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Am I the only person who kinda agrees with Stehen A. Smith here?
Posted on 7/25/14 at 10:04 pm
Posted on 7/25/14 at 10:04 pm
Preface: I generally loathe that loud-mouthed buffoon and frequently find myself wondering how he has a job in that industry.
For reference, here is what he said:
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Essentially, it is never ok to hit a woman and he abhors men who do, but why do women get a pass when a man hits them after they did everything they could to physically and emotionally provoke him? I do not understand him to be talking about simple arguments, but when women start screaming and slapping and the like.
How many times have we witnessed, heard about or seen a video of a woman getting up in a guy's face, spitting on him, screaming at him, slapping him, shoving him and generally throwing a tantrum? In the situations where the man reacts and hits her, I believe it is wrong but why does nobody ever talk about the woman acting like a subhuman social reject? Those same woman all of sudden act shocked and scream about abuse, as if being a woman gives them a pass to act in such a manner free from consequence.
If you bow up and start doing everything in your power to provoke a man, IMO you cant get too upset when he treats you like one ESPECIALLY when you start the physical contact.
For reference, here is what he said:
LINK
Essentially, it is never ok to hit a woman and he abhors men who do, but why do women get a pass when a man hits them after they did everything they could to physically and emotionally provoke him? I do not understand him to be talking about simple arguments, but when women start screaming and slapping and the like.
How many times have we witnessed, heard about or seen a video of a woman getting up in a guy's face, spitting on him, screaming at him, slapping him, shoving him and generally throwing a tantrum? In the situations where the man reacts and hits her, I believe it is wrong but why does nobody ever talk about the woman acting like a subhuman social reject? Those same woman all of sudden act shocked and scream about abuse, as if being a woman gives them a pass to act in such a manner free from consequence.
If you bow up and start doing everything in your power to provoke a man, IMO you cant get too upset when he treats you like one ESPECIALLY when you start the physical contact.
Posted on 7/25/14 at 10:07 pm to Roger Klarvin
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Essentially, it is never ok to hit a woman and he abhors men who do, but
That's what walking into a mine field looks like if you're on national television.
Posted on 7/25/14 at 10:14 pm to Roger Klarvin
Got to learn to avoid the evil bitches early on... some never do. That is what makes the beautiful, sweet women of this world such a treasure that you will give your life for...
Posted on 7/25/14 at 10:30 pm to Roger Klarvin
Sorry man. No matter how nutso the woman is and, let's face it, most women be pretty nutso, you canNOT rearrange her face.
Just. can't. do. it.
Unless they are robbing your home. Then, even if they're pregnant, you can cap that biatch.
Just. can't. do. it.
Unless they are robbing your home. Then, even if they're pregnant, you can cap that biatch.
This post was edited on 7/25/14 at 10:31 pm
Posted on 7/25/14 at 10:30 pm to Roger Klarvin
Is this about the OU thing?
Never, ever punch a woman for any reason short of thwarting a terrorist attack. Yeah, some women take advantage of that rule. In most (all?) cases I've read about a good shove would have solved the problem, no broken bones involved. Unless the crazy woman has a knife or there are some really weird circumstances, the guy throwing a punch is wrong, every time. Doesn't matter how crazy the victim is.
Never, ever punch a woman for any reason short of thwarting a terrorist attack. Yeah, some women take advantage of that rule. In most (all?) cases I've read about a good shove would have solved the problem, no broken bones involved. Unless the crazy woman has a knife or there are some really weird circumstances, the guy throwing a punch is wrong, every time. Doesn't matter how crazy the victim is.
Posted on 7/25/14 at 10:33 pm to finestfirst79
Its not about any situation specifically, and I don't know the circumstances surrounding the Mixon incident.
Posted on 7/25/14 at 10:35 pm to finestfirst79
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the guy throwing a punch is wrong, every time
I agree, as does SAS. That isn't the point. The point is that the women, no matter how violent they were acting, never receive any blame or ire in these situations.
Im not talking about a man who beats women for the hell of it or over simple disputes, I'm talking about when the woman is physically provoking the man and acting like an animal.
Posted on 7/25/14 at 11:04 pm to Roger Klarvin
What about slapping with an open hand? Used to happen all the time in the old movies so that has to be OK, right?
Posted on 7/25/14 at 11:10 pm to Roger Klarvin
Posted on 7/25/14 at 11:13 pm to Roger Klarvin
This is one of those things that is always interesting to me. Largely because I always see that good majority of responses from men when asked are that you should never under any circumstances hit a woman. But as a woman, I feel like if I'm "man" enough to put my hands on a man then I'm asking to get hit back.
So I have to agree with Stephen A even if society doesn't.
So I have to agree with Stephen A even if society doesn't.
This post was edited on 7/25/14 at 11:14 pm
Posted on 7/25/14 at 11:16 pm to BluegrassBelle
I still think the man has to be the "bigger man" in that situation. Walk away. Get in your car and leave.
Posted on 7/25/14 at 11:30 pm to LittleJerrySeinfield
I can understand that. But I can also understand when a woman does some awful, awful shite to a man to the point that he snaps too. And if it comes to that I don't have a problem with him being charged with assault, but if she put his hands on him he better not be the only person sitting with an assault charge.
Posted on 7/25/14 at 11:41 pm to PrivatePublic
That better be the shake a bitch link
Posted on 7/25/14 at 11:49 pm to Roger Klarvin
Act like a lady and get treated like one. Act like a man and get treated like one.
Posted on 7/26/14 at 12:25 am to Roger Klarvin
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Im not talking about a man who beats women for the hell of it or over simple disputes, I'm talking about when the woman is physically provoking the man and acting like an animal.
Yeah, I get that. But it takes a man punching a woman for this to be any kind of story, right? If it's a Big Bertha hitting/slapping you then I can see it. Otherwise, no. There's just no justifiable reason to punch a normal-sized woman. Was she crazy out of control? Yeah, maybe. So what? A normal man has a huge physical advantage over a normal woman. There's just no reason to punch her when shoving her away or tackling her or putting the Full Nelson on her would make her stop. No bone fractures involved.
Posted on 7/26/14 at 12:29 am to Roger Klarvin
Posted on 7/26/14 at 12:43 am to finestfirst79
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If it's a Big Bertha hitting/slapping you
Is this a gateway statement to some good old fashioned fat shaming? Because I can get behind that
My point is, some women (definitely not all, and not even close to the majority in my experience) abuse societies unwritten rule about a male striking a female and think it gives them carte blanche to assault a dude without consequence.
Also, not every guy has an overwhelming physical advantage over a girl. She doesn't have to me Madea sized to pack a wallop.
Posted on 7/26/14 at 1:01 am to roadhouse
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I agree with Chris Rock...
Me too. Who wouldn't? "Shut the frick up" would solve a whole lot of problems if the recipient complied.
Posted on 7/26/14 at 1:11 am to TbirdSpur2010
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My point is, some women (definitely not all, and not even close to the majority in my experience) abuse societies unwritten rule about a male striking a female and think it gives them carte blanche to assault a dude without consequence.
The only thing I disagree with is "definitely not all". I call bullshite on that. ALL women do that. They know men won't hit them because men aren't supposed to hit women, ever. I don't mean all of them start punching guys because they can get away with it, but they ALL say crap they'd never say to another woman, for example, lest the other woman punches her in the face. As unfair as that sounds (and it is) I still have to go with "Don't hit women, ever." *Exceptions for terrorists, women with a handgun, MMA fighters, and Big Bertha.
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