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re: Serious question..if your S/O did this what would your response be?
Posted on 9/29/16 at 8:47 am to Carolina_Girl
Posted on 9/29/16 at 8:47 am to Carolina_Girl
1) he should know who your "close" friends are; however, your S/O might be an idiot. You can't fix stupid.
I will point out that my husband hasn't met a lot of my high school friends, and that's for a reason. So it's possible she said y'all were old friends or some bs and he believed her.
2) IMO, unless y'all are engaged or married, he shouldn't have to discuss his finances with you or who he loans money to. Tis' none of your business.
3) We're females. We have a sixth sense to cheating. If your gut is telling you something is wrong, for the love of god, listen to it. Ignoring it in the long run will hurt you more.
I will point out that my husband hasn't met a lot of my high school friends, and that's for a reason. So it's possible she said y'all were old friends or some bs and he believed her.
2) IMO, unless y'all are engaged or married, he shouldn't have to discuss his finances with you or who he loans money to. Tis' none of your business.
3) We're females. We have a sixth sense to cheating. If your gut is telling you something is wrong, for the love of god, listen to it. Ignoring it in the long run will hurt you more.
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Posted on 9/29/16 at 9:48 am to AUnite
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You can't fix stupid.
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We're females. We have a sixth sense to cheating. If your gut is telling you something is wrong, for the love of god, listen to it. Ignoring it in the long run will hurt you more.
Boom. That's some solid truth right there.
Posted on 9/30/16 at 3:22 pm to AUnite
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2) IMO, unless y'all are engaged or married, he shouldn't have to discuss his finances with you or who he loans money to. Tis' none of your business.
The loan was to her "friend". Not his. One of them initiated contact with the other secretly, and he kept it, and the loan from the OP.
There's basically only one reason to do that.
Unfortunately for him, he didn't get laid and I'm guessing now he feels played. AND he's dumb enough to ask his girlfriend to help get his money back.
This post was edited on 9/30/16 at 3:24 pm
Posted on 10/4/16 at 8:02 am to AUnite
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3) We're females. We have a sixth sense to cheating. If your gut is telling you something is wrong, for the love of god, listen to it. Ignoring it in the long run will hurt you more.
I call bullshite. Women just assume almost everyone is cheating and sometimes they are right. I have never cheated but the green eyed monster has reared its head many times. Luckily I am laid back and don't sweat it.
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