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re: Is Ms Garrison alive or not?
Posted on 3/3/15 at 1:42 pm to MsGarrison
Posted on 3/3/15 at 1:42 pm to MsGarrison
Here's two words that will hurt at first but it comes from the heart.Are you ready?
GROW UP
GROW UP
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Posted on 3/3/15 at 2:31 pm to wartiger2004
Have some sympathy bruh depression is a real thing as I've experienced it
Posted on 3/3/15 at 2:53 pm to MsGarrison
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Thanks. I just hate my life right now. I know one day I'll look back on this and say what a fool I was but until that time comes im stuck in reverse
Again, I feel for you. Your feelings at this moment should be validated, but at the same time, working towards new feelings needs to be the next thing on the docket. I hope you keep looking for new value in your life.
Posted on 3/3/15 at 3:12 pm to vidtiger23
Same here. I was being lighthearted in my response but I can definitely relate to the depression he's going through. I dealt with the same thing in my 20s. My low point wasn't brought on by a break up (had nothing to do with a woman) but a job loss was part of it. I don't wish that anxiety and despair on anyone. It sucks and isn't a joking matter if you've ever been through it.
Hang tough, it gets better and you'll eventually get through it although it will leave an emotional scar for years afterwards.
Hang tough, it gets better and you'll eventually get through it although it will leave an emotional scar for years afterwards.
Posted on 3/3/15 at 3:22 pm to MsGarrison
I upvoted all your sad posts 
Posted on 3/3/15 at 3:33 pm to MsGarrison
I know I've talked trash to you. I'm not sure how serious you are, but suicide is not the way to go out. I would recommend speaking to someone close to you or get counseling. There's nothing to be ashamed of.
This post was edited on 3/3/15 at 5:52 pm
Posted on 3/3/15 at 3:41 pm to Govt Tide
Thanks all. It is very difficult. And as much as I want to bring myself to hate her I just can't. I still worry about her (im a loser) when she shows that she doesn't give an ounce about me. I'm getting help. My friends from up north bought me a ticket to come visit and get away from here. I have to do some soul searching and make a plan to get myself back together.
Posted on 3/3/15 at 3:46 pm to MsGarrison
Lets revive Freaknik next month, brah. Give them a taste of this A.T.L. style.
Posted on 3/3/15 at 3:55 pm to diddydirtyAubie
Lol. I forgot all about that. I remember that being a big ordeal back in the day.
Posted on 3/3/15 at 3:55 pm to MsGarrison
She's a bitch, you're better off without her, can't wait till she meets Eric Berry coming over the middle.
Posted on 3/3/15 at 5:07 pm to MsGarrison
Go get some strange while you're at it. Maybe that'll help open your eyes.
Get help outside from multiple sources as well. Take care of your personal issues with self esteem, pride, etc. Become confident in yourself!
Get help outside from multiple sources as well. Take care of your personal issues with self esteem, pride, etc. Become confident in yourself!
Posted on 3/3/15 at 5:47 pm to Rig
Let the Rig take you for a ride.
Posted on 3/3/15 at 5:50 pm to MsGarrison
Garrison living in his car and too helpless to troll LSU
Telefawx appearing to give legitimate advice and compassion
Wtf is going on
Telefawx appearing to give legitimate advice and compassion
Wtf is going on
Posted on 3/3/15 at 5:55 pm to vidtiger23
I have no doubt depression is a real thing,I just can't fathom allowing someone to have this much control over me.
Posted on 3/3/15 at 5:57 pm to MsGarrison
Time heals all wounds
The sun will come out tomorrow
Bitches ain't shite but hoes and tricks
If you get knocked down in life, you've got to pull yourself up by your boot straps
Lots of other fish in the sea
Etc
The sun will come out tomorrow
Bitches ain't shite but hoes and tricks
If you get knocked down in life, you've got to pull yourself up by your boot straps
Lots of other fish in the sea
Etc
Posted on 3/3/15 at 6:27 pm to MsGarrison
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She left my life in shambles.. I have nothing- NOTHING! She took what I built up and destroyed it. Everyday is a constant struggle. When I go to that temp place im not guaranteed work. I just sit and cry in my car. I don't know anything anymore. And I don't like bothering others because that's not me. She ruined me. All for her selfish gain. Then runs off to Florida like nothing has even happened that's what has crushed me. She makes me feel bad saying don't contact her And she LOATHES me. Why? What did I do to deserve this? She said she doesn't care or love me. That stuff hurts so bad because I have her my all.
Man, I know it hurts. Been through some shite myself. Notice I said 'through'. There IS an other side. Keep walking. One day at a time, one hour at a time, one minute at a time.
One thing you need to recognize and start to turn around is that is sounds like you are letting HER define who YOU are. Maybe she destroyed everything you had built. What's done is done.
Time to dust yourself off, take inventory of what you DO have left (it may be more than you think), and start again. The hardest part is just getting started when you don't feel like doing shite. I know. Many times I made myself get up from the chair, the couch, the bed and MADE myself get busy doing SOMETHING. Hard, but you got to do SOMETHING.
You can come out of this, and as hard as it may seem to believe right now, it's possible that a while down the road you will look back and realize that this had to happen for you to get to the great place you are then.
Wishing you the best. Pulling for you.
Posted on 3/3/15 at 8:56 pm to MsGarrison
Yeah, please put suicide out of your mind. It is not the answer, no matter how bad you feel. Everyday that you live is another chance for things to improve. With suicide, that chance is gone forever. Eventually, the odds will be in your favor again. Good things will happen. I have been through some tough times. God has seen me through and I am grateful. If you haven't turned to God yet, you should think about it. Not trying to be preachy, but I really hate that you are going through all of this.
Posted on 3/4/15 at 6:33 am to MsGarrison
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I want to bring myself to hate her I just can't. I still worry about her
You are not required to 'hate' her or not worry about her. Hating her would do far more damage to you than to her. If you are a human being with any compassion at all you would still be concerned about the well being of someone that was once a part of your life. That wouldn't make you a loser.
You can still move on without hate eating at you the rest of your life. I don't 'hate' my ex, I feel sorry for her at times for the way her life has turned out - but know I didn't bring it on her. No way I would go back now though.
Posted on 3/4/15 at 7:30 am to WonderWartHawg
I really appreciate everyones kind words. They do help. I cant even touch another person right now in a sexual way I'm just so unattached now. It wouldn't give me any pleasure at all. As for inventorying my life, this is what I'm trying to do now. It is a hard pill to swallow and do. My parents have finally reached out and told me I could come back home. My support group is ever so growing and again it helps me. I want to thank you all on this site for the words. This is something I have never been thru.
Posted on 3/4/15 at 8:23 am to MsGarrison
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I cant even touch another person right now in a sexual way I'm just so unattached now.
I've been there. You'll be fine, man. There are some hard feelings to process, and you are perfectly normal for feeling them, you just need to understand there is so much value in life outside of a sexual partner. You'll get there. Idle hands and what not. You'll be happy again.
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