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Posted on 12/2/15 at 2:26 am
Posted by razorbackfan4life
Northwest Arkansas
Member since Apr 2011
8489 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 2:26 am
Screw that bitch

Should have known better.
This post was edited on 12/2/15 at 2:52 pm
Posted by razorbackfan4life
Northwest Arkansas
Member since Apr 2011
8489 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 2:26 am to
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This post was edited on 12/2/15 at 3:48 pm
Posted by presidenthog
Member since May 2015
1944 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 2:28 am to
pics?
Posted by presidenthog
Member since May 2015
1944 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 2:30 am to
seriously man, my advice? sounds like she isn't taking this relationship seriously as you. you are going to be the one getting hurt in this situation. might need to accept you are going to still be chasing. don't worry you will find one ready to settle down. who knows, maybe she will come back afterwards and take it more seriously
Posted by UltimateHog
Oregon
Member since Dec 2011
65763 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 2:30 am to
She just wants to party at ASU, wait for her.
Posted by presidenthog
Member since May 2015
1944 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 2:31 am to
I'm 25 and I don't want to party anymore.. I've done enough of that for one life time. I still like to kick back and have fun but the running around business is for the birds.
Posted by presidenthog
Member since May 2015
1944 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 2:35 am to
happy birthday. or atleast try to make it a good one. if you are still having to play games with her man, I suggest playing the game where you act like you don't need her as much as she needs you.
Posted by The_Joker
Winter Park, Fl
Member since Jan 2013
16316 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 3:18 am to
My advice is find someone that is on the same page.
Posted by razorbackfan4life
Northwest Arkansas
Member since Apr 2011
8489 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 3:32 am to
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This post was edited on 12/2/15 at 2:53 pm
Posted by razorbackfan4life
Northwest Arkansas
Member since Apr 2011
8489 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 3:34 am to
(no message)
This post was edited on 12/2/15 at 2:53 pm
Posted by pioneerbasketball
Team Bunchie
Member since Oct 2005
132223 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 4:06 am to
You need to post this on the otl.
Posted by beebefootballfan
Member since Mar 2011
19008 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 7:41 am to
quote:

asian


Wait I thought DC was already married?
Posted by Arksulli
Fayetteville
Member since Aug 2014
25174 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 8:18 am to
There are plenty of women in the world who are ready to settle down. If this one isn't then move on.

She might be the type that isn't ever really ready to settle down after all.
Posted by mizzoukills
Member since Aug 2011
40686 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 8:35 am to
quote:

Just want her to realize that I would do anything for her because she IS the perfect girl for me.



She's not the perfect girl for you if she doesn't want to be the perfect girl for you...but you'll realize that over time.

This sort of stuff always takes time. Right now you're too blinded by her pussy on that pedestal.

Happens to most of us at some point in our journey. This is a learning lesson.

Move on now.
Posted by mizzoukills
Member since Aug 2011
40686 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 8:41 am to
quote:

She still says she wants to be with me..



She's not being truthful


quote:

But she doesn't want to get hurt again..



She's turning this around on you to make herself feel better for breaking up with you.


quote:

She's afraid of commitment I suppose



Wrong. Dead wrong. She simply wants to end it now so that she can frick other dudes in Arizona and not feel guilty about it.


quote:

Which sucks because that's all I want now.



Your perspective is blurred by her pussy on that pedestal. Sure it sucks, but she just did you a favor, dude! You can move on now and actually devote time to finding the right woman to be with. If you force yourself into the right frame of mind you'll realize that it's better that she broke up with you now than it happen after you got engaged or married due to her infidelity.

Plus, now that she's leaving for Arizona she won't be coming back to Arkansas, bro. LOL. Her end goal is a rich man located in Arizona or somewhere on the West Coast. She may not even know that or admit it yet...but that's the goal.

She's not coming back.

Move on.
Posted by hogfly
Fayetteville, AR
Member since May 2014
4633 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 8:42 am to
Yeah, bro.

Best advice is to let it go and move on.

Worst case: you both move on and you're now able to find someone who wants the same thing as you.

Best case: she realizes what she's missing after you set her free and decides she's ready to commit.

It's a win-win either way for you, because you're going to end up in a better relationship.
Posted by mizzoukills
Member since Aug 2011
40686 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 8:52 am to
If you're determined to win her back (which I strongly advise you against), there's only one way to approach it if you desire the slightest chance of success:

Immediately start dating other women.


I'm not joking. Start dating other women before she leaves for Arizona and make sure she physically sees you with other women. You need to make her believe that you've moved on (even if you haven't).

Nothing drives women crazier than their man dating other women. She'll either 1) fight to get you back, or 2) not give a shite which will prove to you that it's best that she broke up with you.

If she cares at all for you, she'll 100 percent care that you're dating other women. It'll drive her crazy. Women want their boyfriend and (to some extent) their ex-boyfriends to somewhat obsess about them. Women are attention whores for the most part. When another woman steals the attention of a man they once dated...well game on!

Women love the chase. They love the game. They play it better than most men want to admit. Women are masters at the game.

You have to flip the script and make her chase you. The only way she'll chase you is if she feels threatened by other women.

Dating other women is the most effective method to winning her back.

Competition is an incredible aphrodisiac.


[PS - Make sure you date women that are as good looking or better looking than she is. Very important]


Good luck.





This post was edited on 12/2/15 at 9:01 am
Posted by PygmalionEffect
Member since Jul 2012
4834 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 8:54 am to
quote:

She's turning this around on you to make herself feel better for breaking up with you.


This



So common. When we fall for someone, we'll try to hang our hats on any ridiculous thing a woman will say to make ourselves believe it's not over.

Men are very reality challenged in these situations.

You got five months out of that one, you're getting there, go after another one.
This post was edited on 12/2/15 at 8:55 am
Posted by sugatowng
Look at my bling Bitches
Member since Nov 2006
25329 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 8:57 am to
I'll just say that if she is going to ASU...she gone.

Tinder will get you through the holidays
Posted by Hawgeye
tFlagship Brothel
Member since Jun 2009
30918 posts
Posted on 12/2/15 at 9:52 am to
Can't properly help you without pics of female...
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