she was doing with him . No way a man gives you his banking info and jets to his house without being intimate or wanting aomething more. But she did distance herself from him. She quit working for him and made sure to delete and block him from everything. She even told him via phone to go away. I thought then she was serious about our relationship
This is about my real life. Real problems.
Most people thought that I was lying last year when this stuff happened.
Again it is a real life situation. And as crazy as this may seem to believe it is what I'm dealing with. And I hate every moment of it because Ive never been this low in my life ESPECIALLY over a damn woman. I guess after all the women i dated this was the one I took a chance with and really thought she was the one. I didn't want to give up on her and I read all the the self help tutorials online to fight for my relationship. She gave me false hope after we reconciled back in late November. I thought she was truly ready to make things right and we qere suppose to finally get on with our lives and live happily ever after. But when we got back together she wasn't over our first go around. She thought she was. But when ever we started to argue it always reverted back to our past.
I had the red flags early this go round when I busted her talking and working for her ex. That was in the beginning of this second go round. She said she only lied to me to protect herself as she wasn't sure if we would get back together and he was her means of work and pay. She did work for him but I also thought it was more she was doing with him . No way a man gives you his banking info and jets to his house without being intimate or wanting aomething more. But she did distance herself from him. She quit working for him and made sure to delete and block him from everything. She even told him via phone to go away. I thought then she was serious about our relationship
This post was edited on 2/22/15 at 3:47 pm
Posted on 2/22/15 at 3:44 pm to MsGarrison
What was the medication?
But serious, read you last comment. She went out of her way to try and ruin your professional and personal life!
How on Earth can you mumble that you lover her? How can you bring yourself to ever talk to that person who has done more harm to you than any enemy you have?
Nobody is that fricking dumb....you have to be trolling. End of story
But serious, read you last comment. She went out of her way to try and ruin your professional and personal life!
How on Earth can you mumble that you lover her? How can you bring yourself to ever talk to that person who has done more harm to you than any enemy you have?
Nobody is that fricking dumb....you have to be trolling. End of story
Posted on 2/22/15 at 3:45 pm to MsGarrison
I believe you.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 3:51 pm to GeeOH
It was toradol. I've said it in a past reply. I have no reason to lie about this bs. She took the 60mg bottle that had 30mg used and put it in her purse im assuming. I would leave her at my desk while I step out.
I'm fricking sorry maybe I'm obsessed with her and I'm confusing it with love. Idk. This is not a joke.
When we broke up last year she went to see a counsellor and they mention she has a disorder I don't recall what it was but now that I look back on everything it has to be BpD. Everything she has done coincides with the symptoms. She made stuff up. She believed her lies. She manipulated me. She punished me when I stood up to her. Once she felt that I had been punished enough she would talk to me again. She made me feel like the guilty party every time when it wasn't me at all. She was so vindictive. She was immature. She was emotionally unstable. Insecure. I proposed counseling so we could work thru this stuff ar one point but we didn't seem to have any issues the.
I have a problem As well for foolishly going back for seconds and thirds. I blame myself for this as well. I had the opportunity to just leave things the way they were back in November but I didnt
I'm fricking sorry maybe I'm obsessed with her and I'm confusing it with love. Idk. This is not a joke.
When we broke up last year she went to see a counsellor and they mention she has a disorder I don't recall what it was but now that I look back on everything it has to be BpD. Everything she has done coincides with the symptoms. She made stuff up. She believed her lies. She manipulated me. She punished me when I stood up to her. Once she felt that I had been punished enough she would talk to me again. She made me feel like the guilty party every time when it wasn't me at all. She was so vindictive. She was immature. She was emotionally unstable. Insecure. I proposed counseling so we could work thru this stuff ar one point but we didn't seem to have any issues the.
I have a problem As well for foolishly going back for seconds and thirds. I blame myself for this as well. I had the opportunity to just leave things the way they were back in November but I didnt
This post was edited on 2/22/15 at 4:02 pm
Posted on 2/22/15 at 3:57 pm to MsGarrison
How bout some pictures of the tiddys? You know, just so we know what we're working with here.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 4:00 pm to BigOrangeBri
I've deleted every picture of her from my phone. She and I aren't friends on Facebook and all her pics are private. She was beautiful to me. Blond, blue eyes, perfect in my eye sight. B
Posted on 2/22/15 at 4:02 pm to MsGarrison
Look at this relationship as a total loss.
If it were a house, it burned to the ground.
If it was a loved pet, there it lies, smashed on a cold pavement, unrecognizeable.
The point is, you need to move on. The way you do that is the same with any loss. You grieve it for a bit and then you go on with life. You find a new house. You get a new pet. You take a trip somewhere with friends. Join a gym, make new friends. Hell, go to church, etc. The point is you move on.
If it were a house, it burned to the ground.
If it was a loved pet, there it lies, smashed on a cold pavement, unrecognizeable.
The point is, you need to move on. The way you do that is the same with any loss. You grieve it for a bit and then you go on with life. You find a new house. You get a new pet. You take a trip somewhere with friends. Join a gym, make new friends. Hell, go to church, etc. The point is you move on.
This post was edited on 2/22/15 at 4:03 pm
Posted on 2/22/15 at 4:07 pm to MsGarrison
She stole toradol?
If you've really stayed with her through all that, nothing anyone says here will convince you otherwise. It's like with alcoholics and addicts, until you hit your rock bottom (and that bottom is different for everyone), it's gonna get worse. Hopefully you've hit yours already with her because if not, the next round sounds like it'll bring the pain even worse.
If you've really stayed with her through all that, nothing anyone says here will convince you otherwise. It's like with alcoholics and addicts, until you hit your rock bottom (and that bottom is different for everyone), it's gonna get worse. Hopefully you've hit yours already with her because if not, the next round sounds like it'll bring the pain even worse.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 4:14 pm to TMDawg
Yep. Then she had the nerves to tell me the other day that she doesn't have a heart now. As if, I did something to her. What a fricking psycho
Posted on 2/22/15 at 4:17 pm to MsGarrison
Maybe if you'd been a better boyfriend none of this would have happened.
Posted on 2/22/15 at 4:21 pm to MsGarrison
Just depends on how much pain and suffering you want to endure. I realize the sure nuff crazy chicks are dynamite in the sack but when the crazy trumps the sex it's time to change all your contact info and run far and fast. Jmo you do what you want.
Up until the last few years I lived by two credos 1) no wife happy life 2) if it flies, fricks, or floats you're better off renting it. I have been rethinking that recently however and I think it's just me getting older and wanting someone in my life on a more permanent basis
Up until the last few years I lived by two credos 1) no wife happy life 2) if it flies, fricks, or floats you're better off renting it. I have been rethinking that recently however and I think it's just me getting older and wanting someone in my life on a more permanent basis
This post was edited on 2/22/15 at 4:53 pm
Posted on 2/22/15 at 4:51 pm to MsGarrison
quote:
I believe you.
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